LogoDWhiz:
Acting, behaving, thinking and reasoning like a kid.

Be a focused. Have a goal in life.
Set and pursue realistic goals though.

Lala247:
1 & 2 no no

suxxman:
Just in Case

Rapmoney:
U dor nail am be that

Darkrebel666:


~ No.7 - Who do guys impress then ? their fellow males?
nonsense ... everything done is to impress the opposite sex and vice versa..

that's nature ...

Rapmoney:
Ur first point sha

chymystique:


After impressing with and every every and you are still being turned down nko? Men being themselves is the best impression and one way to get niCe ladies of their choice and not aCt like boys tryna impress their crush.

Nneka123:
Number 1 tho


And they are the one who make hella noise both here and in the real world, they got nothing, and no shame, jeez!!!


2.) Stop sagging

Darkrebel666:



~ How do you know number one makes noise


Lil Wayne is 30+ yet he sags

Nneka123:
leave lil wayne out of this , he acts like kid, still skating and stuff

Darkrebel666:


~ He's living his life because he hustled to the top.
Stop hating him ..hater

Skating is not childish abeg.. that's like saying Messi is childish for still playing soccer at 20+...
and Please that thing Lil Wayne is doing is not skating- He's only attempting skating cos he can't skate one bit

Nneka123:
I don't hate him how can i hate on "Young Mulla baby"

When he tries to skate on stage, it's funny. Then he take off his shirt, like yuck!


so back to the topic, which one will you stop doing when you are 25?

chymystique:
6) Squandering Money Foolishly without making any Investment

7) Going extra miles to Impress Gals


8] Not Having Ambition/Life goals


9) Being Dirty/Untidy

10) Fighting in public/ Abusing the Female gender

Rapmoney:
1) Living with your parents and still feeling comfortable: Though, it is not a crime to still stay with your parents when you are 25 and above but it gives cause to worry when you still feel comfortable living and eating on them without any meaningful contribution! There are dudes who do nothing, still living in their folks' house, living off them without contributing a dime to the upkeep of the house!!! That's terrible! Most of these guys do nothing other than to eat, watch movies, listen to 2Chainz via their earphones, hang out with friends, drink and make silly noise! You can't even buy Close-Up toothpaste if the previouse one gets exhausted or replace a dead bulb in the house Of what use are you then to the old folks?

Rapmoney:

3) Stopping girls randomly on the road: No serious, educated, enlightened and sensible girl would want to give you a listening ear if you continue to do this...the gospel truth! It is no longer considered mature to bump into a woman you don't know in order to toast her! On the road! Well, except she's a who.re! Common! You are 25 or above!!! Why half your age?

i see nothing wrong with this. There is no specific place stated that a man can approach a lady.

He should do what is comfortable for him.

Na one day dem take dey know person.

Other points are spot on.

Thumbs Up!

chymystique:
6) Squandering Money Foolishly without making any Investment

7) Going extra miles to Impress Gals


8] Not Having Ambition/Life goals


9) Being Dirty/Untidy

10) Fighting in public/ Abusing the Female gender

nawtikid:
All dis yeye instructions on hw to live life no dey taya una?

naijaboiy:

There are some guys who may still be in the University at 25 and not have much going for themselves due to their course of study.

Or their parents are very well to do and are not really bothered about their child's contribution.

I think that's an exception to this number 1 rule.


i see nothing wrong with this. There is no specific place stated that a man can approach a lady.

He should do what is comfortable for him.

Na one day dem take dey know person.

Other points are spot on.

Thumbs Up!

Mhizkel:
Asking a girl you just met online to come and see you...Shey you be movie abi your house na Ozone?

tosyne2much:
Wooooooow !!! Brilliant write-up Rapmoney

In addition, I'm more than 25yrs and I don't find myself doing any of this silly things but that doesn't mean that we shouldn't readjust in other areas which was not listed by the OP

chymystique:


After impressing with and every every and you are still being turned down nko? Men being themselves is the best impression and one way to get niCe ladies of their choice and not aCt like boys tryna impress their crush.







Its true.. Some men squander almost more than they earn on irrelevant things with nothing to show to his name... Someone earning 50k and in a month spends almost 40k on Just "drinks" and "flexing" alone oo and before the month runs out he is broke and looking ffor where to perch/borrow.. one man was even telling me he has to spend money and enJoy himself now that he is alive today Cause he might die tomao and that he believes his kids should hustle for their future. imagine!

Fulaboy:
Kaiiii rapmoney your is first rule is too strict

Rapmoney:
funny you!

Rapmoney:
Go sleep jooor!!!

Rapmoney:
Sorry, tosyne2much for this thread. Ever since I joined NL in 2008, I have never created a counter thread but now, I have to do this!

There's an African proverb that says 'It's better to chase away the fox before blaming the sheep' . I believe tosyne2much has done the needful by chasing away the proverbial fox . Now, we need to blame the proverbial sheep

There are certain things I consider silly that guys who are 25 and above should stop doing! Below are them:

1) Living with your parents and still feeling comfortable: Though, it is not a crime to still stay with your parents when you are 25 and above but it gives cause to worry when you still feel comfortable living and eating on them without any meaningful contribution! There are dudes who do nothing, still living in their folks' house, living off them without contributing a dime to the upkeep of the house!!! That's terrible! Most of these guys do nothing other than to eat, watch movies, listen to 2Chainz via their earphones, hang out with friends, drink and make silly noise! You can't even buy Close-Up toothpaste if the previouse one gets exhausted or replace a dead bulb in the house Of what use are you then to the old folks?

2) Collecting money from folks for minor stuffs: If you still collect money from your parents for minor stuffs such as paying for haircut, clothes, footwears, then you are not better than a toddler! I mean, you need to start celebrating Children's Day every May 27th . Atleast, that would make us understand better that you are still a kid! At 25, you should be able to hussle legally for cash, no matter how small it is to cater for stuffs like cutting of hair and other little things. This would even give you more respect in the eyes of your folks even if you are still living with them.

3) Stopping girls randomly on the road: No serious, educated, enlightened and sensible girl would want to give you a listening ear if you continue to do this...the gospel truth! It is no longer considered mature to bump into a woman you don't know in order to toast her! On the road! Well, except she's a who.re! Common! You are 25 or above!!! Why half your age?

4) Acting as stooge: As you get older, you should begin to be the No. 1 decision-maker in your life. If you are easily swayed by friends, then you are not mature then. If friends can bump into your residence and ask you to join them for a birthday bash of someone you barely know and you spring up to get dressed, you are acting below your age! Saying 'NO' to the requests of certain people sometimes Portrays you as a rational person who can make decisions that concern their life Stop acting like a 10 year-old boy! Youu are 25 or above!!!

5) Being a slave to sex: At 25, you should be able to have control of the manner of girls that enter your life. Don't be a weak dude who allows all sorts of women to override you via the power of sex!!! You should be able to set a long yard between you and certain types of ladies. When you discover that a girl is trying to override you or use you as a means to satisfy her financial needs with you hoping to have sex with her, you should be able to run away from her! Yes, run away from her! Running away is allowed

I am always pleased when I see my fellow guys acting sensibly

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