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Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Nuezha(m): 4:01pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
striktlymi: No!! It makes you a "good" spouse. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by 9jatatafo(m): 4:03pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Cheating is very very wrong. Why would a spouse cheat on the other? The most sacred thing spouses share together shouldn't been given to outsider. 1 Like |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by freecocoa(f): 4:05pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
MizMyColi:I for say o. 1 Like |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by carik(m): 4:09pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Dyt: Where's the kissing audition? |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
striktlymi: Get something straight. A cheating spouse is an indication that he/she is selfish. It shows that the spouse does not put his/her partner first, does not consider their feelings and has never given a thought to it that his infidelity could actually expose his partner to danger of terrible STDs. No matter how you try to paint it, that one fact stands out. And that fact alone makes him a bad person. Ofcourse we all make mistakes. But infidelity is not exactly a mistake. It is a deliberate action aimed at self gratification. 4 Likes |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by carik(m): 4:12pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
mutter: Silliest ever! 1 Like |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by goshen26: 4:12pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
59 Jas 2:10 For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all. 1 Like |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by An2elect2(f): 4:13pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
hermesprogidy: if i hear o! |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Dubemkelly(m): 4:14pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
No... Most men are unfaithful but they are still good enough to their families... Its just an habit which needs the grace of God to change, it becomes bad if the man or woman neglects the home responsibilities |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by MizMyColi(f): 4:15pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
freecocoa: That emoji made me smile broadly. I won't go into details. Just thought to let you know. Thank You. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by westernhub: 4:16pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
MizMyColi: |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by carik(m): 4:18pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Hollyb: Madam,no sin is unforgivable Always have that forgiving spirit. Stuffs like that can haunt you some other time if you in that position. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Dyt(f): 4:21pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
mxxpunkxx1: Replied but my email Addy is exactly down on my signature, that was so easy to crack or was it so hard to see? |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Nobody: 4:22pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
This issue of infidelity in marriage is sensitive , but i always maintain one stand, that is the bible stand "do unto others as you would want them do to you". To all men and women who feel cheating is not bad, let me ask one question -- how would you feel if your spouse cheats on you,, I dont think it would go down well.... Sorry if i am sounding righteous, if you love sex so much and you must cheat, please there are many prostitutes and playboys who can satisfy your needs. Do not commit to a man/woman if you can respect yourself, and if you must have to cheat, you are probably tired of your man/woman..then call off the marriage/relationship rather than subjecting people to emotional and health hazard. 2 Likes |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by blackbeau1(f): 4:22pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Yep,it does. 1 Like |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Edusouls(m): 4:23pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
i quoted you harshly cos, you women of nowadays are very ureasonable, and that's the cause of extreme headaches men are going through nowadays, sometimes we begin to wonder if women are realy helpers or men's doom.. ammyluv2002: 1 Like |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Nobody: 4:24pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Infidelity doesn't make one a bad spouse but unfaithful and irresponsible spouse. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by loswhite(m): 4:27pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
striktlymi:not all, If you can condone cheating then u don't have a problem.you can just enjoy the other tins that he/she is faithful @ and take ur share of puny/rod anytime it is given |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by ammyluv2002(f): 4:28pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Edusouls: |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by teemy(m): 4:33pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
I remember the marriage vows of a mentor of mine. - To love her and her alone forgetting all others. Every one has others but once you have made up your mind to marry one, the others must be evacuated totally off your mind. When you then do with any other what you should do alone with your one you are breaking a vow as well as putting your one at risk of infections. Irregardless of the reason, it is not justified. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by IleIfe2(m): 4:38pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
What's the point of getting married if you won't be loyal to your partner? 1 Like |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Ijobaorun(m): 4:38pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Not a BAD spouse alone but an IRESPONSIBLE man as well. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by freecocoa(f): 4:42pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
MizMyColi:It's all good and you are quite welcome. 1 Like |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
[size=8pt]I did not even expect issue like this to be discussed! Extra-marital affair will kill the family if the husband/wife fails to kill it. SAY NO TO EVIL[/size][b][/b] |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Eluwilussit(m): 4:45pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Faithfulness is the bedrock of every marriage. Unfortunately, the truth is that most people are unfaithful. It has been so since our ancestors. If you can't deal with it, then move on. If you can, forgive and love again. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by OBlaize(f): 5:05pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
[b][/b] ammyluv2002:first of all madam this is a very shit arsed comment! What has god got to do with it, its a very simple question requiring a very simple answer, ur saying infidelity is not really bad provided he's providing for u undermines ur requesting for a faithful patner, afterall u don't really c it as bad, and as you mr nairaland poster ar you asking the question to know or are you asking just so u'd get entertained, this is by far the dumbest question ever!! What extraordinary thing have you done if you provide for your family? If you can't provide for them why have them in the first place, if you can only provide and not stay faithful to your family then don't bother getting married and having a family,you should just stick to runs girls, they need people like you! Just saying, no beef intended 1 Like |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by ammyluv2002(f): 5:07pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
OBlaize:Hisssssssssss 1 Like |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Nobody: 5:34pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
Dyt: Lol I sent u an email with subject, Hello Dyt Awaiting ur reply |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Nobody: 5:35pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
YES. |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Prospero01(m): 5:38pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
ladyabadi: Seriously I find it funny when ladies have this mindset. What is a man suppose to do if not to provide for his family? What is a man suppose to do if not assume the responsibility of being a man,husband and father. That he gives U all this does not make him good because that is his social responsibility as a man. It's foolishness and insanity of the highest olympian height to imagine providing for my wife as a good thing. What makes it better and not good is respecting the marital vow. I fear women like U. So much to say... Let me stop here. 3 Likes |
Re: Does Infidelity Make One A Bad Spouse? by Infomaz(m): 5:45pm On Feb 16, 2015 |
striktlymi: The reality though is that infidelity or sin is hardly singular. Lies and dishonesty are its twin brothers. Then there's the inability to provide the moral example n spiritual headship and that is required of the Man - the family is spiritually exposed to attacks by the 'strange' woman and others. In addition, the woman is exposed to STDs including HIV. Furthermore, children could be born out of wedlock and before long unplanned polygamy may result. I could go on and on, but the point is that infidelity in particular and sin in general, is hardly singular. Sooner than later, it will become plural and then gradually engulf and imprison the man in terrible situations that may shorten his life. 4 Likes |
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