I was with my closest pal yesterday and he narrated his ordeal with his girlfriend to me and request for an advice from me.

he has been in a relationship with his girlfriend for close to two years now and am close to both of them. His girlfriend has been out of town for close to two weeks now for exam purpose though not too far distance to our state. Say a journey of an hour maximum.
He told me they both agreed she will come to town once in a week for the duration of two week but sge couldnt make it the first week sighting rigorous class work and all sort.
They were chatting lastweek and he was like asking if she will make it down during the week which she said she wasnt sure bt she will prefer if my guy can come down to the school cos workload was much. My guy was sick and already took an excuse that day to visit the hospital, instead of going to the hospital, he decided to make the trip down to her fiancee school.....she got there, spend up to 5hrs with her, the lady even suggested he shouldnt have stress himself when he wasnt feeling fine but he said, he misses her and prefer to see her rather than go 2 d hospital.
He left her place around 5pm and to his surprise, the lady never call him throughout that day to find out if he arrived home safely, abt his health and well being....no call,no text,no bbm msg and no whatsapp.........my guy dropped a message for her on bbm like around 7pm in the night,she read the message and never responded.
it was until around 10am the second day she replied bbm msg saying she had flat battery dat was why she couldnt call. My guy didnt reply her bbm msg nor pick her calls since then.

The question is, he made a sacrifice to see his girl but the babe never care abt his own well being. To him, she doesnt care abt him again that much as this was not d 1st tym and he is ready to just play along and call it quit anytym soon.

What advice should i give him

He should learn her lesson and go to the hospital next time he is sick.


Tell him to be careful around anything/person that has tires or bosoms cause they will definitely give him troubles.

To go to hosp nxt time he is ill

Wait o.

Did the guy confirmed if her number was truly switched on or not.

If he doesn't know this, he can't accuse the girl.

From this story, I can't see anything wrong.

D guy shouldn't behave like a girl jor. Ignoring calls won't solve anything, would only elongate the crisis.

He should resolve this once and for all.


If you treating your partner as a trash/ not giving her enough attention; remember there are lot of people ready to treat him/her as a king/queen and give them enough attention.

Nonsense! Why try to kill urself because of someone that won't die for U? He forfeited going to hospital just to see a girl, what if his illness had aggravated on the way or his boss saw him red-handed? Nothing happens in a relationship without both formal or informal prior notice, tell the dude to read and understand the handwriting on d wall.

I feel sorry for him sha, coz he's losing sleep over someone who's probably in bed with another person. I SUPPORT HIM TO PLAY ALONG, but then I remember how manipulative women are, the lady will come around if she notices changes from him but that doesn't mean she'll be committed again, it'll just to toil with his emotions and play him again / as usual.

The guy seems to be over-sensitive and needs to take it easy. The gal has not done any wrong but was just a bit emotionally absent or nonchalant which can be attributed to academic stress.
It would be worse if after reacting negatively, the guy discovers that he did so for vain reason. The lady has her life to live apart frm being his fiancee after all, there is no indication of cheating.

LogoDWhiz:
Wait o.

Did the guy confirmed if her number was truly switched on or not..

his argument was that she read her bbm msg dat nyt without responding.....all the msgs he sent,she read all without response.

Even if she had a flat battery, she wud av just drop a line of msg

royalpearl80:
I was with my closest pal yesterday and he narrated his ordeal with his girlfriend to me and request for an advice from me.

he has been in a relationship with his girlfriend for close to two years now and am close to both of them. His girlfriend has been out of town for close to two weeks now for exam purpose though not too far distance to our state. Say a journey of an hour maximum.
He told me they both agreed she will come to town once in a week for the duration of two week but sge couldnt make it the first week sighting rigorous class work and all sort.
They were chatting lastweek and he was like asking if she will make it down during the week which she said she wasnt sure bt she will prefer if my guy can come down to the school cos workload was much. My guy was sick and already took an excuse that day to visit the hospital, instead of going to the hospital, he decided to make the trip down to her fiancee school.....she got there, spend up to 5hrs with her, the lady even suggested he shouldnt have stress himself when he wasnt feeling fine but he said, he misses her and prefer to see her rather than go 2 d hospital.
He left her place around 5pm and to his surprise, the lady never call him throughout that day to find out if he arrived home safely, abt his health and well being....no call,no text,no bbm msg and no whatsapp.........my guy dropped a message for her on bbm like around 7pm in the night,she read the message and never responded.
it was until around 10am the second day she replied bbm msg saying she had flat battery dat was why she couldnt call. My guy didnt reply her bbm msg nor pick her calls since then.

The question is, he made a sacrifice to see his girl but the babe never care abt his own well being. To him, she doesnt care abt him again that much as this was not d 1st tym and he is ready to just play along and call it quit anytym soon.

What advice should i give him

That's why I don't give myself unnecessary stress about GIRLS/LADIES..when u give them "too much time"..when you show them"too much care"...when you show them"too much love"...They'll take u for granted..They'll take u for a mumu..Guys should learn not to always give"too much".."TOO MUCH"of everything is bad!..God knows the kind of person I am...My Health first before a hoe..GBAM

royalpearl80:


his argument was that she read her bbm msg dat nyt without responding.....all the msgs he sent,she read all without response.

Even if she had a flat battery, she wud av just drop a line of msg

Okay. That's understandable.

I understand his agitation, but he should try and talk to her.

D girl seems to b drifting away.
Showing more love will bring her back.

But if this doesn't work, leave her please

Your friend should give her space and focus on himself and his own life which is more important than anything.

He shouldn't call if it won't be convenient.
If she misses his call, he shouldn't be the next caller. He should.
Bottomline is should stop trying too hard. They never appreciate it.

d ish wit relationships dis days is dat pple make up problems where der is none.

royalpearl80:
The question is, he made a sacrifice to see his girl but the babe never care abt his own well being. To him, she doesnt care abt him again that much as this was not d 1st tym and he is ready to just play along and call it quit anytym soon.

What advice should i give him

The embolden is what I was looking for. OP, tell that guy to move on. This is not first time, and she'll do it again. A girl that's truly in love with her guy won't dare those nonsense she did.

We can't conclude if d babe was lying or actually telling d truth. Would advice ur friend 2 watch her 4 a while 2 c if she has actually changed. Let him ve a heart 2 heart wif his gf. He shouldn't gve up like dat

Dude is not serious... He want die on top woman matter abi

Only fools fall in love

Youngpo413:
Only fools fall in love

Why say that? Love is a beautiful thing

korazon:

Why say that? Love is a beautiful thing

I know you are not hurt by love before,once you are,it will automatically change your mindset,not your portion though.

Youngpo413:
I know you are not hurt by love before,once you are,it will automatically change your mindset,not your portion though.

I'm telling u,dear,its better nt to fall in love at all,cos love is vry wicked

But she already told him that she had a flat battery.what else is he expecting to hear ?

I will like you to advice your friend that he should wait for her to finish her said exams and return home where they can see each other. If she continues in that her attitude of not caring then he can decide on what to do.