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I Cheated On My Husband And I Want To Confess To Him / After 4 Children for him, Her Husband now keeps 4 Wives Outside, Pls Advise Her / Please Help!who Do I Confess To,pastor Or My Wife? (2) (3) (4)
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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 12:10pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
4C2215131:Thanks, for the advice. |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by princejayboss: 12:39pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
Emaprince: Man no disrespect but when fact comes up people tends to shy away from it ... Go out to clubs at night.. You will see more of married men than the married ladies playing dirty game... It's a fact .. Hate it or like it , we the men cheat more often than ladies but who do we confess to. When made my comment I did not say you cheat on your woman and if you do.. That not my dam business but lets stop this gender inequality for good ... For your information ... I have a happy home and the sweetest wife ever that am proud of ..... She is in this thread and if am that a bad husband let her quote me .... Last advice ... Learn to be civilized. 3 Likes |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Emaprince: 1:19pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
@princejayboss I don't see any form of gender inequality here. Its individual choices. If you can condone and celebrate your woman for straying, not every man will do that. Some women will not accept a randy man too. After all, tiger wood's wife divorced him even after publicly apologising. Is that gender inequality too? Sandra bullocks divorced her husband for cheating. Is that also gender inequality? Chilli left usher raymond. There are uncountable stories but I'm just giving you the ones you may know. You can't force nobody to live with a dangerous wife! Promiscous wives are more dangerous than a snake!! |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by 4C2215131: 1:50pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
EggovinMma: You're most welcome Do keep believin' in yourself. |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 2:04pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
suggyspic:my opinion!! she deserves a divorce |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by 4C2215131: 2:14pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
EggovinMma: The knuckeheads prodding you on with their "yes,tell them!", "preach it", "you are too much", "correct babe", "sharp babe" affirmations to your stance are just what they are-Knuckleheads. You'd be the empress of The Great Sh1thead and Knucklehead Dynasty if you harken to their honey laced quips that in reality is laced generously with vitriol. Live free,Stay wise. |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by dober(m): 2:15pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
I know shits don't come with trophies, but I would just buy her a diamond ring in addition to her wedding ring and ask her to say after me : ▪ I would always remember that I am a married woman. ▪ I would never again cheat on my husband till death do us part. ▪ I love you, and would continue to. Opinions are indeed personal. |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by 4C2215131: 2:51pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
Chigold101: I remember advising someone here with regard to this issue-the matter of telling it all. Some secrets are not meant for mortal ears. NEVER in an un-guarded moment of doey eyed love open your facial orifice to utter certain stuff. Remember what happened to Anthony Hopkins in Beouwolf. He confessed to his wife the queen of being the father of Grendel the mishapen creature Beouwolf was hired to kill. He fathered the horrible creature that subsequently terrorized his kingdom via sex with an enchanting female demonic spirit (you're thinking, can demons be beautiful, yes, but then I digress). From the moment he told his queen she NEVER allowed him to touch her ever again til he died by commiting suicide. Prior to his death he said this words to his queen with a far away look of regret and pain in his eyes: "I never should have told you, I never should have told you..." Despite all the power and riches the demon gave him for his 'service' he died a heartbroken man. He obviously confessed to his queen out of the abundance of his love for her but what was the end result of his being true to the love of his life-heartbreak, no heir, reduced to sleeping with his chamber maids and ultimately a cruel death. And you know what, the queen never stopped 'loving' him, if only he had not slept... Let him that hath ears hear what tie spirit is saying to the churches. |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 3:35pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
Kedam: Bro , and let me say you are very wrong!!! the fact she confessed doesnt mean she has changed!! remorse is not = to changed individual. Trust me when i say she would do it again, yeah maybe she stays faithful for a year or two, but eventually? a cheat always goes back to their ways.. trust me i am talking from experience. forget any romanticized ideas you might have about wanting to appear as the only husband in the world who could forgive such a heinous crim.. my dear your eyes will become clear when she goes back to that guy again, and again and each time she will cry and beg for forgiveness.. cheats are cheat whether male or female.. dont ever waste your time with a cheat!!! and who says divorce is the all unforgivable sin? so a woman or man should stay with a partner who hurts them emotionally because divorce is sooo bad? please forget that hogwash!!! Let them go if they cheat, emotionally /physically abuse you or treat you shabily!!! its better a broken marriage than a broken spirit!!! Life is too short to live is depression!!!!! |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 4:39pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by ikupakuti(m): 4:56pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
stingbreed: Leave am, make he dey dia dey confuse them, Shebi de women he‘s formin to defend get sense pass am & dey understand dia society very well He‘s makin reference to J.Lo, JAY JAY & co shey na nigerians dem be abi we hav de same culture If its dat easy lyk he potrayed, y didnt she get away with it y is she now running around seekin solution MEN STILL RULE & WOMEN HAV MORE TO LOSE IN DIVORCE! THATS MY STAND AND ITS OPEN 4 THE HOT SEAT!! |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by bukatyne(f): 5:10pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
lovetwins: I was looking for a post like This. A woman chooses to forgive, that a single parent household is not Good, the kids need a father figure etc. A man chooses not time forgive believing he can scale all hurdles. It is a choice either party has to make At the end of the day, nobody forces the wife to forgive or the husband to divorce. |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by sleekman(m): 5:24pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
Ewuro4:If She Cheats Thinking She Is Sharp The D Curse I Activated. If She Confesses Then She Must Appear B4 D Egbe And B Prayed 4. |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Ewuro4: 5:30pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
sleekman: I don't believe you. |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Queening(f): 5:43pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by 40manlappy: 5:58pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
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Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by princejayboss: 6:41pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
Emaprince: Bro... I did not and I can never force anyone to be with a cheating wife but I ask you this... If your sister with four kids have a cheating hubby and she found out about the cheating habits of the hubby, will you advice her to get of the marriage? How are you sure the next one is better? Tiger woods case... Did you happen to listen to his ex wife recent leaked conversation ? She was reacting to the rapid fall of woods in the golf court.... Divorce is not a good thing to me, it not really the best way of fixing marriage issue..... AM married to a clinical psychologist and I know and some times witness sections she had with people and I understand more the reason I should fight harD to keep my marriage....Naija no get case nah come abroad you go see case |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by ozedb(m): 7:06pm On Apr 04, 2015 |
You have done the right thing to have confess to your husband but the decision is left for your husband to make. |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 1:22pm On May 21, 2015 |
CaptPlanet: Dont get me wrong. Not DAT I support d fact dat she cheated bt am commending her sincerity. she's a woman u can't kip secret from her husband, she's a woman who regrets and is sori for wat she did. I'm also trying to promote forgiveness. What if she hadnt confessed, would he have known? |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 1:28pm On May 21, 2015 |
Marriage terminated immediately. I can't forgive that kind of issue. I cant; not me. I can't. Not me! It's over. Can't risk being a fool again. Nonsense apology. She may as well confess to Pope Francis. That's her business. |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by suggyspic: 3:01pm On May 21, 2015 |
dearpreye: Pls read Genesis 23 and 24. maybe it will change your view. |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 3:11pm On May 21, 2015 |
suggyspic: No need. My stance on this matter is irreversible. |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by suggyspic: 3:14pm On May 21, 2015 |
dearpreye: lol, are you in anyway related to OBJ. |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 3:15pm On May 21, 2015 |
suggyspic: I take such an act very seriously. ...I can't forgive it. |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by suggyspic: 3:28pm On May 21, 2015 |
dearpreye: I know 99% of people out here would definitely stand with you. its very painful and difficult to forgive nor forget. I stand with the school of taught who believe that there is a grace attached to forgiveness. I dated a lady for 8yrs, came back from NYSC proposed to her. barely two weeks for both families to formally meet, i found out she was dating another married man for over four yrs without my knowing. just like u say. we broke up and went our separate way. I broke my sim card just to avoid calling her,( my guy i did so many things to forget her ) but her number was inside my brain. That was the most painful part. i could not forget her. The only way to forget is to forgive, this i realize immediate i forgave her. forgiveness heals. its a recipe for long life. TRY IT |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 3:57pm On May 21, 2015 |
suggyspic: Very painful, my brother. These folks are hardly loyal. ...From hindsight, you should be grateful to God for revealing the truth about her dubious and treacherous lifestyle. Afterall, you weren't even married before her lies and unfaithfulness came to surface....so to have forgiveen her shouldn't be that hard. .... |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Trottle: 10:04pm On May 21, 2015 |
subbieD:why call another woman's hisband a big fool. and also what if he has never cheated on her? |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Nobody: 1:07am On Jan 17, 2018 |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by PSTEMMA1960(m): 6:36am On Jan 17, 2018 |
suggyspic:since she was the one that confessed without been caught , if i were the husband i will forgive her, bt if the man choses nt to forgive nobody should blame him... |
Re: She Confess To Her Husband, Now........ by Diamond23(f): 7:46am On Jan 17, 2018 |
[color=#770077][/color] Yes she deserved a second chance buh it will be hard to find such man who will give a second chance to a cheating wife or girlfriend.Y cheat in d first place nd later confess hoping he z god dat forgives.....if d husband ask her out of his house, simple she should go meet d man he cheated wit nd continue frm wer dey stop. |
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