Fighting brings out the worst in
everyone—and, at the end of the day,
the only behavior you can really control is your own. But there are
things you can do to turn a potentially
destructive argument into a
productive, healing meeting of the
minds—and get to that make-up sex
a whole lot quicker. AVOID “I DIDN’T DO THAT” If your girlfriend is saying something
you don’t agree with, your first
instinct may be to shoot down what
she’s saying with an “I didn’t do that,”
“That’s not what I meant,” or “That’s
not what happened.” The problem is, this will just keep you
tied up in the minutiae of the fight.
Understand that what’s important is
that you both feel you’re being heard,
not that you both agree on the
particulars of what happened. Focusing on disputing each other’s
details is a waste of time and will only
annoy her more. DON’T HEAR, LISTEN This might sound obvious, but it’s
actually the hardest thing to do. When
you’re in an argument, check your
mental process: I bet you’re spending
20% of your energy listening and
80% figuring out what to say in response. But concentrating on listening to
what she’s actually saying is the best
way to defuse an argument, says
Bonnie Jacobson, Ph.D., co-author of
Choose to Be Happily Married. Though
it may feel cheesy, the phrase, “What I’m hearing from you is…” is an
absolutely essential thing to have in
your arsenal. TOUCH HER… CAREFULLY “Physical contact is a great way to
calm both of you down,” says
Jacobson. But be warned, the last
thing she wants is to feel you’re
invading her space, telling her to chill
out or diffusing the situation cheaply. So touch with caution. Holding her
hand or gently rubbing her shoulder
are both safe options. Hugging her
may be OK, too, but ask her
permission before going full contact. And whatever you do, don’t attempt
anything that could be construed as
coming on to her. The only thing a
woman hates more than a guy she’s
pissed at is a guy she’s pissed at
who’s really just trying to get laid. And Finally… The Make-up Sex Don’t jump the gun here. Wait till
you’ve both laughed about the fight
and started talking about other things
—a sign her mind is starting to get
past the argument. Then kiss her to
test the waters. If she kisses you back, it’s on.
Remember the key to great make-up sex: slow and passionate. If she still has some anger she wants to let out
and starts to take it to a kinkier place,
go with it. But let her be the one to
direct it that way. And while it’s
certainly easier said than done, try not
to finish before she does.

Hmmmm. Very useful. Good one OP!

Abeg girl wen want fvck go fvck, no be until una quarel.

Okay

Blackett:
Dumbass.

Is that link on the romance section? I too sabi oshi.

I agree that that was a mistake and I take full responsibilty for my actions

Thanks

simplemach:
Abeg girl wen want fvck go fvck, no be until una quarel.

I guess you just jumped into conclusion without painstakingly reading in between the Lines.

Make up sex can be bad when the woman gets in fights all the time because she knows she's going to get a good pounding
More like angry sex to me

mrking3:
I guess you just jumped into conclusion without painstakingly reading in between the Lines.

i read everything bros

I didn't bother reading but I love it
Nothing beats make up sex
Simple amazing.
*body by black magic ft banky*

Blackett:
Using sex to end a fight is great.

But using sex to end a fight when you haven't discussed the issue behind the fight and sorted them out, is childish.

The problem will re occur, and sex will not always cover up the shortcomings. . . It's quite genius, but it has to be done in a very mature way.

you're correct. I noticed each time I engage in misunderstanding with my Fiancee, we resolve it with Hot Romance. Not necessarily sex tho! She often initiates the move.

Wild west nigerians...


Sex sex sex....never tired of doing research about sex...

The real sex is how the government Bleep Nigerians without condom..

Sex help clare/free your mind...what next

Activities abi....lol.....sleep

Dyt:
I didn't bother reading but I love it
Nothing beats make up sex
Simple amazing.
*body by black magic ft banky*

JayKayMaybachz:

Them thief ur boxers?

Dyt:




Them thief ur boxers?

Maka Why?

m a

Twaci:
Hmmmm. Very useful. Good one OP!

I'm gonna use da technique on u

Testing 1 2 3

Blackett:
Fvck no.

Next time you won't be so forward.

This nigga crazy.

Nothing beats make up sex, Simple amazing.



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