Gay alert

akhere000:
They all got tattooed and bleeched up der skin...so many piercing.. Too bad...I bless God for making me so pretty ..I love my luck

looking good

I think I knw ur prob first stop self servicin and ask God for mercy den we cn start frm dere https://www.nairaland.com/1999511/what-sinful-self-servicing

Ontarget:
I just decided say this here so I can hear from folks to tell me something I don't know or whatever is the problem and anything that can be done about it. And please I ain't gay so no one should bother bringing up that word.

Like the topic says, I find a lot of girls unappealing. I mean if 1000 girls are selected at random I would only feel attracted to just one or possibly none. On very few occasions in my entire life I have seen some girls I really admired but the circumstances which I saw them made it impossible to meet any of them cos there are certain situations where it's not advisable to approach ladies to avoid insults and embarrassment. The truth of the matter is that I have never met and been friends with a girl I admired not to talk of dating anyone. I have only dated just one girl in my life and it wasn't because I loved her. I never loved her but I only decided to date her cos I started to feel frustrated and tired of being single all my life. My decision was to manage what was available. As time went on this girl kept asking if I truly loved her cos she noticed my lack of affection for her. Eventually she got tired of me being uncaring and she left me. Even when I visit dating sites, 2 weeks will pass and I will only send a message to a single girl in spite of the thousands of profiles available. But unfortunately dating sites only benefit ladies and I have stopped going to dating sites. The girls are always busy with tons of messages so replies will likely never come. As it stands now am thinking of a way to forget about ladies and focus on other things in life.

How do we really describe this kind of situation? Like I said before I AIN'T GAY. Is anyone having this same problem?

It happens to me as well. My friends always say am too choosy. Don't mind the folks trying to convince you that you are gay that's some Nigerians for you with their reasoning.

zaralady:
I think I knw ur prob first stop self servicin and ask God for mercy den we cn start frm dere https://www.nairaland.com/1999511/what-sinful-self-servicing

Lol. You are funny. I got pissed with people making a big deal out of self servicing so I decided to put up that question to them.
So you think it has to do with self servicing? Tell me you were joking.