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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by October1960: 10:44pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Regards to quote below - SS is not a death sentence. All humans are going to die regardless of genotype. Some 'AA' die early for all sorts of reasons, car accident, malaria, etc. Every life is precious and meaningful. Also people should be free to divorce if they so choose. You cannot make a man or woman stay in a Marriage they longer desire. Marriage is such a personal close relationship that no matter the external pressures, no one will be in a marriage they don't want. It can be difficult to explain to outsiders. Abali1: |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Fawklicant: 10:46pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: OK. I get it. The one in four chance is in every pregnancy. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Fawklicant: 10:53pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
If the trust damage can be repaired, then there is always a way around every situation.
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Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by GodMode: 10:55pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Abali1: If u're one of the lucky sicklers who didn't really experience pain... Then stop living in denial... My opinion remains: Sickle cell is worse than a death sentence... |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 10:58pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
thorpido: It's actually a 25% chance of having an SS child for every birth |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by eagleeye2: 11:00pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
GodMode:Many Warriors will find this statement very offensive and insensitive. Do you think that you and yours are better than all warriors out there? Please Google T.boz of TLC, she is a warrior and she is living her dreams. And also read about the guy you are quoting, Abali1 maybe you will begin to change your perspective about people living with SS. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by macdelene(m): 11:00pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
DuchessLily: I read a topic that was posted sometime ago where the gentle men that response to the topic said they can never marry an As or even SS even if they are AA. Some say it will spoil their family line. Nw u can see even the lady does nt want to spoil her family line tooo |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by GodMode: 11:07pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
eagleeye2: I don't believe his a sickler.. He may have seen what sicklers go through and enlightened himself... No sickler will find that comment offensive and insensitive... |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 11:08pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Dyt: You do know a bone marrow transplant is as good a cure for sickle cell anemia |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Anglovel: 11:09pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
The two posters above me..............the situation this woman found herself is a very serious situation.The man lied to her but it's not just the lie but the consequences of two people with the AS genotype in a marriage. As it stand now they have a high probability of having a child with the SS genotype.Dealing with that in a family is no child's play. True Talk... |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by GodMode: 11:13pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
neoapocalypse: Its not really suitable for sicklers above 16 - 18 Survival rate of BMT is low for adults.. Bone marrow transplant is expensive... |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by eagleeye2: 11:13pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
GodMode:hmmmm. >: how can you be so sure So he enlightened himself just to please who exactly He is also the administrator of a Facebook page, Naija Sickle Cell Warriors. . I don't think you have gone through his numerous threads. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by GodMode: 11:18pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
eagleeye2: Not to please anyone... But whatever he saw changed his perspective.. Besides, u could be his second moniker trying to get me to read his threads... |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 11:20pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
GodMode: True , still doesn't nullify the fact that it's as good a cure for it |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by GodMode: 11:22pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
neoapocalypse: Yes... For babies.. And children not more than 10 - 12.. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by mjay91: 11:24pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
There are different type of SS. Some SS do not have crisis at all, some have mild crisis while other have severe crisis. To those that visit hospital regularly, being SS is actually a death sentence. Not being able to walk due to leg ulcer or bone pains is a serious illness. The woman is 100% right and I strongly support her. Pls & pls AS and AS shd not marry. 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by eagleeye2: 11:29pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
GodMode:Seriously You must have a very vivid imagination. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by GodMode: 11:32pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
eagleeye2: My brain is a wonder worker |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by delishpot: 11:35pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
DuchessLily: She should play 'try your luck' with her next child ba?If you see the surffer wey Sickle cell pikin dey surffer, you go wish say the mama nor marry at all, at all. Talkless of get bele and born. Hmnnnn, isokay. Make I sidon dey watch the mentality of Nigeria's future. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 12:33am On Mar 08, 2015 |
Evina: Story for the gods 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by draggie(f): 12:51am On Mar 08, 2015 |
you are right, my genotype also changed from AS to AA, God is always faithful & there is nothing he can not do. Upon receiving our pre marital medical reports, my fiance told me God changed his genotype, from AS to AA. I laughed it off, not because I don't believe in miracles; having personally experienced several, but because he could be very mischievous. He insisted and asked me to ask his mum. So I asked, "mummy, what is your son's genotype?" She said, " AS". I asked again, for certainty, she said, "AS of course, what's the matter?". So yes, God changed his genotype! Several tests confirmed it! To those doubting the efficacy of fasting and praying, SMH. You are on a looooooong tin.[/quote] |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by arsetalks(m): 12:52am On Mar 08, 2015 |
Islie:More than enough. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by iaatmguy(m): 12:55am On Mar 08, 2015 |
cococandy:yes 4k is not a ridiculous amount, owning the fact that the wife asked for the divorce not the husband, also one must consider the financial status of the husband.. Am sure she left due.to financial crisis.MY OPINION |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Nobody: 1:33am On Mar 08, 2015 |
ijustdey:See dis guy,guess u not a science student...there is a high possibility of giving birth to a child of genotype SS,and u know what they do?,they drain all ya money,ur time,ur everything and later die Wake up mister,dats enough reason for her to get a divorce |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by muzeze77: 1:46am On Mar 08, 2015 |
I am in the same shoes I am AS , was shocked to know that my wife was also AS during the pregnancy despite her telling me that she is AA,I thought of Abortion but for some reason I decided to pray that the child should be okay, in my family we have had a lot of SS who died, my Grandmother is the only surviving child out of 7 children. I have been angry and it has affected our relationship. truth be told i don't value her that much any more. Our son is AA. I thought of leaving her after our Son was born, but now I just don't want my Son to live in a broken home. I live in the US so healthcare is better for Sickle Cell Children, but nevertheless I am praying and hoping for just one more and thats it for me |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Ilekeh(f): 2:39am On Mar 08, 2015 |
I love me an educated Yoruba woman. Love is not everything in a marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Ilekeh(f): 2:45am On Mar 08, 2015 |
DuchessLily: Dumbazz Nigerians. Hmm I wonder why Nigeria is not the 1st wonder of the world. Tie yourself on train tracks and pray to your God to save you. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Ilekeh(f): 2:52am On Mar 08, 2015 |
Evina: Sounds so dumb. Pray and fast for a better Nigeria nau |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Ilekeh(f): 2:54am On Mar 08, 2015 |
decode55: I hope the ediot listens. |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by Ilekeh(f): 2:58am On Mar 08, 2015 |
Abali1: She is already married based on lies. What would you do if you find out that your husband was once a female? 1 Like |
Re: Wife Divorce Husband Because He Lied About His Genotype by unbrandedcosy(m): 5:35am On Mar 08, 2015 |
steppin:The woman did the right thing. U thing is easy to manage a child with SS genotype. Thank God the child is AA. |
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