this issue has been disturbing me so much and i felt i should bring it here for proper understanding ,what do you people think about a Single guy keeping married women as his close friend, charting with them at odd hours like 11pm, 12 midnight and also deleting all their conversation but still claims that he has nothing to do with them. plz help

ammamat:
this issue has been disturbing me so much and i felt i should bring it here for proper understanding ,what do you people think about a Single guy keeping married women as his close friend, charting with them at odd hours like 11pm, 12 midnight and also deleting all their conversation but still claims that he has nothing to do with them. plz help

Are you married?

am not married, i just want to know if its possible for him to be that close without anything and why always deleting their conversation

I smell a rat

ammamat:
am not married, i just want to know if its possible for him to be that close without anything and why always deleting their conversation

if they are just friends, why would he delete dia chats?

tired

and the only message i saw which he did not see was " am off to bed" send from the married woman to him and that was at 10:30pm

ammamat:
am not married, i just want to know if its possible for him to be that close without anything and why always deleting their conversation

Your guy is into an online date with this woman and they are involve with sex chats that's why he keep on deleting the conversation... The woman on the other hand is the lose type and your guy too is a cheat. stop that relationship now before it becomes real and late for you to handle it..

justified19:
if they are just friends, why would he delete dia chats?

because people like you would not mind their business.

Hello Gentlemen and Ladies, Just thought I should share with you a number of Values of Sexuality. I hope we would be wise enough to get to a reasonable compromise as regards our sexuality.

1. Sexuality is a healthy and natural part of living.
2. All person has sexual identity
3. Sexuality involves physical, ethical, spiritual, emotional and psychological involvement.
4. Individuals express their sexuality in various ways.
5. In a pluralistic Society like Nigeria, people should recorgnize the diversity of values and believes about sexuality.
6. Every person is entitled to dignity and worth
7. Sexual relationships should never be assertive, exploitative or coersive.
8. Everyone is entiled to love and care.
9. All Sexual Decisions has effects or consequences.
10. All person has a right and Obligations to make responsible sexual choice.
11. Individuals and society benefits when children and adolesents are able to discuss sexuality with their parents or any other trusted adults.
12. Premature involvement in sexual relations poses risk.
13. Abstaining from sexual intercourse is the most effective methods of preventing STD's, HIV and AIDS.
14. Young people who are involved in sexual relationship needs assess to informatiom.

I hope someone out there would find this usefull.

ammamat:
this issue has been disturbing me so much and i felt i should bring it here for proper understanding ,what do you people think about a Single guy keeping married women as his close friend, charting with them at odd hours like 11pm, 12 midnight and also deleting all their conversation but still claims that he has nothing to do with them. plz help

r u talking about your b.f?

sinaj:
tired

if u wan shw us boobz kukuma shws dan putting us in supense@ur dp.

p2t2r:
because people like you would not mind their business.

how on earth do u think i can mind my business when he check my phone to the balance of my unite. oops have been ignoring dear,but he place so much value on his phone specially when am around him..

Emodeee:


if u wan shw us boobz kukuma shws dan putting us in supense@ur dp.

u for tear d cloth na

u neva c boobs b4

Sugar mama things.

Are you married? If yes,is any guy doing that to you....answer that first

Holluwatarhyor:
Are you married? If yes,is any guy doing that to you....answer that first

someone has already ask me same question and the answer has been given. but let me just answer u oh..am not married

ammamat:
someone has already ask me same question and the answer has been given. but let me just answer u oh..am not married

alright,there are times ladies that been maltreated by their husband looks out for a guy friend that will make them feel loved like a woman,I don't blame this category of women.
There are some who are forced into marriage,like my son will have to marry your daughter,those kind of ladies might not find joy in their so called husbands
And the tjird categories are the perverts,nothing will their husband do that would satisfy them
And guys out of their selfish greeds can date a broom in skirt so why can't we be friends with a human being because she's married,mind you not all those chatting with married women are having an affair with them,I am a good example,I have married female friends that we still chat after departing from school and nysc,I don't see anything bad in that,some even call me for contracts,as long as we ain't dating.

Holluwatarhyor:
alright,there are times ladies that been maltreated by their husband looks out for a guy friend that will make them feel loved like a woman,I don't blame this category of women.
There are some who are forced into marriage,like my son will have to marry your daughter,those kind of ladies might not find joy in their so called husbands
And the tjird categories are the perverts,nothing will their husband do that would satisfy them
And guys out of their selfish greeds can date a broom in skirt so why can't we be friends with a human being because she's married,mind you not all those chatting with married women are having an affair with them,I am a good example,I have married female friends that we still chat after departing from school and nysc,I don't see anything bad in that,some even call me for contracts,as long as we ain't dating.

Do you delete the conversation after the chat?

[quote
author=Holluwatarhyor post=33065364]alright,there are times ladies that
been maltreated by their husband looks out for a guy friend that will
make them feel loved like a woman,I don't blame this category of women.
There are some who are forced into marriage,like my son will have to
marry your daughter,those kind of ladies might not find joy in their so
called husbands
And the tjird categories are the perverts,nothing will their husband do
that would satisfy them
And guys out of their selfish greeds can date a broom in skirt so
why can't we be friends with a human being because she's married,mind
you not all those chatting with married women are having an affair with
them,I am a good example,I have married female friends that we still
chat after departing from school and nysc,I don't see anything bad in
that,some even call me for contracts,as long as we ain't dating.[/quote], good plz do u delete the conversion?

Equalizer:

Do you delete the conversation after the chat?

I don't.....I don't really have anything fishy discussing with them,so why delete?just the normal,hi,how u doing,how's work,your hubby,and any necessary things
I only delete the chats with my online girlfriends.

my dear,i don't have any problem with that, my major challenge is,deleting the conversation, ignoring their calls when am with him, accusing me if i chat, doing the things he dosent want me to do

i don't have any problem with him keeping them as just friends, but y doing the suspicious things if ur hand is clean?

anasey:
Hello Gentlemen and Ladies, Just thought I should share with you a number of Values of Sexuality. I hope we would be wise enough to get to a reasonable compromise as regards our sexuality.

1. Sexuality is a healthy and natural part of living.
2. All person has sexual identity
3. Sexuality involves physical, ethical, spiritual, emotional and psychological involvement.
4. Individuals express their sexuality in various ways.
5. In a pluralistic Society like Nigeria, people should recorgnize the diversity of values and believes about sexuality.
6. Every person is entitled to dignity and worth
7. Sexual relationships should never be assertive, exploitative or coersive.
8. Everyone is entiled to love and care.
9. All Sexual Decisions has effects or consequences.
10. All person has a right and Obligations to make responsible sexual choice.
11. Individuals and society benefits when children and adolesents are able to discuss sexuality with their parents or any other trusted adults.
12. Premature involvement in sexual relations poses risk.
13. Abstaining from sexual intercourse is the most effective methods of preventing STD's, HIV and AIDS.
14. Young people who are involved in sexual relationship needs assess to informatiom.

I hope someone out there would find this usefull.

swerve to sexuality section!!

Holluwatarhyor:
I don't.....I don't really have anything fishy discussing with them,so why delete?just the normal,hi,how u doing,how's work,your hubby,and any necessary things
I only delete the chats with my online girlfriends.

So you see the difference between ordinary chat and fishy ones.. the guy in question here deletes everything including the normal hi, how you doing and how's work chats..

Sometime ago you resolved that you'ld never date a guy who's not rich, b'cos of the unpleasant experiences you've been having with them.
Is this one a rich guy?

his not rich, any problem

ammamat:
my dear,i don't have any problem with that, my major challenge is,deleting the conversation, ignoring their calls when am with him, accusing me if i chat, doing the things he dosent want me to do

It appears you don't trust each other.

ammamat:
his not rich, any problem

Are you sure the guy is not taking advantage of you while still having affairs with other women.?

plz what do u guys advice me to do because my guy is now putting his phone on silent mood and hide it, u can ask me how i get to no about that. ,we have finish eating and i initially did not want to spent a night in his place but i change my mind. behold after saying good night to each other i decide to call his like and the phone was no way to be found. my dear its took my guy an hour for him to show me where he hide his phone.

ammamat:
plz what do u guys advice me to do because my guy is now putting his phone on silent mood and hide it, u can ask me how i get to no about that. ,we have finish eating and i initially did not want to spent a night in his place but i change my mind. behold after saying good night to each other i decide to call his like and the phone was no way to be found. my dear its took my guy an hour for him to show me where he hide his phone.

Do you need to be told that ur guy is a fucking cheat or are u scared of ending relationship probably because of his money,my candid advice u beta quit dat relationship asap though it aint gonna be easy bt give him his space and if he doesn't change from his secret ways then call it a shot.