Cutehector:
Its cool if d babe In question is white

ammyluv2002:
It's a 50 - 50 thing

mzellsx:
but why white,any particular reason??

mzellsx:
I totally agree with you,I mean there are no certainties in life,just odds

ronald4lif:
Normally, one would think the era of arrangee marriage is far behind us and that we're in the jet age where the man and the woman are expected to make their individual choices on who to be with and marry.

But when one juxtapose the marriages of yore which most of them were arrangee to the ones today they'll realize that the ones in the past were more subsistence and lasted longer than what we have today.

Although I'm for the idea that people should make their own choices but that it's not a guarantee of a successful marriage and happy home. What arrangee couple should do is to spend some time together and take out time to study each other and see if there's some connection and compatibility. It shouldn't be completely ruled out

ammyluv2002:
Thank you!

Cutehector:
yeah dr is, they don't pretend! No drama..

mzellsx:
you might get to find out,to your utmost disappointment in the long run that they have more drama than the african counterpart

mzellsx:
I'll go with not ruling it out completely,back in the days,they were bizarre reasons for arranged marriages like payment of debt and other weird stuff yh!but we find out that in the long run after the initial getting to know each other stage which takes prolly one year or two,the couple adapt and in SOME situations last longer and more peaceful than the ones with prolonged courtship.

Cutehector:
yh you r right abt dah...

Mrbigman1:
@op, first of all, u look so pretty.

My take on dis remains that arranged marriage in a particular context "you both are ready" honestly has been better than this nonsense we do these days.

If I wanna get married now which am looking forward to, it's either my family tells my a better family to choose from or I just meet the girl.
Dating someone for a decade dnt guarantee perfect marriage and in fact, most failed married starts with this
1. One or both parties are not ready
2. One or both parties lacks understand and dnt wish to learn or have no intention of going into the marriage.

It's kinda a 50-50 stuff but mahn, arranged or just meet kinda marriage which the lady especially will be ready to work for it and wait for time for it to mature.

Nne, fine girl, will u marry me?

mzellsx:
Thanksyes I will,when is the wedding boo