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Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by MazadoGoodman: 9:21am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Perhaps, he could take his case to institutions like the Public Complaints Commission, NLC, TUC, etc. Maybe, even ICPC. Fact is, this is morally wrong, economic sabotage, religious misadventure, socially undignifying, therefore totally unacceptable. This is shamefully showing how emasculated the majority are in this country. However, there are only two options in this scenario, none is easy: 1. CONFRONTATION or 2. COMPROMISE I feel for your brother, but it's actually his call; only he can liberate himself. Go with God! 1 Like |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Tshaphilo: 9:22am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Advise ur brother to continue to look for another place with the help of mother mary he will gt a better place. l was in that type of situation for 7yrs an nothing came out at d end I was asked to leave witout any benefit.Mean while my church has a general hospitalized that 75%of the staff are non Catholics. 3 Likes |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Pennyways: 9:23am On Apr 16, 2015 |
ubiquitousade: |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Octaves(m): 9:24am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Ok. Thanks a lot Prettiepearlz: 2 Likes |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by chrisley024(m): 9:27am On Apr 16, 2015 |
It's very possible the man is using his workers to make money; maybe the reason he insists on them attending the church and taking communion(I can never do this one) 3 Likes |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Octaves(m): 9:31am On Apr 16, 2015 |
He's agreed to stop receiving communion and see what the employee will do. Thanks femi4: |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by boujaye: 9:33am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Octaves: What are you waiting for? dump that job and run for your life, this anti-christ ministry 1 Like |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Defcon1(m): 9:33am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Only in Nigeria!!! Church my middle finger! Charlatans giving Christ a bad name. |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by johnydon22(m): 9:34am On Apr 16, 2015 |
[size=20] Thats no big deal, go to the church as long as you are getting paid.. [/size] |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by DamselQueen: 9:35am On Apr 16, 2015 |
End time tin |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by sunsewa: 9:35am On Apr 16, 2015 |
[quote author=italo post=32545492] You see? This is what happens when "Catholics" don't actively practise their faith. They become like balloons that can be blown by any wind to any corner. No actively practising Catholic will even contemplate this. I for one would die of starvation before I do this. |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by KingTom(m): 9:36am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Chukaholic:But the topic says "My employer" meaning he is the one! I don't know why we can't be honest with ourselves. |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Mandu94: 9:39am On Apr 16, 2015 |
CrazyMan: Although you state the truth, slavery still continues today. Whether through free labour, exploitation, sex and other such things. There are many problems where bosses exploit their employees e.g making female staff sleep with them to sustain their jobs or get a promotion. (or women feel obliged to do so) There is a significant problem surrounding exploitation and mistreatment. It is not easy to just find another job, but easy to say the man should leave his job. For example what if you have worked in the company for many years or have to support a family which relies on that person greatly. This means such people are highly likely to succumb to exploitation. Looking at Nigeria statistics there is widespread poverty. In my opinion there should be a regulatory body in Nigeria which deals with such cases and sues the man who forces his employee to attend his church. This money should be used to pay the man regardless of whether he is sacked or not until he finds a job. In reality there is a lot of bribery in the country and corruption is a large issue, therefore the media needs to have a name and shame approach to such organisations and employers. This will be a deterrence, but also the importance of employee right should be foremost and they should feel their concerns are taken very seriously. 1 Like |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by jamillion: 9:41am On Apr 16, 2015 |
People indirectly worshiping lucifer in d name employment |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by VickyRotex(f): 9:43am On Apr 16, 2015 |
CrazyMan: Nice one!!! Op, exactly my advice for your brother... 1 Like |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Ameboperoo(m): 9:43am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Octaves:I don't mean to be sarcastic. If he's working for a church, then he should be ready to go by the rules and regulations of the church. For example, if he's the church accountant or organist whose salary is paid by the church, why would he expect less? But on the contrary, if he works for the man, then he (the employer) has no business with him going to any church. He can even decide not to be going to any church. It's none of the employers business! |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by kushsy: 9:45am On Apr 16, 2015 |
They are collecting part of the money back to the family weather you like if or not..that's Bullshit |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Wislet(f): 9:49am On Apr 16, 2015 |
I HAVE ONLY ONE ADVICE FOR THE OP........ QUIT YOUR JOB. That is slavery. Any self-respecting person would have quit long ago. Don't go the 'will I get another job' angle. Nigeria is full of opportunities. It is people who have no drive or 'sight' that wait/beg for another man to give him a job. Some are even ready to become slaves all in a bid to answer 'employed'. Apply for job elsewhere(more than 4 places) or better still learn a skill you're passionate about and start your own business. Forcing a person to take communion, deducting your salary, forced donations, attending compulsory 'service' etc. My dear, if none of these things sound strange to you, what about forced communion?? Be very careful. Very very careful. Beware. Beware. Don't be linked stupidly to what you know nothing about because of greed. No true child of God filled with the holy spirit will do that. 2 Likes |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Mandu94: 9:54am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Mandu94: 1 Like |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Wislet(f): 9:54am On Apr 16, 2015 |
jamillion:agreeing to be a slave and do something you know is ungodly because of money/job is a form of devil worship. THE LOVE OF MONEY IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL. johnydon22:some people have already lost themselves and can sell their souls for paper. After all, money is paper. Your soul...that you cannot buy. 1 Like |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by sunsewa: 9:55am On Apr 16, 2015 |
there is no two ways abt it,either u work wt d condition,while searching 4 another job which i wil prefer or u quit and face starvation,even if u don't have children,d condition can be sacrificed knowing it is not forever. 1 Like |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Octaves(m): 9:56am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Mmh! The employer has made it his business to come to his church. Ameboperoo: |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Mandu94: 9:59am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Wislet: Wislet: I'm afraid to say, you do not know his priorities, people need money to support themselves, so being maltreated is not a form of devil worship. ? The employer is behaving ungodly its not the employee. Such mentality is very backwards for today. |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Nobody: 10:01am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Your boss is a slave-driver. If I were you,I will follow my belief. Don't be afraid of losing your job because with a boss like your boss,you don't have a job and you are only on a temporary employment. 2 Likes |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Ganjafama(m): 10:01am On Apr 16, 2015 |
italo:Have you ever gone without food for 3 days due to hardship? If you have, you won't make this statement. Meanwhile, @Op abeg how do I apply for a job in the company? Even if na to join the church sef I go do am. Shebi na God dem dey serve dia? 2 Likes |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by ZahraBuhari(f): 10:09am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Octaves: Whenever he quits he should endeavour to call the employer, his wife pastor, and all the other slave co-workers ALL into a room for a special announcement. Then he tells them: I quit! And it would be nice I tell you this- FVCK YOU (points at employer), UR WIFE, AND UR PRIMARY SCHOOL ASSEMBLY U CALL CHURCH. ALSO, FVCK THE BREAD U VE BEEN GIVING ME IN UR CHURCH WHICH HAS BEEN GIVING ME STOMACH ACHE. WE WILL SEE IN COURT" Then you slam the door and leave like a boss 1 Like |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by Arysexy(m): 10:09am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Octaves: Since ur family are staunch Catholics, tell ur brother to go meet ur parish priest during Paris office hour n explain his predicament. Believe me, ur brother will get work within two weeks. Just a call from d priest to well to do church members that own companies will help ur brother. Meanwhile ask him to join church prayer groups, they help each other with vacancies. He must discontinue receiving what He does not believe in. 1 Like |
Re: My Employer Wants Me To Come To His Church Or Be Fired (advice) by maryhaam(f): 10:09am On Apr 16, 2015 |
U better join choir,are u a learner |
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