The title of this piece may seem a bit strong-
toned but very necessary in describing the point
I am trying to pass across. As always, please
keep an open mind till I make my point.
There is nothing wrong with being single. In
order to capture and keep the heart of your
dream bae, it is important to work on yourself till
you become a near-perfect partner. That will
make the way for a long lasting union. If you
search within yourself and know that your
attitude cannot make someone happy, the saintly
thing to do is to keep things light till you can
make the necessary changes on your own.
With the steady increasing rate of divorce and
separation, there are five recurrent factors that
keep the statistics on a steady rise and I will
mention them in order of severity. These factors,
in moderation can be salvaged but when people
are hardwired with them, it is hard to make a
successful relationship that isn’t filled with tears
and unnecessary sacrifices.
In my humble opinion, here are the five types of
people that are better off single:


The Contemptuous People

Contempt is the number one killer of
relationships! Contempt is the beautiful art of
belittling your partner in order to appear superior.
Normal conversations are usually delivered with
subtle insults, sarcasms, mockery or hostile
humor. Body language, such as eyes-rolling or
disgusted look, and tone of voice give the
clearest clue. Contempt may be hard to define
but l bet you know it when you feel it. “You look
disgusting, please change that outfit” “You
should be smart enough to turn off the lights
before you leave the house”


The Defensive People

A.K.A the Proud. They are never wrong or
remotely curious about their part in problems!
They become defensive when challenged. They
are quick to apologize just to end an argument
but still feel they are right. They never see the
seriousness of their partners’ complaints and are
quick to dismiss them. Always ready to justify,
explain, or rationalize their behaviors.


The Criticizers

Criticism can be tolerated but in excess can be
very demoralizing. Criticism is also very easy to
spot and yet another devastating reason for the
guilty party to remain single. Criticizers point out
the faults of someone or something in a
disapproving way by attacking the partner’s
character and who they are. They are very quick
to pass harsh judgments and easy to find faults
in any little mistake. These people slowly rob
their victims of self-confidence and peace of
mind.


The Stonewallers

These people are royalty when it comes to silent
treatments. They literally pause a relationship
when they are upset and restart it when they
come out of their shells without offering
constructive insight for their behaviors. They
refuse to relate or contribute when they feel
hurt. Much like what you’d get whenever you talk
to a wall of stone.


The Morally Bankrupt

The moral compass of these people have been
broken, sold or replaced by ice. The bottom line
is, they feel nothing when they do or say hurtful
things. The perpetual cheaters fall in this
category. They do not see anything bad in having
multiple sexual partners. The perpetual liars,
physical and emotional abusers also fall into this
category. If you are not in a relationship for love,
you have no problem with these type of people.
They are actually quite nice. Whenever they
meet/marry their kind, the bond is usually
unbreakable.
At some point in life, everyone exhibits a bit of
these traits in little doses and should not be
crucified for them. When these traits become
defining characteristics, it is then better to
introspect and re-evaluate while unattached so
as not to increase the number of people who
think poorly of us.
Goodluck!
Source :- Chiugo Akaolisa

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Hmmmm

everyone is entitled to be in relationship, the people you mentioned are not even a problem....compared to girl beaters. relationship is more about experimenting.

6. Wife beaters

They are the most dangerous set of people in marriage. They are better off ssingle!

If a woman marries a wife beater, she don sign her death warrant be that .

I have heard you

OP WHICH AREA DID U BELONG