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Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by pickabeau1: 8:17am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Teespice: Very calm and unemotional post so I will respond Yes he is d fiance now which is the step before becoming a hubby Life plans don't start from wedding day Yes some people have gone back in their words post wedding but this is still not applicable to every one. As the woman she has to use her judgement to decipher the true intent Some have done it and prospered This particular op was not sure of his plans for her hence the words....the man who claimed to love me |
Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by kaboninc(m): 8:55am On Apr 19, 2015 |
pickabeau1: Hmmm |
Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by pickabeau1: 9:00am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by kaboninc(m): 9:02am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by pickabeau1: 9:06am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by kaboninc(m): 9:07am On Apr 19, 2015 |
Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by spiralwedge(m): 9:40am On Apr 19, 2015 |
u did the right thing. thank God it happened b4 marriage. move on and stop regretting 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by Teespice(f): 1:10pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
pickabeau1: I feel she has compromised enough sef. she wants to work for at least two years, then resign she would work her transfer back to ph which would make it easier for her to commute, he refused. he's saying he wants to open a drug store for her, has he considered that she does not have the required licence. I agree that life plans does not start from the wedding. from what I have read, a man who loves her and wants her to succeed would reach a compromise, hence her use of the word "claims to love me". Op has made her decision, all this one we are saying is additional jara. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by pickabeau1: 2:59pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
Teespice: I brought up life plans starting because you said he was not her husband Her compromising or not is based on one side of the story She made the best decision granted Is it the right decision is another one ONLY TIME WILL TELL. |
Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by Teespice(f): 3:01pm On Apr 19, 2015 |
pickabeau1: lol no wahala. |
Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by Emaprince: 4:24pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
Good decision miss Op. Especially due to the fact that your siblings depends on you. Its really a bad situation to be in. Yes, I support the Op but if I was the man, I don't think I can marry a woman who works in another city while I work in another city. That's not marriage to me! Both are supposed to be living together. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by kweenkong(f): 4:45pm On Apr 23, 2015 |
There is no right or wrong in this situation. Starting out life with a man is based on your personal conviction , dreams and aspirations. We were told to marry a man who we share the same dreams with. So why do people expect her to halt her dreams and jump ship? Funny thing is she might meet another man and move for much less. Aside from the financial help to her family , she needs to be sure she is doing the right thing. i wish the poster well, and she should never ever regret her decision. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help! Did I Make A Wise Decision Or Was I Being Selfish? by iriskiki(f): 2:28pm On Nov 25, 2015 |
God bless you. Beta pikin. JeffreyJamez: |
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