why do girls like dating older guys? please i need some good opinions.

What do you mean by older? 10, 20,30 or 40 years older than the girl?

If its like 10 years older, sorry, no vacancy, but if you're talking 5 or 7, ok, no stress. Though, i have a friend that dates men older than her by almost 10 years. This is gross. She goes like, 'well, they're more xperienced and knows how to treat a gurl better than other starry-eyed dudes'

something like that

[/quote]She goes like, 'well, they're more xperienced and knows how to treat a girl better than other starry-eyed dudes'

Well it's like your friend knows the truth!!!

Because we mature mentally faster than guys. The average 18 year old girl and the average 18 year old guy would not be on the same mental age-bracket.[quote]

100% agree

naijacutee:

Because we mature mentally faster than guys. The average 18 year old girl and the average 18 year old guy would not be on the same mental age-bracket.

good point!

@ topic,
Because most older guys are much more matured and some are probably done playing around.

Older guys are often in a better financial position to cover the cost associated with relationships. Girls are genetically not inclined to fend for themselves.

this is funny someone says they are more mature? first can i ask what age you guys class as older guys, is it like 1yr older,2,3,5,10? what? lol because any mature woman not talking teenage girls now please. will know that even men of 30 are not mature.

About why date older guys? well i guess some ladies either just have a thing for oldermen, or want to feel taken care of, or many other reasons. Its not always about money , i know many girls who earn more than the guys in our circle of friends

@ Eurphoria,

I said most older guys!

i was not actually directing my comment at you. Anyhow 'most' ? i beg to differ

naijacutee:

Because we mature mentally faster than guys. The average 18 year old girl and the average 18 year old guy would not be on the same mental age-bracket.

what aspect of mental maturity are you refering to here?

BlackMamba:

Older guys are often in a better financial position to cover the cost associated with relationships. Girls are genetically not inclined to fend for themselves.

good point bro.

put simply-


older men are like aged wine.


while younger version is like grape juice.

Coco29:

put simply-


older men are like aged wine.


while younger version is like grape juice.

lol

Eurphoria:

i was not actually directing my comment at you. Anyhow 'most' ? i beg to differ

ok if you say so.
Yeah. . .most of them are matured.

hmmmm

More matured in being silly, rather.

I second that

because the younger ones are immature init

;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d

i prefer older guys because they are more matured to my level, and they know how to treat a woman, a guy 10 years older than me is on my level, and the best part is that when you both grow older, it doesn't look like one is older than the other, bcoz women tend to age faster.

ima1:

i prefer older guys because they are more matured to my level, and they know how to treat a woman, a guy 10 years older than me is on my level, and the best part is that when you both grow older, it doesn't look like one is older than the other, because women tend to age faster.

true

This early maturation of females must be in terms of boobs and butt, because last I checked, males still run things in every age bracket you can imagine. I'm not knocking any female that prefer older males, because the bottom line is life security.

@ Blackmamba

maturity does not necessarily equal running things

lol. . .

@Nilla
Exactly. I agree havent you ever heard the saying that goes '' would you like to speak to the man in charge or the woman who knows what's happening'' wonder what BLACKMAMBA WILL MAKE OF THAT ONE 

lol

never heard it. . .but i love it

hehehehehehehehe. . . . . .

Topic.
Well, i think it varies with diferent girls, and not generalizing it.

Some want olda guys cos they simply believe he'll be matured enough to handle situations and also be Lord over them in term of security and all,

naija4life:

If its like 10 years older, sorry, no vacancy, but if you're talking 5 or 7, ok, no stress. Though, i have a friend that dates men older than her by almost 10 years. This is gross. She goes like, 'well, they're more xperienced and knows how to treat a gurl better than other starry-eyed dudes'

This is so true. I have dated an older guy before and the relationship was really great while it lasted as he was really caring and treated me so well. A pity we had to break -up, though

Yes,the older the better.They are more loving and they pet a lot.

and also spend a lot!

Matured men are sweet and tender,unlike the younger guys dat are too sexually active they can easily run down the