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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by cococandy(f): 8:34pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
Evina: Honey he really proves himself in ways I can't communicate but I claim this one too I addition to then other blessings I get everyday. Amen You too. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by steppin: 8:50pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
Joy1706:Laughing alone at ur silly posts? It runs in the family. How's ur mother? She still dey murmur for yaba left? Just give it a year, you'll join her. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Dyt(f): 9:47pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
Abali1 |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by thorpido(m): 10:36pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
dre11:This is what must have happened and I blame the woman.The standard thing is to both go for the test together and when the result is out,the lab scientist or doctor declares it to you both.Same thing with tests like HIV. You don't just take verbal statements as enough proof. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Joy1706(f): 11:41pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
steppin:I'm laughing at your inherent stupidity which you obviously inherited from your parents and which you'll definitely pass down to your children. Now go and cuddle up wit yo mama, that's if shez not on night duty *wink*. Again, hahahahahahahahahahah!!!!!!! |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 1:40am On Mar 07, 2015 |
cococandy: I truly did not wanna rain on her parade ....but that post can mislead a lot of people....add misguided faith to an already overblown "religiousity", bam! Sicklers everywhere! Totally heart breaking seeing a sicker having a pain riddled haemolytic crisis That post is an epitome of one of our biggest problems as a country.. 4 Likes |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by amokeme(f): 4:04am On Mar 07, 2015 |
am really surprised at posters saying "just because of genotype" seriously, if you don't know the pain and agony these ss kids go through you wont understand. the woman did the right thing. I personally feel its pure wickedness bringing children into this word to suffer all because of ignorance or "blinded love" on the part of the parents. 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Noloss(f): 4:14am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Though I don't support divorce but dats a serious matter. Come to think of it, if dey av SS child, d fin stress and traumal d child will go thru Islie: |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 8:04am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Dyt:Why you dey call my name |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Dyt(f): 8:07am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 8:18am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Dyt:Am actually very much in a good mood. How are you? |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 8:43am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Having gone through some of the posts in this thread, I will say those arguing that the woman took the best decision are right in their own opinion. But let's also take the seriousness of the marital vow into consideration. What the woman is doing now is what she should have done during courtship. Being afraid of having a SS child is not enough reason to end a marriage. Moreover she already has a child, who is AA. My question, why not stop at that one and give him the best you can offer? What if that AA had been SS and the husband decided to end the marriage, how will she have taken it? . My point is this, 1) She is already married, and her fears is not enough reason to seek for a divorce. 2) Her son will now grow up without the love of at least one parent. cos his home is already broken. 3) She could have chosen to give her child the best, and equally give hubby a choice in raising his own kid. . 4) Being SS is not a death sentence. And I will continue to advice against AS/AS couple getting married. But since they were already married, she should tried to make her marriage work............etc 3 Likes |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by steppin: 9:32am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Joy1706:*wink*? Kai! This girl na Olosho! Something tells me this silly girl is Dyt and she logged in with another account, just to breathe down on my neck. Sadly, ur replies are boring. It doesn't amuse me anymore. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Dyt(f): 9:35am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: Am fine What if she wants more kids? She shldnt have divorced? And sometimes inlaws can be really crazy, Yoruba's will say olomo kan never born ooo. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 9:43am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Dyt:what if her first kid had been SS? Would she have divorced? 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Dyt(f): 9:46am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: So she cld have stayed? I bet u, in no time that love they share will go sour |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 10:12am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Dyt:I am saying, she should have stayed and given her son the best she could. Divorcing the man on the grounds of AS/AS is just too flimsy. Look at it this way, if her son were to be SS and her husband had left her (as some men do) won't the world be shouting how wicked men are? . Moreover that child may grow up without the love and guide of a Father. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Dyt(f): 10:20am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: Well we all are entitled to our opinions To me, she clicked right And who says the child will grow without fatherly love? Abeg make I go chop before I start blabbing |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 10:41am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Dyt:It's actually funny how women tends to support a point of view when it favors them. But when the table is turned against them, they start screaming about how evil the men folk are. I will still ask, if this woman's son were to be SS will she be quick to seek a divorce If the hubby had left her because she bore a SS, will she also see it as being fair . By the way, the world has never been fair...... It's all about self interest. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Dyt(f): 10:43am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: Are u saying she shld wait till she's got one SS? Na wa ooo OK what if the child happened to be SS and she still leaves? Bad decision? |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 10:55am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Dyt:I doubt that she would have left if the child were to be SS. I am not saying she should have gotten an SS. NO. Rather she should have taken into considerations that she already has a AA, and try to give that child a better life within the confines of marriage. If she needed more children there is always an option for adoption. Moreover, she didn't consider her husband and ask the question......."if the tables were turned, how will he have acted?" . Courtship is a period of learning. A testing ground before marriage proper. Why didn't she try to be double sure about her husband's genotype before signing the dotted lines? . Anyway some are even saying that marriage is over flogged. 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by dre11(m): 11:05am On Mar 07, 2015 |
thorpido: That's where the woman did act foolish.... She believe her word and decide to go with the marriage plans What happens to going together and have the test. Am sure the guy didn't show her the report of the test.... She just assumed. Maybe the guy says thus when in the heat of having fun with her and a guy can go to any length to have his way into her skirt and he says that. The two are suppose to go there and have the test. To me there is more to the divorce than the genotype |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Dyt(f): 11:06am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: U can't just be so sure Not everyone wants adoption and sticking with just a child |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by dre11(m): 11:06am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: Thank you sir for the emboldened part 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Abali1(m): 11:36am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Dyt:Ok. We can always agree to disagree. And disagree to agree. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by babie78: 2:41pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
I know a colleague that the husband forged the test result to show he was AA . So for Those saying she did not see the test result how do we know . A man that can lie about that will have told several other lies and he is Very evil . If the lady had lied that she was Virgin and the man discovered that place was like a trailer park i am sure people here would have been calling for her blood 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Joy1706(f): 5:17pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
steppin:Aint Dyt and yes I agree wit u ....ur mama na olosho |
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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by lolaxavier(m): 8:20pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
DuchessLily: I know the guy lied but somehow, i believe the wife was just looking for an avenue to opt out. I guess she already has someone or else, she wouldnt have vacated the house that way... 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Loyalblak007(f): 8:21pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Seeing is Believing... even in ur marriage |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 8:22pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
DuchessLily:are you for real,I shake my head for you |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by samkolo(m): 8:24pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
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