A true life tale.
Her story : Please I need help. My mother-in-law came to live with us claiming she was coming for medical check up and has since refused to go. I do leave my baby with my MIL to look after as I had resumed work after my maternity leave. My husband has a junior brother whom he told me would be staying with us after his NYSC. Which I accepted. To cut d
story short, i discovered dat my brother in law who is 35 years old molested my one year, five months old baby girl with his finger. Whenever i want to wash her private part she would always cry. so i decided to check her V area and discoverd dat d area had been tempered with. i quickly drew my husband's attention to it n he summoned his mother,who agreed she had noticed same whenever she wanted to bathe my baby. when we queried my brotherinlaw he became very sad n sober. Only then did we know he was the culprit. His mom confirmed that he's the culprit. And stated how she does not receive visitors in our absence. my brotherinlaw is always indoors no friend has ever visited him( both male and female) , a graduate dat has no job and he is not ready to go out and search for a job. we live in a two bedroom flat and my baby is always indoors. I never knew that my mother inlaw always left my baby alone with her son to molest . Now my problem is this : none of them is ready to leave my house. Pls mothers, will my baby be tight again? What do I do?

Me : I decided to bring this here so others can learn from the advice and experiences ya'all have to share.

Are you a transgender?

You better send that young man out before he decides to do worse. Your MIL had noticed this in her grand child before you did and still kept mute? But she started running her mouth when you eventually discovered. Abi? She's a witch. Send her out of your house asap. Just a 2 bedroom apartment and you're already permitting the whole clan to move in? Wrong move. And why is your husband silent on this matter? Smh

Is this for real?
Or simply put
Are you for real?

NL is not the place to come for this o.
Chai.
Is your husband the father of the baby?
Cos if he is,then your story should have been,
"My husband almost killed his brother cos ......."

This one hard ooo! Seek ur husband's opinion 1st.

dayleke:
NL is not the place to come for this o.
Chai.
Is your husband the father of the baby?
Cos if he is,then your story should have been,
"My husband almost killed his brother cos ......."

It's the sad truth but some men are that way when it comes to their brothers or sisters. I just can't explain it.

Nobody can molest my baby and still stay under my roof where I will be seeing them.
Mba.
If you're lucky to leave in one peace, pls don't ever come back again.
Don't ever let me see you again or we will start it from where it was stopped last time.
Even if you're my blood brother,brother-in-law or whatever, I'll hunt you down and finish what we started.

what the hell are still you doing there? and you are also so calm about it? are you waiting for him to fully penetrate her, damage her womb and send her to hospital before your eyes open?? You need to call the police on that pedophile or call your neighbors for jungle justice. if you want to save face cos it is more important than your child's well being, then you move out of that house ASAP.

I am more shocked at how calm you are about it and still living in that house. I will not curse you out cos I will assume you are still in shock from the discovery

If this story is true...
Then, you better carry your child and leave that house. Don't you have parents. Your husband's family seems to take this as normal and that's why they haven't done anything.
Better save your daughter.

In other news, when this girl grows & tells her hubby she's a v.irgin, he may never believe her and she may never know what happened to her. But some fornicating girls lie with this.

adanduka:
If this story is true...

abi o. How can it be true? And they haven't locked up his trifling asss and thrown the keys away.
If true, their baby must have the value of a Barbie doll to them, to be taken for granted like that.

Your husband is the main issue here, you can't make them leave so it's either your husband sends them out or get a new place you or them and as for the baby, she will most likely be healed, she's still very young, just take her to go see a doctor.

adanduka:
If this story is true...

Trust me. It is. You'll be amazed at what people go through in life. Even some of us reading other's comments and advise right on here may still allow this same scenario happen to us. Instead of learning and being on the look out for molesters.

So sister,
PLEASE what are you hoping to achieve here?
Thanks for sharing the story BUT what are you gonna do?
You are wasting time my friend....
And where is the calmness coming from sef?

Wat da hell. Are u serious or talkin for someone else? Are u really the mother or u adopted her? I cant believ u even hav time ti type dis. Hian, abeg take several seats jorr, u cant be the biological mother.
Somebody molested ur baby . And u re asking twenty questions. Haba.
I hav a dota same age. I shudder to think of wat I ll do. It can never happen to me or mine in Jesus Name. Ameeeeeeeeenn.
Hmmm,now am calm. Pls send dem both parking. Ur hubby can pay one room for dem. Destiny stealers. Bfor dem take her do pepper soup.

This is serious. If dey r not ready 2 leave d house,I will advice u leave d house 4 dem

Ooommmmmggggggg!!! Why is the world so evil! I won't say here what I would do to that animal if in your shoes tho. He shouldn't have even spent the night of the day you realize.
I pray God give him a punishment he will regret for the rest of his life. May God heal that little one. A lesson tho,thanks for sharing.
My father inlaw phone is always loaded with porn,I better watch out for myself and my baby girl,cuz we are always alone with him at home. Operation trust no one!

KICK THE BIT*HES OUT!!!

Pack ur load nd leave that house.

@juzzybabe watch out real good,nothing should happen to that lil princess o.God be with you dear.

This has got to be a joke.

He molested your baby and you say he refused to leave your house? Why aren't you being charged with murder already? I don't believe this story abeg.

This ur story is complicated though, But i sincerely think Ur hubby should be the one to fight this and not u cos we're talking about his family ( BIL and MIL) here. Well, to me I'll say get a daycare centre for ur baby and monitor them(BIL and MIL) with her at home.

Jackeeh:
A true life tale.
Her story : Please I need help. My mother-in-law came to live with us claiming she was coming for medical check up and has since refused to go. I do leave my baby with my MIL to look after as I had resumed work after my maternity leave. My husband has a junior brother whom he told me would be staying with us after his NYSC. Which I accepted. To cut d
story short, i discovered dat my brother in law who is 35 years old molested my one year, five months old baby girl with his finger. Whenever i want to wash her private part she would always cry. so i decided to check her V area and discoverd dat d area had been tempered with. i quickly drew my husband's attention to it n he summoned his mother,who agreed she had noticed same whenever she wanted to bathe my baby. when we queried my brotherinlaw he became very sad n sober. Only then did we know he was the culprit. His mom confirmed that he's the culprit. And stated how she does not receive visitors in our absence. my brotherinlaw is always indoors no friend has ever visited him( both male and female) , a graduate dat has no job and he is not ready to go out and search for a job. we live in a two bedroom flat and my baby is always indoors. I never knew that my mother inlaw always left my baby alone with her son to molest . Now my problem is this : none of them is ready to leave my house. Pls mothers, will my baby be tight again? What do I do?

Me : I decided to bring this here so others can learn from the advice and experiences ya'all have to share.

What about your husband?

Jesus!

Let me tell you what to do since you have lost your sense of reasoning.
First thing tomorrow morning, start folding your clothes slowly and putting in your bag. If oga asks you. Tell him 3things must happen either his mom and brother leaves, you leave, or he kills both you and your baby. Infact accuse him of being a cultist. How can someone molest your daughter and you as the man is keeping quiet? That you have waited patiently for him to take an action and he refused. That you see that is what they do in their house, they want to use your daughter for ritual. Make a big scene. Oh God!!! What is this world turning into.

Ha! I'm pained on your behalf. Oh God! Are you sure its your baby? Or you borrowed her?

KanwuliaJara come and see another one wey pass me o



honestly op if you don't have a say in your house as to who stays, who leaves and who should be flung into prison then I give up

Hmnn

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OMG!!!!!!!!Hmmmm,i pray my daughter's guardian angel will protect her from the evil of these days!who would have thought your daughter is not safe in your house?
Something like this just happend in my neigbourhood,1 woman kept her 4+ year old daughter wt her pastor neigbour,came back to meet her daughter soiled with poo and blood only for her to discover she was bleeding through her vaginal while cleaning her up,na d pastor 16yr old DAUGHTER touched her till d baby poo on herself.she wore pad for a week !Lord please KEEP watch on our lil girls!

If a mother cannot protect her child again IN HER OWN HOUSE then i don't envy you at all . If single mothers cannot allow this to happen i wonder whether it is a man or log of wood you married

I hold your hubby responsible for this indolence. He should stand up and defend his immediate family which is his primary responsibility. As for me, both the brother and mum must leave that house asap. 2 bedroom flat no be duplex, abeg!

I rily dont get wat advice u need frm nl, someone, I mean ur bil molested ur daughta, u find out abt it and u still cm here to ask dis silly ques, hs ur brain bn swapped wt dt of a cockroach or wat?was her birth a mistake?,carrying her preg for 9 good month, goin tru d pains of labour or even cs, nurturing her wt sleepless nyt and fear of d unknown not enuff reason to castrate d bastard who did dis to ur daughta, throw him in prison for d rest of his life, throw ur mil out of ur haus, and send dt gullible husband of urs to d deepest pit of hell...note dis if he continues to stay, dis wont stop, and dt gurls spirit wld neva forgive u for kippn quiet yl her life is bn destroyed..

I'm a mother too and I'm so upset abt how calm you are!if your husband won't do anything then you should! For God sake u carried that child in your womb! It's either the guy leaves or you carry your child to safety! Infact I'm suspecting your husband's innocence coz if he left his brother in the house till now then maybe it runs in the family, maybe your husband has molested a child be4. This is just too sick!

I don't why people keep replying/commenting on this post. If the woman doesn't know what to do then is her luck.
Since xday I read this post have been very angry anytime I come across it again
If she can't take action or defend her child since her husband is foolish person who allowed such abuse on his daughter so be it
I know tomorrow she will come to say her brother in law just raped her and NL should advice on what to do since the mother in law and husband is a family matter

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