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Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Olanireti(m): 7:22pm On Apr 27, 2015
I know this sounds somehow, but its personal opinion. Everybody has right to his/her own opinion so there is no need to castigate anybody for his/her own opinion or beliefs. So if you don’t have any reasonable contribution, just walk out of the thread.
I personally can’t marry someone have not had sex with. In as much as every religious book against this, yet you will all agree with me that sex is one of the main reasons why God initiated marriage. Apostle Paul even made us to understand categorically that But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self- control. (ESV) 1 Cor 7 vs2-10vs2-5”. So we can say Apostle Paul encouraged marriage mainly because of sex. With all these emphasis on sex, how bad will it now be if one now eventually ends up with someone he/she doesn’t enjoy sex with? For instance, if the guy is of high libido who likes sex a lot while the woman is of low libido who does not like sex that much, how will the marriage be like since they are not compatible sexually? Don’t forget you are not allow to have side sex mate unless you want to be a cheat in the marriage which could eventually lead to crashing of the marriage.
What about the cases of guy being impotent and the wife only finds out on the night of marriage. If they had made attempts to sex before that night, the wife would have found out, either they both find solution to it or the lady leaves before it’s too late. We have heard cases of the wife not having opening, how will the guy find out if no attempts to go down there before wedding night?
Another case is issue of the lady not having womb to conceive. Sex before marriage could alert the guy may be the lady will be able to conceive or not.
So nairalanders, what is your personal view about sex before marriage? No offence, no need to abuse anybody, just let us see your own view.
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Basildvalour(m): 7:24pm On Apr 27, 2015
I am planning doing that but those plans are just not working out

I'll definitely get one
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 7:25pm On Apr 27, 2015
yes, no, yes, no. i don't even know
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Apr 27, 2015
NO

*sips tea*
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by dharay88: 7:28pm On Apr 27, 2015
undecided fuçk, hell yes....
Don't mind dat poster above me.
cry
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Gboliwe: 7:30pm On Apr 27, 2015
@ OP, for a question that requires a Yes or No, this your river Jordan write-up made it very boring.

The answer: No. I must do it again and again to be sure there's no brake failure before I say I do.
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by LazyShylock: 7:30pm On Apr 27, 2015
It is possible
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Cholls(m): 7:35pm On Apr 27, 2015
my brother we are in a dog eat dog world no matter what those pastors preach.

Bcuz u r now a pastor or a leader in the church u r now preach no sex before marriage.

They dont want any guy to useless their daughters abi No be them disvirgin our sisters
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by jmoore(m): 7:36pm On Apr 27, 2015
Tear rubber, no sampling.
My bride should be delivered to me untouched.

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Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by LadyX(f): 7:36pm On Apr 27, 2015
Yes, we'll talk before agreeing to marry. If there are s*exual issues I'll tell him to open up, and I will do the same.

Op, don't justify fornication wink Diaris God o!

That's my opinion. No need to quote me.
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Apr 27, 2015
Yes..... Marriage is the union between a man and woman undefiled
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Apr 27, 2015
jmoore:
Tear rubber, no sampling.
My bride should be delivered to me untouched.
Great
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Apr 27, 2015
What Bible have u been reading?
Am sure uv been reaing some article u claim to be Bible....
*Arrannt Nansense* angry
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Apr 27, 2015
Godvilla:
What Bible have u been reading?
Am sure uv been reaing some article u claim to be Bible....
*Arrannt Nansense* angry

What do u think about this topic .. ? Is the write up good enough ?
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 7:53pm On Apr 27, 2015
Lala247:


What do u think about this topic .. ? Is the write up good enough ?
Mickey mouse write up
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by gateofheaven(m): 7:53pm On Apr 27, 2015
I personally can't, I no go fit wait till marriage 2 knw whr and whr I go touch her 2 make her moan in pleasure coz most of dem get different spot,besides I need knw if she is really a woman make person no go marry the woman with the issue of blood.
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nairalane: 7:55pm On Apr 27, 2015
This Is Biblically Sanctioned. So, Why Should Hav An Alternate View
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by SleekyP(m): 8:05pm On Apr 27, 2015
'sampling method' is a MUST.
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by passionate88: 8:08pm On Apr 27, 2015
O taste and see that the babe is sweet, o taste and see that the babe is sweet.... So the songwriter said. gringringrin
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by justmag(m): 8:15pm On Apr 27, 2015
Lala247:
NO

*sips tea*

see! If you didn't already have too many admirers I'd ask u to marry me already. wink

in this day and age....it's better to know what your getting yourself into. I can't be company to misery.
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Apr 27, 2015
justmag:


see! If you didn't already have too many admirers I'd ask u to marry me already. wink

in this day and age....it's better to know what your getting yourself into. I can't be company to misery.

Yes now marriage is convenant with God
N i only wanna marry once n make it work soo .. What op is saying no fit work lie lie.
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by justmag(m): 8:28pm On Apr 27, 2015
Lala247:


Yes now marriage is convenant with God
N i only wanna marry once n make it work soo .. What op is saying no fit work lie lie.

My plan exactly. People are tooo traditional in nigeria.
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 8:29pm On Apr 27, 2015
justmag:


My plan exactly. People are tooo traditional in nigeria.

Yh but its good they have thise values tho
But doesnt mean it works for everyone smiley
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by justmag(m): 8:32pm On Apr 27, 2015
Lala247:


Yh but its good they have thise values tho
But doesnt mean it works for everyone smiley

Yup! But they want u to always follow tradition and if you don't. You are branded as a rebel of some sort
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by MizTyna(f): 8:38pm On Apr 27, 2015
NOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by richidinho(m): 8:41pm On Apr 27, 2015
LadyX:
Yes, we'll talk before agreeing to marry. If there are s*exual issues I'll tell him to open up, and I will do the same.

Op, don't justify fornication wink Diaris God o!

That's my opinion. No need to quote me.

What of those Badt guys that quash u free of charge

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Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by richidinho(m): 8:42pm On Apr 27, 2015
She need to get used to my big stuff

#teambig
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Chairbabe: 9:01pm On Apr 27, 2015
Yes...once the understanding,love,trust Etc is there
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Chairbabe: 9:05pm On Apr 27, 2015
richidinho:
She need to get used to my big stuff

#teambig
Hmm lipsrsealed
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by richidinho(m): 9:15pm On Apr 27, 2015
Chairbabe:

Hmm lipsrsealed

Fyne gurl **wink**
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 4:55am On Apr 28, 2015
YES!!! but if she is not gud in bed enough I ll sponsor her to go hw to perform and come home with better grades

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