4C2215131:


While I concur with the notion of you claiming right to your individuality ala 'doin' what you want' (at least prior to marriage), you want to be careful as life has a way of bringin' up stuff long forgotten to bear on the present, most times it bites you in the arse (you may not be as fortunate as Buhari who came out smelling of Lillacs despite a hate campaign hurled his way, a campaign fire stoked by certain un-popular moves he made while exercising his 'individuality').
So, me fair lady? Do ride this mutha til the wheels fall off, but, be wise and conscientious while at it. Remember that from memories, there are no hiding places so, make memorable ones.

Emaprince:
smh...I pity you and even your wife..look at how you go about preaching on how cheating is common to you and who You think every man is as randy as you are? Speak for your sef dude, I'm not like you!!

EggovinMma:

Thanks, for the advice.

suggyspic:
Her conscience has been eating her up for sleeping with another man. She willingly confessed to her husband and asked for his forgiveness, now he wants to end the marriage. Is the husband right in the decision he is about to take. Were is the place for forgiveness in a marriage. is it not for better or worst.

MY opinion, she deserves a second chance. please your advise would be of help.

EggovinMma:



Who get time for man wahala? Abeg I no get the strength o jare. .I no even get patience for bullshiite.If I notice a guy isn't matured,and can't handle me maturely, I drop quick!

Chigold101:
Marital trust broken is hard to regain. if the man insist on divorce she should accept it because anytime the man sees her greet another man the pain of the cheating will come back.

she actually made a mistake telling him without seeking counseling. If she had gone to a counselor she would have been directed on how to go about it

Kedam:
You are partially right but I still don't agree. I know we all have individual difference But there are better ways of handling things than divorce, the fact that she confessed means she felt remorse. There is different between being married with kids and vice versa. Divorcing her might make u happy that's if the love is no more there and sad if the feeling is still there but sometimes one should think about the happy part of a relationship rather than the unhappy part. Have u ever think about the effect this will have on the kids when one think about ur happiness alone without the children feelings that shows how selfish one is. There are better ways of handling woman rather than divorce that's if u are wise and responsible but for a frequent cheater without remorse divorce is better. Sometimes the important of a person is never known until their demise or being separated from them. Who know what will happen about the next available chick who go take her place lol? Life dey complicated na why some divorce their partners others forgive them and move on.

suggyspic:
Her conscience has been eating her up for sleeping with another man. She willingly confessed to her husband and asked for his forgiveness, now he wants to end the marriage. Is the husband right in the decision he is about to take. Were is the place for forgiveness in a marriage. is it not for better or worst.

MY opinion, she deserves a second chance. please your advise would be of help.

stingbreed:


Women....
Na una de cause una problem...
So in 2015 a woman can open her legs with impunity,,,,
Lwfmh

See listen men are in charge,,, if u misbehave u pay for it

lovetwins:
since men can be forgiven, why can't women be forgiven as well? Is there a gender advantage in marriage?

Ewuro4:


What??

Una dey place curse on your brides during traditional marriage?

sleekman:
If She Cheats Thinking She Is Sharp The D Curse I Activated. If She Confesses Then She Must Appear B4 D Egbe And B Prayed 4.

klark3:
d man made d right decision, cheating shouldn't be Condoned by any sane man AND WOMAN.

Personally, forgiveness is a sin, when it comes to cheating...

bellong:


It is good that you put it as your opinion. Your opinion does not bind on the man, he is at liberty to decide the outcome and the lady should also have been prepared for the consequences of her action.

I am not saying he should divorce her but it is his decision to make.

Emaprince:
@princejayboss

I don't see any form of gender inequality here. Its individual choices. If you can condone and celebrate your woman for straying, not every man will do that. Some women will not accept a randy man too. After all, tiger wood's wife divorced him even after publicly apologising. Is that gender inequality too? Sandra bullocks divorced her husband for cheating. Is that also gender inequality? Chilli left usher raymond. There are uncountable stories but I'm just giving you the ones you may know.

You can't force nobody to live with a dangerous wife! Promiscous wives are more dangerous than a snake!!

CaptPlanet:


Yeah! You're right, i'll also give her a Grammy award and a crown because she confessed to cheating. She should also be inducted into the UN peace council.

So her husband wasn't fun that's why she fell for another man and will probably fall for another guy when the new guy becomes less fun......awWw

dearpreye:
Marriage terminated immediately.

I can't forgive that kind of issue. I cant; not me.

I can't. Not me!

It's over. Can't risk being a fool again.

Nonsense apology. She may as well confess to Pope Francis. That's her business.

suggyspic:


Pls read Genesis 23 and 24. maybe it will change your view.

dearpreye:


No need. My stance on this matter is irreversible.

suggyspic:


lol, are you in anyway related to OBJ.

dearpreye:


I take such an act very seriously. ...I can't forgive it.

suggyspic:


I know 99% of people out here would definitely stand with you. its very painful and difficult to forgive nor forget. I stand with the school of taught who believe that there is a grace attached to forgiveness. I dated a lady for 8yrs, came back from NYSC proposed to her. barely two weeks for both families to formally meet, i found out she was dating another married man for over four yrs without my knowing. just like u say. we broke up and went our separate way. I broke my sim card just to avoid calling her,( my guy i did so many things to forget her ) but her number was inside my brain. That was the most painful part. i could not forget her. The only way to forget is to forgive, this i realize immediate i forgave her. forgiveness heals. its a recipe for long life. TRY IT

subbieD:
Dat man must b a Big fool,does he want to tell he has never cheated on her?......#Shior,y d lady sef No fit gboju....... #shithappens

suggyspic:
Her conscience has been eating her up for sleeping with another man. She willingly confessed to her husband and asked for his forgiveness, now he wants to end the marriage. Is the husband right in the decision he is about to take. Were is the place for forgiveness in a marriage. is it not for better or worst.

MY opinion, she deserves a second chance. please your advise would be of help.