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14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 11:35pm On Mar 29, 2015
Think about one of the questions below for a
moment.
If you are married, in what way is the girl you
dated different from the woman you married? If
you are single or dating, in what way do you want
the woman you marry to be different from the girl
you are dating? What thoughts come to your
mind? I bet you have a few thoughts, I also do.
After being married for over 3 years to my
awesome wife, l can testify that the girl l dated is
different from the woman l proudly call my wife.
She has definitely improved in ways I never
imagined, and for the better.
If you go through dating and your marriage
journey, you will inevitable look back to realize
the girl you dated is different from the woman are
married to. To clarify, l do not mean she would
become a brand new person. What l mean is that
her priorities and perspective about life and
marriage will improve in many ways. Hopefully,
for the better.
Either way, the woman you marry will not be the
same as the girl you dated.
1. The girl you date does not want to meet your
family or friends, she wants you all to herself.
The woman you marry wants to know your
family and friends. She knows without them, you
would not be where you are, and who you are
today.
2. The girl you date is overly worried about her
nails been done all the time, her eyelashes looking
in a certain style, and being beautiful for her
peers. Her physical beauty is important to her.
The woman you marry is not overly worried
about her nails being done. Instead, she is worried
about being beautiful for her man, even if that
means wearing no makeup. She focuses on her
internal beauty and character building, because
she knows real beauty comes from within.
3. The girl you date only cares about her career
and her vision for life. She comes before the
relationship, and does not make her future plans
with you in mind.
The woman you marry cares about your career
and your vision of life as well as her own. She
knows you also have a plan, and works together
with you to achieve the goals you both have. The
marriage is her priority.
4. The girl you date loves the financial cushion
you can provide. She also expects something back
whenever she gives.
The woman you marry wants to build a financial
cushion with you. She believes that two heads will
always be better than one. When she gives,
she does not expect anything back.
5. The girl you date believes she knows
everything.
The woman you marry is open to learning
something new, and knows there is always room
for improvement.
6. The girl you date is scared to tell you her
deepest secrets.
The woman you marry will share her deepest
secrets with you, even if it means losing you. She
trusts you, and shares everything with you. She
knows honesty is always the best policy.
7. The girl you date does not get excited about
marriage and children (even if she wants to have
some one day).
The woman you marry gets excited about
marriage and starting a family with you.
8. The girl you date shows her cleavage all the
time.
The woman you marry is more modest because
she knows her attributes are for your eyes only.
9. The girl you date is not concerned about
cooking for you.
The woman you marry loves not only to cook, but
chooses delicious and healthy meals. The way to a
man’s heart is through his stomach after all,
right?
10. The girl you date is overly concerned about
how long you will be around, and how she can
keep you.
The woman you marry is not too concerned about
keeping you because she knows you want to have
a future with her. She is mature enough to know
you can never force someone to stay and that you
each have to choose each other every day, again
and again.
11. The girl you date is not willing to compromise
with you.
The woman you marry is willing to compromise,
and sees compromise as a necessity for a healthy
marriage
12. The girl you date thrives on constant
attention from you.
The woman you marry mirrors your affection and
thrives on providing you with the love, support,
and respect you need.
13. The girl you date tries to change who you are
and compares you to her ex.
The woman you marry accepts you for who you
are and will not compare you to her ex. She
knows you are the best and that you cannot
change another person no matter how hard you
try.
14. The girl you date has to be entertained.
The woman you marry is someone you can have
fun with, relax, do activities, or do nothing
together and still enjoy each other’s company.
What are your thoughts on these differences
between the girl you date and the woman you
marry?
Some of these differences can also apply to the boy
you date and the man you marry.

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Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by LogoDWhiz(m): 11:45pm On Mar 29, 2015
Stale.
Copy and Paste! undecided
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by TheSonOfMark(m): 11:48pm On Mar 29, 2015
LogoDWhiz:
Stale.
Copy and Paste! undecided

Lol. Wicked! You certified it as dead on arrival.
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by LogoDWhiz(m): 11:50pm On Mar 29, 2015
TheSonOfMark:


Lol. Wicked! You certified it as dead on arrival.

Lol! grin cheesy
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Baddestguyp(m): 12:26am On Mar 30, 2015
nice one op. mods, pls delete these useless comments above me. this should be FP material

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Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 3:47am On Mar 30, 2015
That was a beautiful read. Can't wait to be the woman he married. ... smiley






I'm still a learner embarassed
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 4:41am On Mar 30, 2015
wifey material here. grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 4:56am On Mar 30, 2015
@op numba 11 shud b ur wife always nag n wnt gv u all d sex styles but ur girlfriend dnt nag n will gv u all d sex styles like dog,monkey,elephant,lion,tiger styles.
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Qualer: 7:49am On Mar 30, 2015
Dimples192:
That was a beautiful read. Can't wait to be the woman he married. ... smiley






I'm still a learner embarassed

it will make a whole lot of sense if you are the woman i married / cool
Dimples192:
That was a beautiful read. Can't wait to be the woman he married. ... smiley






I'm still a learner embarassed

it will make a whole lot of sense if you are the woman i married /
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Exjoker(m): 8:03am On Mar 30, 2015
Dimples192:
That was a beautiful read. Can't wait to be the woman he married. ... smiley






I'm still a learner embarassed
Hey! I have been thinking, if you will marry me...?
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 8:14am On Mar 30, 2015
Exjoker:
Hey! I have been thinking, if you will marry me...?

You can be my EX grin you JOKER grin
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 8:17am On Mar 30, 2015
1. Y comparing a gal u date With a Wife isnt that dumb.


2. What if u marry d gal u dated what wud u be saying, abi u didnt date ur wife b4 marrying ni.

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Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 8:19am On Mar 30, 2015
Dimples192:


You can be my EX grin you JOKER grin

That's the smartness and wit I admire

gringringrin
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 8:22am On Mar 30, 2015
Qualer:


it will make a whole lot of sense if you are the woman i married / cool

it will make a whole lot of sense if you are the woman i married /
see ur life on okada
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 8:25am On Mar 30, 2015
missclasssy:


That's the smartness and wit I admire

gringringrin

Girl you wanna marry me too grin
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Nobody: 8:28am On Mar 30, 2015
Luedave:
1. Y comparing a gal u date With a Wife isnt that dumb.


2. What if u marry d gal u dated what wud u be saying, abi u didnt date ur wife b4 marrying ni.





Shshsh that's what the article means watching your girlfriend mature into your wife before your very eyes. You will notice the difference from the girl she was and the woman she grew into.

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Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Exjoker(m): 9:45am On Mar 30, 2015
Dimples192:


You can be my EX grin you JOKER grin
Lol. Is that a YES? I'm taking you to see my Mama... Hope you don't mind
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Psalmwise(m): 11:21am On Mar 30, 2015
grin
LogoDWhiz:
Stale.
Copy and Paste! undecided
grin

Evidence of bolded......pinshure or adonbilivit it grin grin grin





You killed the vibe...badoo
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by Dannidom(m): 11:48am On Mar 30, 2015
Just hit the question wink
Re: 14 Differences Between The Girl You Date And The Woman You Marry by LogoDWhiz(m): 1:12pm On Mar 30, 2015
Psalmwise:
grin grin

Evidence of bolded......pinshure or adonbilivit it grin grin grin





You killed the vibe...badoo

Lol!

Na so e be o grin

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