Since most people can't be faithful...WHY can't their partner accept dem d way dey are becos d truth is dat most men will cheat irrespective of how their partner is and treat dem(a lot of killing and maiming r going on now cos of infidelity)....so why can't we just accept cheating as a way of life so everyone will be happy

Nonsense! Cheating is a choice & not some incurable disease that should be accepted as a lifestyle unless you're a swìnger.

If men & women can control themselves long enough to become nuns & monks, so can the average John & Jane Doe. It's all about mentality & I believe a cheater can change for the person they cherish the most.

If you are saying we should allow women to cheat for gerrit!!!

Seriously, are you under the influence of weed or something stronger than it?

Enegod:
If you are saying we should allow women to cheat for gerrit!!!

Seriously, are you under the influence of weed or something stronger than it?

Put down your crack pipe yourself & reread. She's saying MEN should be allowed to cheat.

Hahahah. Op u funny oh.

Buh lemme ask u. If we accept cheating as a way of life don't u think it throws our whole morals into question

germainediva:
Since most people can't be faithful...WHY can't their partner accept dem d way dey are becos d truth is dat most men will cheat irrespective of how their partner is and treat dem(a lot of killing and maiming r going on now cos of infidelity)....so why can't we just accept cheating as a way of life so everyone will be happy

Even if we do, we still won't be happy.

PunkyOh:


Put down your crack pipe yourself & reread. She's saying MEN should be allowed to cheat.

anything wrong with that?
Men have been cheating since the beginning

One sided......nothing to talk about.

Enegod:
anything wrong with that?
Men has been cheating since the beginning

You tell me. Why should men be allowed to cheat but women can't? Women have been cheating since biblical times too, so what's your point?

PunkyOh:


You tell me. Why should men be allowed to cheat but women can't? Women have been cheating since biblical times too, so what's your point?

they cheated 1st

PunkyOh:


You tell me. Why should men be allowed to cheat but women can't? Women have been cheating since biblical times too, so what's your point?

because this is a man's world... deal with it!!!

PunkyOh:


You tell me. Why should men be allowed to cheat but women can't? Women have been cheating since biblical times too, so what's your point?

Oh dear,women can cheat too
Do me I do u god no go vex

#JustSaying

Cheating should never be encouraged or accepted as a way of life!


It's a choice.
He cheats, she cheats, everyone is happy.

germainediva:
Since most people can't be faithful...WHY can't their partner accept dem d way dey are becos d truth is dat most men will cheat irrespective of how their partner is and treat dem(a lot of killing and maiming r going on now cos of infidelity)....so why can't we just accept cheating as a way of life so everyone will be happy

Listen here, if you want to accept cheating as a way of life, then it's best people don't get married. It is unfair to promise someone that you will be their one and only through sickness and health till death do you both apart and then you turn around cheat on them and expose them to all sorts of sexually transmitted diseases. Unless you both agree to an OPEN MARRIAGE, where both husband and wife have agreed that they will have sex with other people from time to time, then I see no reason why anyone will go into a MONOGAMOUS relationship and then expect to share their spouse with several strangers out there.

Lastly, so after HIV/AIDS ravaged Africa more than any other continent in the world, people like you still preach PROMISCUITY and RISKY SEXXUAL BEHAVIOR? I guess some Africans will never learn.

Even thoes dat tink men shuld b allowed t cheat cos its a mans world.......d problem is dat these days dey r cheating wt married women.......you hardly meet a married woman who does not v a married man contact she s emotionally attached to.........

Early marriage and polygamy are d solutions to cheating, but since women rejected both then cheating has kum to stay

Enegod:
because this is a man's world... deal with it!!!

Says who?

Bwon:
they cheated 1st

Who is "they" ?

PunkyOh:


Says who?

Ask me again!

Enegod:
Ask me again!

Pftt

PunkyOh:


Pftt

OP, don't be beat just yet. Your resolve seems to have been broken, even before marriage. Cheating is NOT hardwired into anybody's genes and sneaking behind your back is bad enough, not to speak of patting him on the back to go fool himself, whenever the urge takes him. My dear, you go turn to rag.
Be resolute that your partner, being in a committed relationship as you, must give revelations of his efforts first, if at all you must resign and be helpless, simply 'cos you think you would die if you ever leave him.