Question for the ladies!


Why is it that it always got to be the guy who needs to pay all the bills on a date, even when you also like him and you have a job too?

I prefer that each person pays for their meals at the getting to know you stage. When guys pay, they think they have already paid bride price and start demanding things. If our relationship actually moves further we will discuss how we want to pay for things when we go out. A nice split of financial responsibilities seem fair to me.

But hey, that's just me

Obadar:
Question for the ladies!


Why is it that it always got to be the guy who needs to pay all the bills on a date, even when you also like him and you have a job too?

Well for me, it depends on who initiated it. If she asks me out, she pays and vice-versa

What makes you think that))) any ladies will ask you out

cloudyskyglind:

Well for me, it depends on who initiated it. If she asks me out, she pays and vice-versa

Obadar:
Question for the ladies!


Why is it that it always got to be the guy who needs to pay all the bills on a date, even when you also like him and you have a job too?

some women brag to their female friends about how they dont have to buy food because they have guys lined up footing the dinner and drink bill.
A lot of young guys get suckered because
of "First Impressions" smh

pinkycute:
What makes you think that))) any ladies will ask you out

Well, he's handsome for a start

Depend on the girl,but most times guys pay the bills

For me))) I see no big deal on it...
If you wanna take a lady out for a date and you don't have enough money for the bills, please let her know "So that she might bring money along with her to avoid embarrassment

Though" Some guys prefer the paying because it's kind of embarrassing to them if ladies do the bills

However, guys feel, is the best way to attract a lady ( by spending cash )

Well, only stingy guys do complain about that and I tink you're one of them @Op

I know

But that doesn't answer the question

Crocz:

Well, he's handsome for a start

pinkycute:
What makes you think that))) any ladies will ask you out

forget that question and make sure that you have money the day you ask me out. else na your jewelleries them go cease

pinkycute:
For me))) I see no big deal on it...
If you wanna take a lady out for a date and you don't have enough money for the bills, please let her know "So that she might bring money along with her to avoid embarrassment

Though" Some guys prefer the paying because it's kind of embarrassing to them if ladies do the bills

However, guys feel, is the best way to attract a lady ( by spending cash )

Well, only stingy guys do complain about that and I tink you're one of them @Op

Lmao...u judqin moi basd on d thread..daris qod ooooo....

Question for ladies you said.

But that's true nahhhh

Only stingy guys do complain

Obadar:




Lmao...u judqin moi basd on d thread..daris qod ooooo....

Welepamilayo:
I prefer that each person pays for their meals at the getting to know you stage. When guys pay, they think they have already paid bride price and start demanding things. If our relationship actually moves further we will discuss how we want to pay for things when we go out. A nice split of financial responsibilities seem fair to me.

But hey, that's just me

Err...You sure you ain't a white chick?

pinkycute:
But that's true nahhhh

Only stingy guys do complain

Lol..iz u dat knw dat 1 jus wantd 2knw u quyz view...

TristanReveur:


Err...You sure you ain't a white chick?

Or I am just a sensible person. I live my life with the consciousness of what I can bring to the table, not what other people must do for me. It is very unfortunate that most people have this idea that all women are just about the take take.

Welepamilayo:


Or I am just a sensible person. I live my life with the consciousness of what I can bring to the table, not what other people must do for me. It is very unfortunate that most people have this idea that all women are just about the take take.

Hmmn. Your generalisations are perhaps accurate but the truth of it is probably more convoluted. When we go on our first date, plix let me sort.

Obadar:


Lol..iz u dat knw dat 1 jus wantd 2knw u quyz view...

pls resend your mail to diddylala2014@gmail.com


My NL email neva eva delivers

took a lady out on a date. just before it ended, she asked for some money to make breakfast the next day. I refused to oblige her, citing some personal reasons. later before we departed, she tells me she's testing me and would not have collected the money if i finally gave it to her.

I'm a a bit worried. & the ff questions run through my mind

why test me like that?
what was she trying to achieve? Do women test guys like that nowadays?
Did she really need the money but ended up pretending when i refused?
why would someone ask such on a first date?

ladies & gentlemen, pls your constructive response is needed.

This OP you sef you strong o, how can you take a girl out on a first date and expect her to pay, what kind of impression do you want to leave?

Obadar:
Question for the ladies!


Why is it that it always got to be the guy who needs to pay all the bills on a date, even when you also like him and you have a job too?

Guy, it is not a crime for a guy to settle the bills as far as it is the first date.

Which kain mumu thread be this, you ask a girl out and you expect her to pay? Na so you cheap reach, abeg go buy lube to masturbate o

bill or no bill who brought the idea of date....let he or she pay.