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Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Nobody: 6:47pm On Apr 04, 2015
Dolemite:


Ewww, following you? only when I see foolishness like your book on the front page I reply to your posts.

Let ur words build not destroy. The only thing that deserves an Eww is boko haram and other world vices like the Kenyan 147 massacre
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by amsoslim(m): 7:01pm On Apr 04, 2015
GhostProtocol:


She is a nairalander with very big, yello bress. I've been trying to suck it since I registered, to no avail undecided
choi....laf wan kill me.
Culdnt help laf awt so loud dah pipo arund me av bin wondering wahz rung wif me. Man u funi die

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Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Anuoluwap(m): 7:06pm On Apr 04, 2015
Advertisement too much. Nice post but all the main idea is just contained in 7 lines or so. The rest of the post is just advertisement.
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by whocanbewho(m): 7:16pm On Apr 04, 2015
All this kinda theories are so annoying...it Makes chasing girls feel like so sort of trophy or achievement...make money and live a good life. All dis theories are waste of time jare. If u be serious and focus guy with good self esteem den u'll do all those things d op said naturally.

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Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Carp101: 7:24pm On Apr 04, 2015
OP, ur stuff works. I have a date but i told the babe to wait that when i'm less busy she can come over to my house!
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by clemz85(m): 7:27pm On Apr 04, 2015
kuddos Bro

nice piece,
so true, I bought lunch for a girl while seeing her for 1st time where she invited me to see her, I jokingly
told her "girl I'm angry" she ask why? I told her that I have to stand in queue to buy the lunch with my money still deliver it to her like I'm DHL, she laughed we laughed over it, spent 3min and told her that I have
business to attend to, I left.

end point is she had ask me where I live twise wanted to visit once, I declined.
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by vislabraye(m): 7:29pm On Apr 04, 2015
Hmmmm....... You must have plenty babes flocking around you, abi? kudos. The rest is in your e book? ??
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by boluyongp(m): 7:29pm On Apr 04, 2015
All what Charles has said several times on NL is true and its more difficult to learn all these from experience than in books. I think I can recommend Charles' Bang Rule.

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Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Theophinio(m): 7:29pm On Apr 04, 2015
Acebrain28:
Sir, this ur "get a girl love" tips can't make d love 2 last 4eva. Almost all male 9ra--landers 4low trashes lyk dz nd still hv probs.


Guys if u dont want a lady to break up with or toil with you;

If u wanna enjoy a relationship till eternity then #''''' only approach a lady when the green light she shows 4 u is certainly clear to u nd odas as well*i,e LET HA LUV U 1ST N SHOW IT CLEAR B4 U TOAST HA*''''''' aside dis any tin else is secondary.

Thats y it is important to seeek d face of God 1st b4 entering a love life.
Well spoken.
THAT'S JUST THE PLAIN TRUTH
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Emmanicezz: 7:33pm On Apr 04, 2015
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Carp101: 7:37pm On Apr 04, 2015
boluyongp:
All what Charles has said several times on NL is true and its more difficult to learn all these from experience than in books. I think I can recommend Charles' Bang Rule.
hehe...i also told another chick that she doesn't have charisma to date a funny guy like me, but if she promises to be nice, maybe we can give it a try. Haha.
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:45pm On Apr 04, 2015
OP..Your claims Are cLeaRY over The Top...U are just looking for another alert in your bank Account. Am Not busting Ur balls...BangRule By rule is already available on d net for free download..am sure u just refined it to suit Naija Girls.


If u wana Improve Your game... Guys...check dis link out https://www.nairaland.com/1553594/improve-dating-game-here-see/43

Just read pages 0-12...all ur need in dis book is already there with practical examples.



Keep the Straffin....
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by oluwadarey: 7:47pm On Apr 04, 2015
[quote author=CharlesNneji1 post=32345761]
can u pls create an article on how to be just friends or to create more female friends.thanks
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Nobody: 7:48pm On Apr 04, 2015
Well,it is working for me right now. not even a girl I'm dating but the one I'm trying to date. I have been behaving nice to her,say nice words, act like a nice guy but still she does not want to date me. Well,she came back to me when I stopped calling and chatting with her, she is now trying hard to make me happy so that I can open the discussion again.

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Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Henrychris(m): 7:48pm On Apr 04, 2015
grt writeup.tnks man

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Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by CharlesNneji1: 8:04pm On Apr 04, 2015
[quote author=oluwadarey post=32353329][/quote]

i will, bro
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Dolemite(f): 8:09pm On Apr 04, 2015
CharlesNneji1:


smiley i think we are through. Have a great night. sweet dreams. bye

You start a sentence with a capital letter! gosh with such punctuation how can you call yourself an author? undecided
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by butanep(m): 8:13pm On Apr 04, 2015
After reading Charles Nneji Online book... My level of confidence rouse from 60% to 95% spontaneously... I normally get one lady per week but some of his trick I applied have increased the number to 3 ladies per week. Sometimes I just decide not to talk because when I do most of them fall drastically.

The most interesting thing is that I don't lavish money on them... Getting a classy babe down without spending or even taking her for a date is very interesting... The money you spend is probably the one for transport fee... No other expenses attached...

Ladies can be strange sometimes but the keys Charles Nneji do dish out is working, I must confess... You just become in charge...Imagine a lady asking you... Do you really love me... wish is ought to said by a guy. you just feel like a king in the game. Sometimes I just laugh when certain event of such nature occur. Don't want to talk much because my Girl friend is on nairaland...

I must commend you for the good work. You are good at what you do... Leave those that are saying you are writing crap... they re still asleep.
I now know you can still get a classy babe without spending much...Bros Bravo...
I am following you bumber to bumper...

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Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by CharlesNneji1: 8:21pm On Apr 04, 2015
butanep:
After reading Charles Nneji Online book... My level of confidence rouse from 60% to 95% spontaneously... I normally get one lady per week but some of his trick I applied have increased the number to 3 ladies per week. Sometimes I just decide not to talk because when I do most of them fall drastically.

The most interesting thing is that I don't lavish money on them... Getting a classy babe down without spending or even taking her for a date is very interesting... The money you spend is probably the one for transport fee... No other expenses attached...

Ladies can be strange sometimes but the keys Charles Nneji do dish out is working, I must confess... You just become in charge...Imagine a lady asking you... Do you really love me... wish is ought to said by a guy. you just feel like a king in the game. Sometimes I just laugh when certain event of such nature occur. Don't want to talk much because my Girl friend is on nairaland...

I must commend you for the good work. You are good at what you do... Leave those that are saying you are writing crap... they re still asleep.
I now know you can still get a classy babe without spending much...Bros Bravo...

Thanks bro.
I am following you bumber to bumper...
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Gynacologist(m): 8:32pm On Apr 04, 2015
CharlesNneji1:
*warning* Lazy readers, this might be too long for you. Don't bother reading it. But For those who will read it; i used headlines to make it easy to scan through.
****************************************************************

MY TWO FRIENDS

I have two friends who are almost alike. As in, they resemble themselves for many angles.

I will call them James and John (Not their real names)

Both of them are average income earners. Infact, they earn almost the same amounts. Both of them are average looking guys, both of them are about 26 years old, both of them are generous, they both live in a flat and both of them drive the same type of cars.

Here is the only difference between them…

Girls flock around James like flies. They love him, they throw themselves at him, and about a couple of girls had even fought over him in the past. Some of the girls even go as far as buying things for him and trying to tie him down by getting pregnant for him.

As in, he is a real player who effortlessly gets girls interested in him.

But John’s isn’t that lucky…

Getting a girl is a big wahala for him. And for the ones he MANAGES to get; the way they play him is very touching.

He buys them things, tells them how much he loves them, shows them that he really cares for them. And these girls hang around for a while then either dumps him, tell him they don’t love him or out rightly cheats on him.

Some hang around him for a while, allow him to spend on them and then they send him an IV to their wedding with some other dude.

So what is the difference between the two?

Why are they so alike, and yet, have different results with love?
What is James’s secret?

That is what I will show you…infact he uses ONE main trick.

THE TRICK is this: He becomes emotionally superior to the babe

BECOMING EMOTIONALLY SUPERIOR TO A BABE:

Girls love to be chased. They love to play hard to get – it’s their nature.

Sometimes their shakara is quite normal.

But some other times; they do the shakara for you because you irritate them and they don’t want you around. They do it so they can put you off.

If a girl ignores your calls,

Ignores your chats,

Doesn’t want to go out on a date with you,

Never agrees to visit you,

Cheats on you,

Acts cold on the phone with you,

Talks to you in a harsh tone when you talk to her,

Doesn’t agree to give you her number after you have asked her twice for it…

She is not playing hard to get this time, bro, she actually finds you irritating. That is the hard plain painful truth. She finds you so irritating that the only thing she wants to do is to give you those attitudes so you can just free her.

If you get this same behavior from MOST girls you approach, then you are like my friend John

But don’t worry – I am about to show you what will put a stop to it forever (Yes, I said it. forever).

So what can you do to put a stop to it?

By becoming emotionally superior to her.

How do you become emotionally superior?

Here is the trick; To get a girl interested in you you have to do the opposite of what other guys do around her.

Other Guys praise her.
Other Guys try never to offend her.
Other Guys say only nice things to her.
Guys call her to ask her why she doesn’t reply their calls.
Other guys beg her to love them…

The trick is never do any of these things other guys do but rather, do the direct opposite.

Why?

Because the old method of praising girls, telling them how you feel about them and buying things for them don’t work anymore – it might have worked when you were a teenager but guy, babes don wise up – as they grow older they become more akpo.

If the old method of always trying to impress girls work then the girls you’ve chased in the past for dey trip for you die

For instance, instead of praising a girl – tease her.

Don’t say: “You are beautiful” (It’s a dry praise she hears all the time. Infact she has heard it so much that it justs boosts her ego without making her feel anything for who said it)

Turn it around and make it more sexy by saying something more manly:

Take for instance:

On a date you can say something like: “on a scale of 1- 10. For your face, I will give you 5 points. I will need to see some qualities in you before I give you the other 5 points”

Now, if you keep face like mess and say this to a girl she will think you are an arrogant idiot. The trick is to say it playfully – smile, relax and say it.
Most times when you say this to a girl she would go like: “For your mind. What are the qualities sha?”.
And you’ve hooked her…

You could throw in more teasing to turn up the tension by saying “Quality number one: give me 6 twins at a go for 2 points”.

So why does this works so well to set you apart from other guys?

It is simple plain psychology – human beings only LOVE interacting with people who are their level or above their level.
Trying to impress a girl you are chasing is like walking into her room crawling, with your hands stretched out as you beg for attention.
It makes a girl see you as someone below her.

Also, this method makes a girl go like WTF. Why is he so different from other guys, there must be something special about him – that’s just why he would behave this way.

MORE EXAMPLES FOR PROJECTING EMOTIONAL SUPERIORITY
Tips from my previous article:


# Never ask a girl how she feels about you. Never ever ever do it. My wahala is that even after reading this some guys will go out and still do it. when you ask a girl how she feels about you it makes her see you as someone who she has under her control. and when a girl feels she has you under her control, it kills every interest she has in you.

Women like men that are in control.

-#1. Never tell a girl how you feel about her TOO EARLY. I will keep saying this. Before you tell a girl how you feel about her you have to be sure she feels two times the same way for you. In eBook, The bang rule, i explained 3 steps you have to take before you let a girl know how you feel about her. follow those 3 steps in the exact way i explained them in the eBook and she would never think of friend zoning you. See my profile for how to get the eBook.

- #2 Stop Seeking Her Approval. Even if you did not get any other thing from this article - just get this. I don't preach disrespecting ladies, but still, guy - you are the man, not she. When you take your whole power as a guy and give it over to her, you are shooting yourself in the leg.

Some of the way most guys make this particular mistake is:

- They call a girl up and beg her to see them. Like, they beg.
- They beg a girl to call them. I overhead a guy saying something like this to a girl on phone one day: "Call me now, you never call me. Call me now"

Haba na. When you BEG a girl for anything you are handing your power to her and girls Never date a guy who is "weak"

MORE EXAMPLES:

1. Instead of telling a girl you want to fix a date with: “Can we see tomorrow” (this is weak). Say instead: “I decided to take myself to the movies tomorrow; I want someone interesting to go with. You just won the chance. If you say no, I will bite your nose”
(This projects you as someone who is in control. You are choosing her, she is not choosing you. Girls love guys they can’t control. I know this sounds weird but it’s the truth)

This article has become long enough. For more examples get my ebook today. See my profiles for numbers to call or watsapp. In the book I went into details on how to be emotionally superior on Pages 59 – 66

In my ebook, The Bang Rule, I also revealed the following

- Two things you need to do within the first five minutes of walking up to a girl that would make her instantly like you…. Page 52

- One trick MOST GUYS DON’T KNOW that you can use to make a woman want to come over to your house to pay you a visit, even when she knows you have the intention of having sex with her… Page 25.

- How to make a girl take massive interest in you even to the extent of chasing you shamelessly…page 45

- One way to start a conversation with a girl you just met that will cripple all her defenses and make her polite with you. This ONE WAY will ensure that girls never embarrass you when you walk up to them to woo them… pages 55-56

- What to do that will make a girl always coming back to you, even if you treat her badly. This is the same secret players use to make a girl rush back to them after every quarrel…pages 66 – 67

- One thing you need to do around a girl you are asking out that will make her feel lucky that you are asking her out…. page 69

Plus many many more.

To get the ebook; click on my username then on my profiles you will see a watsapp number to contact.

Peace, bro…
aw do i get ds so called e book....
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by jerrymej(m): 8:43pm On Apr 04, 2015
Nice one

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Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by jerrymej(m): 8:44pm On Apr 04, 2015
More grease to your elbow Bro.

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Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by boluyongp(m): 8:59pm On Apr 04, 2015
Carp101:
hehe...i also told another chick that she doesn't have charisma to date a funny guy like me, but if she promises to be nice, maybe we can give it a try. Haha.

Hehehe.. My guy, nice one.. She go just dey shock gringringrin

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Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Uchesis: 9:01pm On Apr 04, 2015
[quote author=CharlesNneji1 post=32340571]*warning* Lazy readers, this might be too long for you. Don't bother reading it. But For those who will read it; i used headlines to make it easy to scan through.
****************************************************************

MY TWO FRIENDS

I have two friends who are almost alike. As in, they resemble themselves for many angles.

I will call them James and John (Not their real names)

Both of them are average income earners. Infact, they earn almost the same amounts. Both of them are average looking guys, both of them are about 26 years old, both of them are generous, they both live in a flat and both of them drive the same type of cars.

Here is the only difference between them…

Girls flock around James like flies. They love him, they throw themselves at him, and about a couple of girls had even fought over him in the past. Some of the girls even go as far as buying things for him and trying to tie him down by getting pregnant for him.

As in, he is a real player who effortlessly gets girls interested in him.

But John’s isn’t that lucky…

Getting a girl is a big wahala for him. And for the ones he MANAGES to get; the way they play him is very touching.

He buys them things, tells them how much he loves them, shows them that he really cares for them. And these girls hang around for a while then either dumps him, tell him they don’t love him or out rightly cheats on him.

Some hang around him for a while, allow him to spend on them and then they send him an IV to their wedding with some other dude.

So what is the difference between the two?

Why are they so alike, and yet, have different results with love?
What is James’s secret?

That is what I will show you…infact he uses ONE main trick.

THE TRICK is this: He becomes emotionally superior to the babe

BECOMING EMOTIONALLY SUPERIOR TO A BABE:

Girls love to be chased. They love to play hard to get – it’s their nature.

Sometimes their shakara is quite normal.

But some other times; they do the shakara for you because you irritate them and they don’t want you around. They do it so they can put you off.

If a girl ignores your calls,

Ignores your chats,

Doesn’t want to go out on a date with you,

Never agrees to visit you,

Cheats on you,

Acts cold on the phone with you,

Talks to you in a harsh tone when you talk to her,

Doesn’t agree to give you her number after you have asked her twice for it…

She is not playing hard to get this time, bro, she actually finds you irritating. That is the hard plain painful truth. She finds you so irritating that the only thing she wants to do is to give you those attitudes so you can just free her.

If you get this same behavior from MOST girls you approach, then you are like my friend John

But don’t worry – I am about to show you what will put a stop to it forever (Yes, I said it. forever).

So what can you do to put a stop to it?

By becoming emotionally superior to her.

How do you become emotionally superior?

Here is the trick; To get a girl interested in you you have to do the opposite of what other guys do around her.

Other Guys praise her.
Other Guys try never to offend her.
Other Guys say only nice things to her.
Guys call her to ask her why she doesn’t reply their calls.
Other guys beg her to love them…

The trick is never do any of these things other guys do but rather, do the direct opposite.

Why?

Because the old method of praising girls, telling them how you feel about them and buying things for them don’t work anymore – it might have worked when you were a teenager but guy, babes don wise up – as they grow older they become more akpo.

If the old method of always trying to impress girls work then the girls you’ve chased in the past for dey trip for you die

For instance, instead of praising a girl – tease her.

Don’t say: “You are beautiful” (It’s a dry praise she hears all the time. Infact she has heard it so much that it justs boosts her ego without making her feel anything for who said it)

Turn it around and make it more sexy by saying something more manly:

Take for instance:

On a date you can say something like: “on a scale of 1- 10. For your face, I will give you 5 points. I will need to see some qualities in you before I give you the other 5 points”

Now, if you keep face like mess and say this to a girl she will think you are an arrogant idiot. The trick is to say it playfully – smile, relax and say it.
Most times when you say this to a girl she would go like: “For your mind. What are the qualities sha?”.
And you’ve hooked her…

You could throw in more teasing to turn up the tension by saying “Quality number one: give me 6 twins at a go for 2 points”.

So why does this works so well to set you apart from other guys?

Bros abeg no vex o.... How many galfrnds do u have?
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Uchesis: 9:12pm On Apr 04, 2015
Dear O.P, if u know say u no go fit break King Solomon's record in womanology with all dese grammar den mek u park well. U still dey learn. Anyway, nice write-up
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by SkinnyDude(m): 9:14pm On Apr 04, 2015
dryakson:
look my username on nairaland and look carefully the email...belive me, the tricks work like magic...... Am even afraid of PRACTICING the tricks self cos it make girls glue to me....
On social media, forget it..... Girls never get bored of you.... A girl that never reply my messages on whatsapp for centuries suddenly became my best friend..... She text me first everyday....... Am playing hard to get on her now.. Lol
na wash..
na so i loose my 200naira airtime in the year 2010.
i shall never fall for these cheap scammers
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Carp101: 9:15pm On Apr 04, 2015
boluyongp:


Hehehe.. My guy, nice one.. She go just dey shock gringringrin
haha yes. tx man.
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by ohaleoghene(f): 9:23pm On Apr 04, 2015
this can never work on a girl whose heart is taken... if a woman doesn't want you if u like read all the whole seduction books she still won't .

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Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Optimist1(m): 9:42pm On Apr 04, 2015
Houseofglam7:
Summarize am na
cry


My eyes dey bleed
cry

abi u nid a man?
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by Nobody: 9:45pm On Apr 04, 2015
See d way dem dey make dis girls feel too important. We talking abt money nd u niggas are talking nonsense undecided

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Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by dmxsyntax(m): 10:00pm On Apr 04, 2015
Nonsense boy! Ur mate r tryin to make a history n u r dia studyin gals.EWU
Re: ONE Trick You Can Use To Get A Girl To Take You More Seriously Than Other Guys. by OkikiOluwa1(m): 10:07pm On Apr 04, 2015
CharlesNneji1:


Thank you, bro
Ahhh, na so u analyse everything...

You are correct.
I v tasted both fair & nice treatments from gals.
Now, I know how to control dem...
You, learning from experience

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