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Winning Her Heart Part 1 by Nobody: 10:57am On Apr 20, 2015
No story let's get it done

1. Don't come on too strong
early: Let the relationship
develop at its own pace. Coming
on too strong early will almost
certainly creep her out. Gradually
get stronger feelings for her as
you go on with the relationship
together.

2. Be brave: Most girls like
people with confidence, not
an ego. Just walk up to her and
start a simple conversation. She'll
get the hint that you are
interested in her. Start with a
simple conversation starter:

"That's a really nice dress.
Where is it from?"

"I'm sorry, I'm new here.
Can you tell me where the
library is?"

"Hi, my name is [your
name]. You look like you're
interesting to talk to. Do
you mind if I steal a couple
minutes of your time?"

3. Be around other girls: This
is not the same thing as
flirting with other girls, which is
probably not a good move. Being
around other girls tells the girl
that you're really interested in
that other girls find you safe,
reliable, and easy to be around. If
you get other girls to indirectly
vouch for you like this, you've
made a big step.

4. Make friends with her
friends if it's not too big of a
step. We know that it can
be overwhelming, but just
try. If her friends like you,
you'll have a better chance
of winning her over. After
all, girls often turn to their
friends for advice and for a
second opinion. Make sure
they have a high opinion of
you.

5. Have good hygiene: Women take pride in
smelling clean and looking kempt!
That means if a man has good
hygiene, it works really well on
her. The opposite, bad hygiene, is
usually an immediate deal-
breaker. Believe it or not, fresh,
clean-smelling hair is a really good
thing. And, a fresh-smelling body
is a must-have. Here are three
things that you can do right now
to improve your hygiene:
Rain or shine, sweat or not,
shower daily. If you can
afford it, it's better to be
too-clean than not clean
enough. Take pride in how
clean you are and in
smelling nice. Especially if
you play sports, this step is
a must.

Shave or groom your facial
hair daily. Most women like
men who don't carry facial
hair: it's prickly and unlikely
to look good unless you're
an adult. So shave that
stubble away every day.

Use deodorant, not cologne.
A lot of guys think they can
"mask" the scent of their
natural body odor with
cologne. Instead, the BO
and cologne just mixes
together to create a very
bad odor. Girls would rather
not smell you at all than
smell this cologne-creation.
If you must spray on
cologne , spray it on very
lightly.

6. Making her laugh: If you can make a girl
laugh, you'll get further
with her. But don't take
advantage of this. Let her be your
best friend first, then ease into
things. A girl needs to know that
she can trust you, and that you're
not going to break her heart
because you really do care about
her. Girls love to laugh and will
laugh at anything you say, even if
its not funny.

7. Be sincere. Compliments,
flirting, teasing, carefulness
-- none of it matters unless you
truly do care. When you do decide
to compliment her, take time to
reflect on what you like about her,
summon up the courage to tell
her, and be sincere.

It's okay to disagree with
her, as long as you don't
threaten her, you respect
her opinion, and you offer
good reasons about why you
believe differently. Who
knows? She might even
respect you more for
speaking your mind,
because it shows how much
of an individual you are.

8. Prove that you really like
her: Show that you're not
simply crushing or lusting for her.
Ask her about herself, talk to her.
Don't just move in for the kiss.
Listen to her and look her in the
eye.

9. Compliment her:
Complimenting a girl is
tough: every person wants to feel
good about themselves, but the
right compliment is really hard to
come by. Not only that, a little
complimenting goes a long way.
Pay attention to these guidelines
when you're ready to start
showing you like her more than
just a friend:

Reinforce how she views
herself. If she thinks of
herself as an athlete,
reinforce her competitive
spirit or athletic skills.

If she
thinks of herself as a
thinker, praise her smarts.

Whatever she thinks of
herself as, compliment that
aspect of her the most.
Stick with safe compliments
about her personality. Don't
compliment her feminine
areas, or too much about
her looks; while girls want
to feel pretty, they also
want to feel like you respect
them just as much for their
smarts and personality. If
you do want to compliment
a girl on her looks, stick to
these areas:

Smile
Hair
Eyes
Lips
Clothes
Style

Try out some compliments
like these. They're a rough
sketch, so try to think of
your own that are more
appropriate for the occasion
and the girl.

"I'm sorry this is
pretty awkward, but I
get really nervous
around pretty girls."

"Maybe you get this a
lot, but I love the way
your mind works."

"I like how the color
of your eyes matches
your dress. Does one
of your parents also
have blue eyes?"

Starlingslimnet CAP
Re: Winning Her Heart Part 1 by Basildvalour(m): 11:01am On Apr 20, 2015
HELP HER:

Make her hair
Subscribe her phone
Get food in the refectory
Go for shopping

And after all the helps, she might still want you to leave her alone
Re: Winning Her Heart Part 1 by Cutehector(m): 11:04am On Apr 20, 2015
Just be responsible.... Simple..
Re: Winning Her Heart Part 1 by jeweljoan(f): 11:57am On Apr 20, 2015
Nice points op

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