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Help Me Please by Amope33: 7:57pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
am a female, nd I need your help.I have issues with my relationship, there is dis guy we meet 3years ago, d guy is a graduate with no job when we meet but I keep hope dat tons go beta one day and more so am still in school so by d time I graduated tins would have bn fine, dis guy is 32 years when we meet, but d only tin I don't like about dis guy is dat he like consulting pastor,Alfa nd e.tc. due to his problem and dey accuse deir step mother of their problems, I don't like dis and I do correct him dat he should believe in God nd with God all tins are possible. one year after we meet dis guy travel out of s country to work, but tins are not really well for him still yet, but recently I went to visit his mum nd she took me to church of which she know dat am a devoted Muslim, I don't like dis and I explain to dis guy nd he said I should be patient, dis guy mum is a Muslim but due to d problem dey have bn facing she now go to church. dis guy have series of personal problem like, he is aggressive, inquisitive, fetish,insecurity, e.t.c he do question me every time about my movement complain and he has beat me once when he was in Nigeria. which I hope he will change one day, but presently dis guy did not change,but I meet anoder guy on dis forum last 7month which we started dating nd d guy is from my state, he is a devoted muslim nd we meet on muslim forum, he is 30years I have meet his family but he never meet mine, I called my dad and told my dad d problem am facing nd he said he wil pray about d two guys even before I pray I have pray nd pray for God guidance , but my dad said dat he pray MD pray over s two of dem and dey choose d guy I meet here on Nairaland. but now, I don't know how to tell d guy I am dating before? how should I tell his family ? I don't want to add to dis guy problem because no one to date him cos he never get money yet. now d guy I meet here want to marry me dis year which I really want to cos am in my late 20. pls help me I had to open anoder account cos of people insult here, help a sister please.... |
Re: Help Me Please by iceberylin(m): 7:59pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Does this Forum have a Muslim Forum 2 Likes |
Re: Help Me Please by Amope33: 8:02pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
iceberylin:Muslim section or so jare am not myself anymore |
Re: Help Me Please by Cutehector(m): 8:02pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
All these calabar girls |
Re: Help Me Please by Brugo(m): 8:08pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
So you cheated on your boyfriend cos he is no longer in Nigeria. Now you want to marry the new guy. Women. |
Re: Help Me Please by rawpadgin(m): 8:09pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
so u don't love the nairalander, u just want to marry him because ur father told u to & because u are in ur late twenties |
Re: Help Me Please by yomi007k(m): 8:09pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
So wat help do u need? To help u pick reasons as to dump d 1st guy? |
Re: Help Me Please by Amope33: 8:10pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
I love him as well, if I don't love him I won't say yes to him |
Re: Help Me Please by rawpadgin(m): 8:11pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
so relationship is possible here okay, let me put on my wife goggle. searching mode activated |
Re: Help Me Please by rawpadgin(m): 8:14pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Amope33:then choose the nairalander, cuz if u really love the first dude there wouldn't have been any space in ur heart for the nairalander |
Re: Help Me Please by Nobody: 8:16pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Some body comes up here , that she is depressed and confuse, if u can't profer solution to her , then courtesy. Demand u tame ur lips. Dan compounding her dilema |
Re: Help Me Please by chimerase2: 8:17pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
iceberylin:ya islam for islam Young lady I have an advice for u ok |
Re: Help Me Please by Amope33: 8:18pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
rawpadgin:so am not patient for him enouf abi? when I did not see any changes in him nd he is insisting on getting more money before he get married, which I cannot predict his atitude when he his rich |
Re: Help Me Please by Amope33: 8:19pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Climaths:thanks o, infact am typing with pains nd tears I don't wanna loose in two ways |
Re: Help Me Please by pweetixandy: 8:21pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
So muslims pray too? As in in allah's name or in muhammad's name, amin Just take panadol and sleep. U probably hit ur head on the ground too hard. My 2billion cents |
Re: Help Me Please by pweetixandy: 8:23pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
yomi007k: Seriously....I dunno why people keep doing it. |
Re: Help Me Please by naijaboiy: 8:26pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
pweetixandy: |
Re: Help Me Please by pweetixandy: 8:27pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
naijaboiy::\ |
Re: Help Me Please by Nobody: 8:28pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Ladies confusing themselves since the time of adam and eve |
Re: Help Me Please by naijaboiy: 8:30pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
pweetixandy: |
Re: Help Me Please by goodmorning40: 8:31pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
So they meet guys here on nairaland and no girl has ever met me, what is wrong with me |
Re: Help Me Please by stan241(m): 8:32pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
The truth is deep down you have already made up your mind and all you looking for here is for someone to confirm that choice for you..now you are in love with two men(weird) and one sounds like he will never be serious about settling down till he makes a lot of cash and is a constant patroniser of alfas and pastors(laziness) and the other is well to do and you claim to "love" him and you are also concerned about your age(as you should rightfully be as a lady)...if you didn't get your answer from what i just typed then no one can help you..good luck cus you will need a lot of it |
Re: Help Me Please by pweetixandy: 8:34pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
naijaboiy:the first fine boy I'm seeing on nairaland. Hello! |
Re: Help Me Please by Amope33: 8:37pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
stan241:Thank u may God bless u |
Re: Help Me Please by Amope33: 8:43pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Brugo:I did not cheat on him, am a devoted Muslim, nevver had sex with d two guys |
Re: Help Me Please by Brugo(m): 8:46pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Amope33: Lol. Cheating does not only mean to have sex with someone else. Babe you cheated on him. Why did you date another man? Why did you say yes to another guy before ending your previous relationship? You are a cheat. Marry your new guy. He has money. That's what you want na. |
Re: Help Me Please by Amope33: 8:56pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Brugo:u re funny, mind u my new guy is still searching for job, y won't I give anoda man chance when my parent are distoping me seriously and dis guy is not ready to settle down |
Re: Help Me Please by Beamborla(f): 8:58pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Come lemme take yew my pastor to pray for a way out for yew Sweedie, jes tell him yew no do again... no be by force na. Stop worrying your pretty self unnecessarily o jare. 1 Like |
Re: Help Me Please by Brugo(m): 9:15pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Amope33: What stopped you from ending one relationship before beginning another one? You wanted to enjoy from two quarters. That's cheating. Follow your parents. They know what they have seen that you may not know. Anyway, I won't advice you to marry the first guy. You said he beat you once. That is very bad. Just try to end your first relationship so that things will be well defined. |
Re: Help Me Please by yomi007k(m): 9:16pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Amope33:Na wa ooo. U prefer him to be poor b4 he gets married baa |
Re: Help Me Please by boxer022(m): 9:40pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
Wow what a long narration. I understood everything you just said and the truth about the whole matter is that there is no way your parents will pick a Christian boy over a Muslim boy as they are Muslims, prayer or no prayer. I advice you to find a way to tell the Christian guy that you cannot continue as you are getting married, plain and simple. |
Re: Help Me Please by Shokis: 9:50pm On Mar 27, 2015 |
If u marry the 1st guy u'll regret, just call him tell him ur parents wants u to get married and they hv found a suitor for u #shikena 1 Like |
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