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Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Olanireti(m): 7:22pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
I know this sounds somehow, but its personal opinion. Everybody has right to his/her own opinion so there is no need to castigate anybody for his/her own opinion or beliefs. So if you don’t have any reasonable contribution, just walk out of the thread. I personally can’t marry someone have not had sex with. In as much as every religious book against this, yet you will all agree with me that sex is one of the main reasons why God initiated marriage. Apostle Paul even made us to understand categorically that But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 3 The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self- control. (ESV) 1 Cor 7 vs2-10vs2-5”. So we can say Apostle Paul encouraged marriage mainly because of sex. With all these emphasis on sex, how bad will it now be if one now eventually ends up with someone he/she doesn’t enjoy sex with? For instance, if the guy is of high libido who likes sex a lot while the woman is of low libido who does not like sex that much, how will the marriage be like since they are not compatible sexually? Don’t forget you are not allow to have side sex mate unless you want to be a cheat in the marriage which could eventually lead to crashing of the marriage. What about the cases of guy being impotent and the wife only finds out on the night of marriage. If they had made attempts to sex before that night, the wife would have found out, either they both find solution to it or the lady leaves before it’s too late. We have heard cases of the wife not having opening, how will the guy find out if no attempts to go down there before wedding night? Another case is issue of the lady not having womb to conceive. Sex before marriage could alert the guy may be the lady will be able to conceive or not. So nairalanders, what is your personal view about sex before marriage? No offence, no need to abuse anybody, just let us see your own view. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Basildvalour(m): 7:24pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
I am planning doing that but those plans are just not working out I'll definitely get one |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 7:25pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
yes, no, yes, no. i don't even know |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 7:26pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
NO *sips tea* |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by dharay88: 7:28pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
fuçk, hell yes.... Don't mind dat poster above me. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Gboliwe: 7:30pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
@ OP, for a question that requires a Yes or No, this your river Jordan write-up made it very boring. The answer: No. I must do it again and again to be sure there's no brake failure before I say I do. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by LazyShylock: 7:30pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
It is possible |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Cholls(m): 7:35pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
my brother we are in a dog eat dog world no matter what those pastors preach. Bcuz u r now a pastor or a leader in the church u r now preach no sex before marriage. They dont want any guy to useless their daughters abi No be them disvirgin our sisters |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by jmoore(m): 7:36pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Tear rubber, no sampling. My bride should be delivered to me untouched. 2 Likes |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by LadyX(f): 7:36pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Yes, we'll talk before agreeing to marry. If there are s*exual issues I'll tell him to open up, and I will do the same. Op, don't justify fornication Diaris God o! That's my opinion. No need to quote me. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Yes..... Marriage is the union between a man and woman undefiled |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 7:39pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
jmoore:Great |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
What Bible have u been reading? Am sure uv been reaing some article u claim to be Bible.... *Arrannt Nansense* |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Godvilla: What do u think about this topic .. ? Is the write up good enough ? |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 7:53pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Lala247:Mickey mouse write up |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by gateofheaven(m): 7:53pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
I personally can't, I no go fit wait till marriage 2 knw whr and whr I go touch her 2 make her moan in pleasure coz most of dem get different spot,besides I need knw if she is really a woman make person no go marry the woman with the issue of blood. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nairalane: 7:55pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
This Is Biblically Sanctioned. So, Why Should Hav An Alternate View |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by SleekyP(m): 8:05pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
'sampling method' is a MUST. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by passionate88: 8:08pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
O taste and see that the babe is sweet, o taste and see that the babe is sweet.... So the songwriter said. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by justmag(m): 8:15pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Lala247: see! If you didn't already have too many admirers I'd ask u to marry me already. in this day and age....it's better to know what your getting yourself into. I can't be company to misery. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
justmag: Yes now marriage is convenant with God N i only wanna marry once n make it work soo .. What op is saying no fit work lie lie. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by justmag(m): 8:28pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Lala247: My plan exactly. People are tooo traditional in nigeria. |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 8:29pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
justmag: Yh but its good they have thise values tho But doesnt mean it works for everyone |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by justmag(m): 8:32pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Lala247: Yup! But they want u to always follow tradition and if you don't. You are branded as a rebel of some sort |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by MizTyna(f): 8:38pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
NOOOOOOOOOOOOO |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by richidinho(m): 8:41pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
LadyX: What of those Badt guys that quash u free of charge 1 Like |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by richidinho(m): 8:42pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
She need to get used to my big stuff #teambig |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Chairbabe: 9:01pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Yes...once the understanding,love,trust Etc is there |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Chairbabe: 9:05pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
richidinho:Hmm |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by richidinho(m): 9:15pm On Apr 27, 2015 |
Chairbabe: Fyne gurl **wink** |
Re: Can You Marry Someone You Have Not Had Sex With? by Nobody: 4:55am On Apr 28, 2015 |
YES!!! but if she is not gud in bed enough I ll sponsor her to go hw to perform and come home with better grades |
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