Work on Yourself
Fewer things are sexier to women than a man who is actively
improving himself. Best of all, you’re going to improve your
life in the process and who knows? You might even meet some
women while you’re at it. Think about getting a gym
membership, taking a class or reading about a subject that
you’ve always been interested. Enriching yourself is never a
waste of your time and it will make you be absolutely
irresistible to women.


Prioritize Your Time
Speaking of time, you’ve only got so much of it. That means
you need to start prioritizing. Work and career come first. Then
the self-improvement we discussed above, along with your
other passions and hobbies. After that, you’ve got time for your
social life, including dating. When you prioritize your time like
this, you’re sending a few subtle messages: First, that you are
important. Second, that your time is valuable. When you
choose to spend your time on a woman it means a lot more
when it has that kind of value. She’ll notice.


Build Confidence
Some guys are born with it. For the rest of us, confidence is a
bit like a muscle: You need to work on it for people to notice it.
How do you do that? Well, you’re off to a good start if you’re
improving yourself and prioritizing your time. Other things
you can do to build confidence include:
Walking Tall: Look at men that you admire, classic icons of
manliness like Steve McQueen, Clint Eastwood or Bruce
Willis. Note how they walk. Now imitate it. If you need a
little help, combat boots, biker boots and cowboy boots will
give you a manly gait.
Smile Big: A good, genuine smile — with your whole face
and not just your mouth — is a great way to project both
confidence and friendliness at the same time. Smiling is
infectious and a good smile can get her smiling and
laughing.
Acknowledge Your Achievement: As men, we all too often
dismiss our own accomplishments as “just doing our job.”
Take a second to acknowledge that you’re good at what you
do.
Get Used to Talking to Strangers: Banter everywhere you
go: In line at the supermarket, at the sports bar, with people
you work with. Everywhere. Getting comfortable with
bantering with strangers is the better part of being confident
around women.


Use Your Body Language
One of the best ways to attract women and be irresistible to
them is through body language. First, you want to have a big
smile when you start talking to a woman. This shows that you
are friendly and nonthreatening. Second, you shouldn’t stand
talking to a woman directly facing her. Approach her this way,
introduce yourself, then quickly pivot to her side. Turn toward
her a bit when you’re speaking to her, then turn away, leaning
in to hear her. It takes a lot of pressure off of her, while also
showing you as a man of confidence and independence.


Give Her Space
When you hang on a girl all night, you can make her
uncomfortable and also seem a little clingy: That’s a total
attraction killer. Instead, talk to other women, go out and
dance, touch base with your friends. You can work the room a
little while also making time with her. Not only are you giving
her space, you’re also demonstrating value by letting her know
that you’re not placing all your hopes on one woman for the
whole night.


Pursue With Purpose
When you see a woman that you want to talk to, you should
approach her immediately, or close to it. Women can sense the
hesitation. When you approach immediately and purposefully,
it shows you as a man of conviction and confidence — two
traits that are irresistible to women.


Make Your Move
You need to make a move. Not only is it a confidence move, we
also hear from women all the time that they were interested in a
guy… but he didn’t make a move, so she assumed that he
wasn’t into it. You don’t need to wait for a specific moment —
just a high point when it feels right.

How many ladies are this for op?

I dont like the part about bantering with strangers everywhere he goes.
like seriously now everywhere? really?

Thats just trying too much dont you think?

*yawns......

Pls, anyone with #50 ? I no know say weed don finish for my pocket

This Love tin no get better gain...Don't emotional topics bore u?

all these list of a thing don taya person for nairaland jare

veekid:
all these list of a thing don taya person for nairaland jare

dude if nairaland don tire you.....enter stripperland

Chilling With Ma Rap of Eskay

Op, I Believe You Have a 1001 Galfrynds Already.....if Nt, ....

OP,
Some good points you have BUT i still think this is relative.
Some of them babes just want to see you in your true form - best of it anyway.
Too much packaging just to impress can be deceptive - and - when you eventually slip up and the true you is revealed - Very risky !!!

Players don't mind the risk though - cos most girls too will always be Girls!

childluck:
OP,
Some good points you have BUT i still think this is relative.
Some of them babes just want to see you in your true form - best of it anyway.
Too much packaging just to impress can be deceptive - and - when you eventually slip up and the true you is revealed - Very risky !!!

Players don't mind the risk though - cos most girls too will always be Girls!

so what do you reckon?

Enuf of all these "how-to" tips/guides on relating with the opposite sex.. if sum1 likes yhu.. Let dem like yhu juz d way u are.. No need 4 fronting nd sh!t.

childluck:
OP,
Some good points you have BUT i still think this is relative.
Some of them babes just want to see you in your true form - best of it anyway.
Too much packaging just to impress can be deceptive - and - when you eventually slip up and the true you is revealed - Very risky !!!

Players don't mind the risk though - cos most girls too will always be Girls!

You nailed it. Little packaging with your real self is killing and appealing anytime, anyday.

iLovePusssy:
Enuf of all these "how-to" tips/guides on relating with the opposite sex.. if sum1 likes yhu.. Let dem like yhu juz d way u are.. No need 4 fronting nd sh!t.

what a great words coming from such MONIKER

zick19:
*yawns......

Pls, anyone with #50 ? I no know say weed don finish for my pocket

lemme do u a favour

*hands him cupful of saw dust*













Rastaman

ennon92:
lemme do u a favour

*hands him cupful of saw dust*













Rastaman

chai!!!!! i been dey think say na my situation worst pass, i no know say i still get senior......... Abeg, which kind weed you dey smoke? sorry, i don forget say na sawdust

Slimzjoe:
Chilling With Ma Rap of Eskay

Op, I Believe You Have a 1001 Galfrynds Already.....if Nt, ....

is working for me.......I am irresistable!!!!!, don't you want to be irresistable?

falconey:
is working for me.......I am irresistable!!!!!, don't you want to be irresistable?

Irresistible And Not Irresistable


By the way, I don't think I have to Use all dhiz Methods

Slimzjoe:



Irresistible And Not Irresistable


By the way, I don't think I have to Use all dhiz Methods

typing error sorry....I got the 1st one right didn't I?