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Why Women Dont Appreciate Nice Guys. by Jackeeh(m): 2:05pm On Apr 27, 2015
Just for fun. Don't take it too seriously. smiley

1. Their Personalities Don't Seem Genuine.
Nice guys are too nice.No one can always be that nice unless they're a saint. They are busy being nice instead of being real and women instinctually don't trust that. Bad boys "keep it real." Nice guys don't want to upset the apple cart.

2. They Don't Have Self-Respect!
No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don't set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn't let a woman walk all over him or control him. Women can't respect a man they can control. No respect equals no attraction.

3. They're SO Predictable—Which Is Just Boring!
Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they're attracted to people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge. Nice guys are never a challenge. Predictable plus no excitement plus no challenge = they prefer a bad boy.

4. Loving A Bad Boy Is In ladies Genes.
Women are designed to nurture. However, instead of doing this with children, they often end up doing it with bad boys. They think their love will save them. Nice guys rarely need to be saved.

5. Women Like To Feel Needed.
Nice guys don't usually need "to be fixed". Bad boys usually do, so they become a project. Some women think if they can "create" the perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if they're busy fixing someone else, they don't have to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives.

6. Weak sperms lol.
Women are designed to procreate with the strongest possible genes. Bad boys are sending an unconscious message that they have great genes, so they're not afraid of losing the woman by misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that they don't think their genes are good enough, so they won't misbehave.

7. They Have A Fear Of intimacy.
If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment, and that's scary.

8. They Sometimes Have Low Self-Esteem.
Women don't feel comfortable with people who treat them better than they treat themselves. If you don't think much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing your negative belief. A nice guy is treating you in a way you're not familiar with.

9. The Sex Isn't As Mind-Blowing.
Women feel a nice guy won't be good in bed. They sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won't be able to take control and get the job done. A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver, even though that may not always be the case.

10. Bad Boys Are Totally Sexy.
Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn't hot? I'm sure there are a few, but they wouldn't be able to get away with half the stuff they did if they didn't look so good. Meanwhile, when a woman describes someone as a nice guy, she means, "He's not hot."

11. They Aren't As Charming.
Nice guys don't always know what to say and are sometimes at a loss for words. Bad boys can be very charming and know exactly what women want to hear. However, they eventually switch over to being selfish. By the time they reveal their true colors, the woman has fallen for them and has a hard time letting go.

12. They're Not As Strong Physically. Historically, men have protected women — physically and otherwise. Bad boys give the illusion of being able to protect women, while with nice guys, women aren't so sure. Life is all about balance. Until men learn how to do that, more often than not, women will choose the bad boy, until they realize that his bad qualities outweigh his good ones.

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Re: Why Women Dont Appreciate Nice Guys. by IamOdin: 2:06pm On Apr 27, 2015
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Re: Why Women Dont Appreciate Nice Guys. by CountDracula(m): 2:09pm On Apr 27, 2015
Are u done?

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Re: Why Women Dont Appreciate Nice Guys. by Princecalm(m): 2:10pm On Apr 27, 2015
Bottom line:
.too much of everything is bad.
Re: Why Women Dont Appreciate Nice Guys. by kelvine(m): 2:20pm On Apr 27, 2015
Some weak minds will read this tread and make efforts to become bad guys all in a bid to make some small girls happy. Be yourself, learn from role models around you,approach a matured lady confidently, make mistakes and move on, learn from your mistakes and try again. In the end get married to a woman who understands you.

You don't have to be a bad guy to make a good husband.
Re: Why Women Dont Appreciate Nice Guys. by Mhizizzy(f): 2:45pm On Apr 27, 2015
So NA badguy sure pass cheesy

I will put dat in mind
Re: Why Women Dont Appreciate Nice Guys. by 247notire(m): 3:00pm On Apr 27, 2015
Mhizizzy:
So NA badguy sure pass cheesy

I will put dat in mind
Yes dear. U dint Knw b4 ni? U look kinda familiar, u schooled in UNN?
Re: Why Women Dont Appreciate Nice Guys. by justmag(m): 3:03pm On Apr 27, 2015
I am waiting for some girl to deny this!! Lol. I was born to be a nice guy. Some bad guys are just a bad reaction to peer pressure. .. undecided
Re: Why Women Dont Appreciate Nice Guys. by Mhizizzy(f): 3:20pm On Apr 27, 2015
247notire:
Yes dear. U dint Knw b4 ni? U look kinda familiar, u schooled in UNN?

No sir

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