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This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 6:18am On Mar 30, 2015 |
I wanted to know what drives men to cheat. If a man truly loves his woman then why cheat on her? So I asked Google and I was shocked by my findings: www.m.webmd.com/men/.../why-men-ch.. 48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated. So much for the myth that for men,cheating is all about sex: Only 8 percent of men said that sexual dissatisfaction was the main factor in their infidelity. "Our culture tells us that all men need to be happy is sex," Neuman says These results mean that both partners are guilty and not just the man who cheated I would like us to discuss this issue in a matured manner. My question is if you've experienced being the cheater or cheated on why did you do it or were you willing to work on your relationship. This is of course if both parties love each other. Pls no insults or derailing. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 6:20am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Men "cheat" for no reason! You don't still understand? OK picture this... I have the intentions of mounting kennygee though am in a relationship....yet I must mount her...is that cheating? No! Cos by nature men are polygamists... But because we men are moving against nature we become chokingly monogamous ...its a terrible thing! 57 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by SpeedyConnect(m): 6:23am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Cheating doesn't necessarily mean there is no love. Now, many things can cause cheating ranging from frigidity, incuriosity, lack of adventure, etc. So when a man cheats, it would be out of place to assert " he doesn't love her". Not a proponent of cheating though. Thank you. 30 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by mabeni(m): 6:25am On Mar 30, 2015 |
DarkAngel86:Women don't cheat? Hit ''like'' if u agree women cheats d most. 51 Likes |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by justi4jesu(f): 6:26am On Mar 30, 2015 |
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Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by delishpot: 6:26am On Mar 30, 2015 |
what excuse can a woman give to cheat? Anyhoe, yes a man whose wife is not good will be tempted to cheat. Women please try to treat your husbands well o. If he is abusive dump his ass but if he is a good husband, kind, gentle and has your interest at heart, please treat him well and show him same. The same thing goes to men . You want to marry an angel, make sure your home is heaven. Abi do you expect an angel to live in hell? If she is an asshole(wicked, rude, nagging and non chalant) , just take her back to her fathers house. The problem here is, many people will just paint their partners bad just to have a reason to do what ever they want. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Enegod(m): 6:28am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Men cheat for the same reasons women cheat. We all like shiny things on the other side of the fence 23 Likes |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by delishpot: 6:34am On Mar 30, 2015 |
SpeedyConnect: Can a wife also give this speech? will you buy this story if your wife cheats on you and says it doesnt mean she no longer love you? Or is it making sense because you are a man and it gives you the upper hand? No offence o, I just want to know your point of view. 47 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 6:39am On Mar 30, 2015 |
delishpot: Natural laws permits polygamy... And in that it means a man can have more than a wife I love the Bible its complete! Such a speech won't be biblical now ...... will it? 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by SpeedyConnect(m): 6:42am On Mar 30, 2015 |
delishpot:Ok you know I was overly precise in the first post. The notion I wanted to correct was that that tends to chalk up cheating to absence of 'love' alone. It's analogous to chalking up failure in exams as lack of studying alone , discounting other factors that could have contributed to it. Now, many things can cause cheating ranging from frigidity, incuriosity, lack of adventure, etc. So when a man cheats, it would be out of place to assert " he doesn't love her". Not a proponent of cheating though. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Pinkiedearie(f): 6:48am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Reading carefuLly.. |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 6:52am On Mar 30, 2015 |
I guess the fact a woman can't separate emotional attachment and sex plays a role too. However the article suggests that men cheat for other reasons than sex and this means a man can also fall in love with the woman he is cheating with if his woman isn't providing the emotional fulfilment. So cheating can equate to not loving his woman because he can't love two women Equally. 6 Likes |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 7:07am On Mar 30, 2015 |
DarkAngel86:How do you know I can't love equally? .... How do you measure love? 4 Likes |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 7:15am On Mar 30, 2015 |
SmartChoices: Because In this example you cheated to fill a void, something that was missing therefore there is no equality there. You'll love different things about them but you won't love them for the same reason. As a woman it's more comforting to believe the other woman only satisfied you sexual desires rather than your emotional fulfilment.... If you love another you can't love me too imo... This is NOT a polygamous society aft all. 7 Likes |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 7:18am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Why men cheat? Good question. Not because they really wanted to cheat. But me think its the ladies. They wouldn't see a goodlooking/wealthy guy without running after him, as a smart guy he adds them to his list, then later they'll say guys re cheats 7 Likes |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 7:20am On Mar 30, 2015 |
DarkAngel86: I don't know where you're typing from... But here in Nigeria... It's a polygamous society! 8 Likes |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 7:20am On Mar 30, 2015 |
alexdellafonte: COULDN'T SAY IT BETTER IF I TRIED koyyess: |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 7:22am On Mar 30, 2015 |
SmartChoices: Ok but isn't polygamy a choice? So if one woman refuses then it's back to square one. |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 7:27am On Mar 30, 2015 |
I can tell you @op that men don't even know why. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 7:30am On Mar 30, 2015 |
DarkAngel86:Does that make him a cheat. This what I'm actually talking about. Now y'all shift the blame on the guy. What about the girls, they need some education, stop running after successful men . 3 Likes |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 7:38am On Mar 30, 2015 |
alexdellafonte: Nope the so called successful man needs common sense. Your woman isn't accountable for other women's actions. Stop playing everybody takes responsibility for their actions. Lol you're funny thou |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 7:44am On Mar 30, 2015 |
SmartChoices: It's also natural for you to compete with and kill other men for your chance to impregnate every female in the surrounding area. Should you start doing that? 1 Like |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 7:51am On Mar 30, 2015 |
DarkAngel86: Nope me think the girls need common sense. As a matter of fact, when you go to the market and there is no one to sell, you go back home right? But in this case, they ladies re always available. N you say men re cheats? 4 Likes |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Exjoker(m): 7:51am On Mar 30, 2015 |
I Love the Emotional Dissatisfaction part. Ladies need to tighten their belt to satisfy both physically and emotionally. Love is not given sex to your man and start thinking that you have satisfy his wants. Never! we also need care and love. 80% of ladies thinks showing cares and love in a relationship is only meant for men. where as that is not the case, a love relationship is mutual. 5 Likes |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by delishpot: 7:55am On Mar 30, 2015 |
SpeedyConnect: Ok. I get you. |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 7:56am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Most of the men in this thread are acting like it is a woman's job to prevent her man from cheating. What nonsense. Keeping your relationship healthy is important and is the duty of the man and the woman. But if someone cheats it is their fault and their fault alone. Even if your relationship is sexless and miserable. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 8:03am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Men can't be satisfied... Well to me theres nothing lyk cheating in a relationship, its rather called SHARING... Op can u watch only one t.v station for just a year?? 3 Likes |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by delishpot: 8:15am On Mar 30, 2015 |
SmartChoices: Did this text reffer to polygamy? We are talking of a cheating husband you are talking polygamy. Which was introduced due to mans greed. The bible contains a lot of things, ranging from men sleeping with their slave women, men owning slaves, man asking for their pregnant daughter inlaws to be stonned, does that make it right? Is it then ok for christians to own slaves? Does that make it right for masters now to have carnal knowledge of their female servants? God or Jesus did not speak against such men, Jesus never said it was wrong to have slaves, instead he said slaves and servants should serve their masters well. Does that mean Jesus approved of slavery? Mans heart is hardened sha, He only picks those verses which benefits him. If that same bible had allowed your woman to bang whom she so ever wants will you be quick to encourage her to do so? Its human nature sha, we see where bible says children honour your parents but ignore where it says parents dont provoke your children to wrath. men notice where it says God will provide for us according to his riches in glory but ignore where it said if anyman wants to follow me, let him sell all he owns give the money to the poor and follow me. Men are quick to mention the bible said women should honour and submit to their husbands but forget where men are adviced to treat their wives as they will treat their own selves. http://creation.mobi/monogamy-bible-one-man-woman 25 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by TheSonOfMark(m): 8:24am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Logician: Exactly! If we could explain why , we would have dealt with it long ago. Women, why do you manipulate men? 4 Likes |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 8:26am On Mar 30, 2015 |
delishpot: I have tranversed the Bible n am yet to see a place where a woman is recorded as having more than one husband at a time.....while you know the stories of Solomon and his wives 3 Likes |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by stevikenna: 8:27am On Mar 30, 2015 |
MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE ITS JUST CIVILISATION THAT HAS TAMED US 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: This Is Why Men Cheat by bastien: 8:28am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Na so |
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