Things every young woman in her 20s should know...
1. Love and honour your mother. Learn from her mistakes.
It
will save you a lot of headache in your thirties (30s) and
beyond.
2. You are more talented than you’ll ever know. You don’t
need to sleep with your Boss/
supervisor to get a promotion at work or better grades at
school. Burn late night candles; put extra time to study and
practice until you
master your skill. Hard work still pays well and does not kill.
3. Women can build a strong support network. Don’t let few
ladies with “Pull Her Down” {PHD} syndrome discourage
you from cultivating true relationship with your female
friends.
4. Walk away from deceit. When a man you meet
for the first time babbles about how much he
earns working for an oil company and how rich
he is, that is a red flag. He is either a married
smooth-talker who just wants to sleep with you
or he is childish.
5. Make your own money. Start small. Maintain a stable
bank
account. It will keep you out of trouble.
6. When you meet your Soul mate, don’t forget to wear your
most priceless ornament – submission and humility. But
while waiting for him, don’t cling to any man to rescue you.
Some
men these days are also seeking for who will
rescue them.
7. Know your body. Look at yourself in front of a full-length
mirror at least once a week, naked and after clothed. Know
your body and
how it works.
8. Life is a gift. But to revel in it, you must be ready to put a
lot into nurturing your gifts/
talents and skills. Start early.
9. Teenage ended at 19. Clocking 20 means doing away
with
childish behaviour. But it does not mean you should forget
to
have fun. You
can catch fun and not be dirty.
10. Learn the basic skills and let yourself grow – from how
to
keep your underwear clean, cook, socialize, and network to
how to drive a car.
11. Don’t do drugs. It kills. Read books, it fortifies. Dance
as
often as you can, it liberates your spirit, soul and body.
12. Learn to laugh at yourself. It is a good way to build a
healthy self-esteem.
13. Eat healthy. Learn to cook for yourself. Don’t rely on
noodles alone. The cooking skill will be useful in future.
14. Don’t give up when you fail. Try again and again. Don’t
give up on education/ learning.
15. Fear of the future. It is a state of mind you must learn to
tame. Don’t let fear pull the
carpet from under your feet. God has not given us a spirit of
fear but of power, love and
a sound mind.
16. Let go of past hurts. You cannot move forward if you
keep looking back. Holding on to bitter experiences and
regrets will stale your future.
17. Learn to exhale, love deeply and be kind to
others, especially those of low estate, and the lowest of low.
18. You are beautiful the way you are. Don’t compare
yourself to others.
19. Partnership builds bridges. Don’t ever forget that.
20. Prayer is the master key. Have faith in God and always
have the courage to use your
voice wisely. Dream big today. FEAR simply means False
Evidence Appearing Real. Enjoy the highs and lows that
come with being in your 20s but don’t be afraid to grow
older. Live life to
the fullest and don’t forget to smile always!

Whao . . . op that was applaudable . . .more data to your phone

IF I hear say majority oF naija gals go listen to dat awesome points.

*@ zico, u beat me there with less than 60seconds

Describes me.... Though if I were to be truly me, I would break my family's heart. It only takes the Grace of God.

Whoa, quite enlightening.

Thumbs up.
But I know say na copy and paste you do sha

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