Oh my God!!! Is ds dharey? If na u be ds,abegi ds thread no be 4 u plssss,ds na 4 d young perfect mind oo lol

nniero:
I'm 28,av bin in my relationship 4 7yrs, along d way I met a corper guy jst as friends bt I tink I fell in luv wt him bt I dnt double date,so no chance 4 us datin den. Later we lost contact. Now,I n my fiance av started working,I'm ready 4 marriage bt he is not cos of financial stand...somehow, I n d corper guy made contact again after many years,he claim he still luv me n want 2 marry me.
Hmmm I luv my fiance,bt I luv ds guy too....I dnt want 2 make a mistake,pls I'm in a cross road,what can I do

first dia is no way u will b in love with two pple, if u love ur fiance u wouldnt b in love wit d oda. so I guess d corper guy is d one u love.
2) at 28, u shld b married already. if ur so called fiance isnt ready, he is a guy he can wait till 40, dont let anyone waste ur tym. d older u get, d more difficult it becomes to find a suitor.

nniero:
@ dharey,I can tell u emphatically dt am nt messing around...I rily wanna marry my guy bt he seems not ready,so wot am I suppose 2 do? Wait 4eva? I told him I dnt care abt if he is millionaire now or not,bt he wouldn't listen. And d oda guy seems ready..dts y am confused

marriage is not some thine you rush into!
like some1 said prayers are crucial at this stage
a relatnshp of 7 years with no future is just as bad as a marriage with no future.
how would you feel if the man of your dreams is not amongst the options you are presenting!
it is now you make God your friend!

DuchessLily:
Pray ... Ask God to reveal to u which of them is best

Which God

communication is the key.. reason why we get relationship problems is cos people don't talk to each other about wats bothering them rather they keep it in.

tell him your plight let him know how you feel.. tell him you love him and still want to be with him. but also let him know dat you don't have time on your side that you want to get married but if he's not then tell him to move on.. its better he hears it from you

Passing by

OP, please try and update us on what happened afterwards...we wanna learn from this!