While the ones I don't love die for me??
What could be the reason? Pls advise!

Its simply because you don't love the ones that love you. You're the one victimizing yourself. Na only one thing all babes carry they waka, you would know if you have seen many. No go dey waste your time on people who don't have your time. Be wise.

illiad:
Its simply because you don't love the ones that love you. You're the one victimizing yourself. Na only one thing all babes carry they waka, you would know if you have seen many. No go dey waste your time on people who don't have your time. Be wise.

well said. u cn learn 2 luv d ones dat u dnt luv. all d bst bro

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Because they know that a pussyphilia is only after there p*ssy..

all this galz na the same em be all over ooo

Prolly cos of ya moniker

op i understand what u r goin tru...

it happens a lot
u juz av to take it as one of life packages

Welcome to the real world son, in time you will come to learn that in life, we don't always get what we want.

But till then, good luck with you and your unrequited love.

I was once a victim of this, was loving the ones that were busy frolicking with all the azzholes around then my ogochukwu came around, nothing like love at first site, just learnt how 2 love her and brother am so much walking her down the aisle

@ Op appreciate d ones dat love u

sorry...they r busy loving someone else

Thank you all! But it's not easy to let go of the one I love. Just wish she understands how ready I am to sacrifice anything for her happiness.
Anyway, I am still learning to unlove her and move on. God help me

pussyphilia:
While the ones I don't love die for me??
What could be the reason? Pls advise!

Because that's life, it's unfair. Not every rain will fall on us. There's a lady somewhere that will love but you won't love her back. That's life for you. Take for an example, Genevieve have many crushes or love interest from the male population. Can she date all of them? No!! She can only date one leaving the rest in heartbreak. That's nothing you can do about it. Learn to master the act of moving on and accepting things you can't change. There's a lady out there for every man, you just have to keep searching for yours. Don't set lofty objectives while searching lest you end up single for life.

pussyphilia:
Thank you all! But it's not easy to let go of the one I love. Just wish she understands how ready I am to sacrifice anything for her happiness.
Anyway, I am still learning to unlove her and move on. God help me

Therein lies your problem - letting go. The first heartbreak I had, it took me almost 8 months, 8 grueling months to let go. I was young and naïve.

What you need to do is to master the art of letting go, the art of accepting things won't work and moving on. Nowadays, a month is the highest I can stay before I move on, for a girl I'm crazy about that is. It's hard because you have not yet decided to let go. One day, you'll get there, once it dawns on you that you are causing more harm than good to yourself.

sinizia:


Therein lies your problem - letting go. The first heartbreak I had, it took me almost 8 months, 8 grueling months to let go. I was young and naïve.

What you need to do is to master the art of letting go, the art of accepting things won't work and moving on. Nowadays, a month is the highest I can stay before I move on, for a girl I'm crazy about that is. It's hard because you have not yet decided to let go. One day, you'll get there, once it dawns on you that you are causing more harm than good to yourself.

Thank you bro.

Love grows with time u know dat rit, so try and love d ones dat love u and u will see dat with time u will love dem bak.