sistawoman:

Speak to her family and ask them to talk to her.

Tell your soon-to-be wife and let her handle it.

Do the above things if you are not man enough to just tell her don't call me or come to my house. And if she does, don't pick the calls and yell at her if she comes to your house.

But one thing for certian that you MUST do is tell your woman about what she is trying to do, because the Ex's next move is going to be to try to break you and your woman up even if she has to lie.

klassyguy:

If u read the story well, u'll have seen that i have told her on several occasions. My babe knows about the girl. So it is not a question of whether i'm man enough or not. Thanx for the advice though.

Vonny:

Klassyguy

After years of pretending, you've finally found love. Your family adores her and vice versa (which is very crucial for any relationship to last and work). You don't love your ex, you never have. Telling her you'll think about her pleas for your love is like breaking her heart, and using it to play bball with your boys. After you've broken up with a girl, never ever tell her 'you'll think about it', this is nothing but false hope and it will drag the process of moving on (on her part). My suggestion to you, is to cut all forms of communication with this girl. It's been 3YEARS since you guys broke up and she still hasn't healed. Moreover, she's THREATENING YOU and I quote "She then started threatening that whether i liked it or not, i was hers, and it’s either i marry her or no one else," WTF? Why are you still talking to this girl? Why does she have your number? I hope to goodness she doesn't know your address, because If she's threatening you, you can only imagine what she'll do to your baby (the woman who has taken her place). I strongly believe, that for your own safety and sanity (and your baby's too) you should cut off all communication with this girl. She's a hazard to herself, and your relationship.

omega25red:

change your number and never call her again. If that doesn't work do what sistawoman said talk to her family and let them handle it.

klassyguy:

she said she didn’t mind, that she just wanted me back in her life, and if it takes for her to sacrifice her body, she’ll play along. EWOOO!!! Just to get her off my neck, i told her i’ll think about it.

bronx_dog:

you are a kokoma boy - only you, thre relatonships in a row - your dik no dey rest? na wao - so you don dey nack woman since after secondary school till after youth service, when you don use them finish, you now wan settle down, na yah past dey worry you now, and to add salt to inhury, you dey tell the girl say you go just end up foking her, wetin you wan make she talk na, see yo, your prick dey rise at that time abi? you be mumu, any attempt to insert your dik inside her pussie again, na I'm be say, your own don better, you don see wife be that, her juju go just catch yo, my advice na say you need deliverance, send me five women, making sure say your present woman dey amongst them, we need to bath them for bar beach, and i need to nack her seven times before your problem go solve, if not, you don hear wuen ni yen o.

bronx_dog:

you are a kokoma boy - only you, thre relatonships in a row - your dik no dey rest? na wao - so you don dey nack woman since after secondary school till after youth service, when you don use them finish, you now wan settle down, na yah past dey worry you now, and to add salt to inhury, you dey tell the girl say you go just end up foking her, wetin you wan make she talk na, see yo, your prick dey rise at that time abi? you be mumu, any attempt to insert your dik inside her pussie again, na I'm be say, your own don better, you don see wife be that, her juju go just catch yo, my advice na say you need deliverance, send me five women, making sure say your present woman dey amongst them, we need to bath them for bar beach, and i need to nack her seven times before your problem go solve, if not, you don hear wuen ni yen o.

klassyguy:

[b]Please can u refrain from smoking dry grass laced with alligator pepper before coming to post on any forum? know say na harmathan season we dey and all that smoking and hot sun no dey good for man brain.[/b]

klassyguy:

Please can u refrain from smoking dry grass laced with alligator pepper before coming to post on any forum?  know say na harmathan season we dey and all that smoking and hot sun no dey good for man brain.

netotse:

na wa o. . . u say u dnt want her back and when she calls u too u will now follow her to be talking love abi?(when u shldnt even be talking to her in the first place!) like er'one says be firm! if u have to talk to her(which we've all agreed u shldnt), end the conversation immediately she starts any talk about the two of you past or present. and one more thing i agree with bronx dog(to some extent) and stephen p on the sleeping with her matter: wot were u thinking of when u sed it? guy wake up o! if u sleep with her your own don be-be that!