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Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by Divagal(f): 12:29am On Sep 09, 2006 |
why do nigerians, and people in general find it hard to believe that a young girl can fall in love with an older guy? if a 25 year old marries a 52 year old, all hell is let loose: she's either a gold-digger or a thief, or even a witch who wants to kill him and take his money. it never occurs to anyone that she might actually be in love with him. pls help, cos i'm in that position, and we plan to get married soon. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by gigitte(f): 12:35am On Sep 09, 2006 |
lol don mind them jare. if you know within ur heart that you love this man then forget about everyone else. my friends parents have ~25 years difference between them too and they are still going strong adn will continue to go strong. my frienddoesnt like to mention it being that her half-siblings are comparable in age to her mother, but i always tell her that her parents are proof that there is true love. good luck darling! |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by Free(f): 2:21pm On Sep 09, 2006 |
and people in general find it hard to believe that a young girl can fall in love with an older guy? if a 25 year old marries a 52 year old, all hell is let loose: she's either a gold-digger or a thief, or even a witch who wants to kill him and take his money hmmm what could a 25 yr old possibly want in a 55yr old anywayz do watevr floats ya boat if u really love the old man , good 4 you marry him dont care what others think because ppl will always got something to say no matter what yUR doing U dig? |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by rotbog(m): 4:30pm On Sep 09, 2006 |
Theres nothing wrong in it so long as what u both share is real and genuine. Dont mind those who try to make a case by citing negative instances of age gap failures. U can infact cite several cases of divorce from age mates too. But whats the point? Human relationships fail when not handled properly. Im in my late 20s and dating a girl 7 years my junior, but u can hardly tell the difference or do we really care?. I dont mean to say its the best realtionship around but again do we really care.? We should tie the knots God willing next year. Sista ride on and I wish u a happy blissful married life. |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by queen2(f): 5:46pm On Sep 09, 2006 |
Divagal: If you truely love the man, age doesnt matter, all dat matters is love, if u know u both love each other then go on, marry him. I know someone who is 35 and married a 54year old man, the woman had a late marriage tho and they love eachother, even though the man has grandchildren already. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by iice(f): 6:34pm On Sep 09, 2006 |
I say its wrong wrong!! lol just kidding Well others have said, so long as you love each other and are compatible i say go for it. If you truly love each other then the age is not an issue and like others have mentioned, do ya thing coz people will always talk but atleast you know what you're up against or in for (the endless talk). Goodluck girl in your marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by Divagal(f): 3:37pm On Sep 10, 2006 |
thanks everyone. just to correct a wrong impression i might have given. i'm not 25 and he's not 52. that was just an example. but there's a 15-year gap in our ages, which sounds formidable. but when we're together it just fades away. i've met guys who were 2, 5, and even 10 years older, and the age thing was always there, either immaturity or over-maturity, lol. anyways thanks. at least i know some people would understand. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by gigitte(f): 7:20pm On Sep 10, 2006 |
15? that one na small thing. abegi forget everyone jare lol 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by Busta(f): 10:16pm On Sep 10, 2006 |
I think it is not about younger girls dating or marrying older men but it is the way that most of them go about it. |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by izoneb(f): 6:09am On Sep 26, 2006 |
My dear if u are 15 and he is 30,bad.If you are 30 and he is 45mnnnnn ok.If you are 45 and he is 60,OK. But in that case,he must have either been married before or not the kind who likes commitment. There must be something though.Just tell me,are you sure if he isn't rich you would be with him? Sometimes its important for you to sit and ask yourself questions.No harm meant.Be sure he doesn't have a wife somewhere. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by momoney1(m): 10:38am On Sep 26, 2006 |
@gigette you are such a beautiful girl and dont think you would want to try that coz in our country here age really matters can you actually "practice what you preach"? Barry Whyte |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by webman(m): 11:43am On Oct 30, 2008 |
@Divagal, Actually, there is nottin wrong with a young girl like 23-26 getting married to man of 45-60, From search, it is observed that out of 10 young girls btw the ages of 20-25 ,7 girls will actually marry men btw ages 45-60,cuz of materalise gains due to family bground, the social orientation and other factors, Young girls from affluence homes will never go for older men,except in some cases when they do so,cuz of business ties and wealth circulation within particular families, While, all younger girls from lower-income earning status will surely grab the chances of getting married to older men with rich background, Essentially, no young girls will never get married to older men without money to spend, Now, it is very hard to separate your love for the man based on the fact he has money to spend, 2 Likes |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by Nobody: 11:46am On Oct 30, 2008 |
Holy Moly! 25 and 52!? The one man's meat theory should not even apply to this, that meat is expired! Tufia! [size=3pt]Why not go and marry your dad, it's the same thing na [/size] |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by MrCrackles(m): 11:49am On Oct 30, 2008 |
poster go ahead and marry, even if you meet a wrinkley near-the-grave grandpa, marry if u fall in love and do us a favour, dont come and rant on nairaland if it goes pear shaped!! |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by spikedcylinder: 12:47pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
Its so funny but I wonder. Very funny o. Wait for it: Why do the grannies these youngies fall for just so happen to be rich? Just a thought o. Not like I'm insinuating anything at all. Just a thought you hear? Otherwise, my grandpa would have died a very happy man. |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by JJYOU: 1:05pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
spikedcylinder:supply and demand my sister. what most of these young ladies want, notice i say want not NEED some young men their age can't provide. webman: Young girls from affluence homes will never go for older men,except in some cases when they do so,because of business ties and wealth circulation within particular families,absolutely true and rightly so in my opinion it is very hard to separate your love for the man based on the fact he has money to spendi believe not in all cases unless we are talking ashewos here 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by eldee(m): 1:17pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
spikedcylinder: It's realy funny . . . Out of all the 60sumn year olds in Nigeria, Bianca just had to fall in love wiv the megarich General that changes Hummers everyweek This their 'love' is really funny 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by Gamine(f): 1:27pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
This is an old topic ooh. Anyway, that age gap is PLENTY. people close to me, have married guys more than 10years but less than 15 that one is ok to consider and eventually do. This reminds me of one Italian Movie, cant remember the name right now. the dude was her godfather, he was 32 when she was born he married her when she was 19, she had fallen in love with him when she was 15. things happen sha 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by Angolobabe(f): 1:35pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
abeg go ahead with ur heart desire ,dont listen to what people says or think its ur life not theres,i personally prefer older guys and age is just a number to me ,my mother and father in-laws have 23 years age gap and they have been married for 45 years same with my parents,i have seen alot of people marrying with there age groups or a little older and yet they are more god digger than people think with someone that marries an older man and there marriage even fails than the ones that married an older man. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by Nobody: 1:38pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
nnkan mbe ni nairaland, oma se o 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by JJYOU: 1:40pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
@ eldeee, this your post code SW1A 2AA nawao. who is bianca? Angolobabe:you sound like my mum there 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by spikedcylinder: 1:46pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
eldee: Ha ha! Real funny. Stop am o! She loves him na. Even though I wonder why the love didn't blow in the direction of their neighbor's houseboy. Afterall, she's his nanny now, who will get the weekly hummers afterwards? By afterwards, I mean when he's gone off to play on the fairy's farm? |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by agwoko: 1:53pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
my dear go on and do what eva pleases u, afterall the much idol celine dion got married 2 an aged man so urs is nt the first.but u shud no by nw that u stand 2 b an early widow. |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by JJYOU: 2:08pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
agwoko: u stand 2 b an early widownot necesarily true. there are loads of young people dropping dead all the time. a freinds mum died at 54 some weeks back. the dad who is 72yrs old is still walking about. who could have told us the young would go before an old man? 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by Monicaa: 4:46pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
Not bad, love says it all though i'm not saying one should marry her grand/great grand dad'S age. But talking aboutbeing an early widow, that's true but some that get married very young still die whether young or old so i believe one shouldn't be looking at whether I would become a widow soon or not to consider. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by Nobody: 4:48pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
Chai |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by herniec(f): 8:06am On Sep 29, 2009 |
Girl of 21 is in love with me, but I'm somewhat disturbed about the age difference. I'm 33. 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by whitelexi(m): 8:24am On Sep 29, 2009 |
The poor old fool in love is about to bite off more than he can comfortably chew. . . This will surely make a very hard swallow! |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by TheSeeker(m): 8:43am On Sep 29, 2009 |
[Quote]My dear if u are 15 and he is 30,bad.If you are 30 and he is 45mnnnnn ok.If you are 45 and he is 60,OK. But in that case,he must have either been married before or not the kind who likes commitment. There must be something though.Just tell me,are you sure if he isn't rich you would be with him? Sometimes its important for you to sit and ask yourself questions.No harm meant.Be sure he doesn't have a wife somewhere.[/Quote] For where? Don't mind the gold-digger. Ask her what he thinks of the man? The first thing she'll say is, "he's caring", "he's kind and understanding" Rubbish!!! Keep deluding yourself and think you're fooling NLers. |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by Jennyfa(f): 2:31pm On Sep 30, 2009 |
b/4 i used to say i can neva date any guy who is more dan 5 yrs ma senior bt nw i am hangin ot wit somone who is 8 yrs ma senior nt dat it is to much bt dere is a sayin dat dere isnt a barrier wen it comes to luv ma dere if u knw is reali luv follow ur heart 1 Like |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by tashanja(m): 8:57pm On Oct 06, 2009 |
Hey, this topic gives ppl like me some hope. Beleive me at 54 I'm still single and looking. To know that there are still young girls out there geniunely ready to hook up with older guys like me, well thats quite reasuring.The trouble is how do you know who is genuine and not just after your dough. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Relationship Btw Young Girls And Older Guys by lightwalk(m): 9:43am On Oct 07, 2009 |
The problems is not about being in love or not Is there any strings attached? Have you thought well about your future with this man, if it is really love? If you can answer these two questions comfortably, then you don't have any problems, |
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