1. Whisper in their ears.
When we're getting our sexy on, we obviously
want to feel sexy and when you whisper in our
ear how sexy we are, it really gets us going. Tell
us why you enjoy being with us and I guarantee
we'll reciprocate your efforts.
2. Tell them why you think we're beautiful.
Every girl wants to feel beautiful, duh. But it’s not
just enough to tell us that we are beautiful; us
emotionally complicated creatures want
assurance as to why you believe this to be true.
Yes, we love that you think we have a "sexy ass”
and “amazing tits,” but while you're under those
sheets, we'd also like to be reminded of our
beautiful smile and our amazing eyes. Every lady
wants to be beautiful from head to toe, not just
boobs to ass. We want to be the women of your
dreams, not just the women of your fantasies.
3. Ask them what they like … and really mean it.
Every single girl I know has been with at least one
guy who was going at it while saying things like,
“You like that? Oh yeah baby, you like that!” Um,
if you're telling us that we like it, chances are you
didn't even bother to ask us. So ask! And when
you ask us, we want you to really ask us. Don’t
make the act of asking a rhetorical ego booster
that makes you feel like you're “doing us right.”
Ask if we like what you're doing because you
really want to do us right, not because you're
assuring yourself that you are. Trust us, ladies
want to be having just as much fun as you would
like to think we are having, but we don't all like
the same things so do yourself a favor and find
out what gets us going.
4. More pre-intimacy!
Most men I know can go from 0 to 60 in half a
second but it takes women a lot longer. Sure, a
quickie is nice every once in a while, but why rush
it? We want and need pre-intimacy to get us ready for
the grand finale. We know you're excited but give
us a little time to get there as well. Not to
mention that not only does pre-intimacy feel hella
good, but knowing that you're focused on making
our entire body tingle will make us want to return
the favor.
5. We want less control. I mean more. I mean ...
This one was a split pole when I questioned my
friends. Half wanted their men to take charge and
rough it up a bit. " He's so respectful of me that
he's almost afraid of using any force in the
bedroom but what I really want is for him to grab
me and take control," said one of my friends. I'm
obviously not suggesting turning up the
roughness to full volume without your woman's
consent but you'd be surprised how many of us
enjoy playing a more passive role in the bedroom
and want nothing more than for you to run the
show. That's one opinion. The other other half of
my friends said they wanted their man to back off
a bit and let them take the reins. " I feel like as a
woman I have a lot less control in the real world
than a man does and there's nothing hotter than
switching that up and being the one in charge in
the bedroom," another friend said. So for this one
men, please refer to #3 and find out which side of
this opinion your lady leans to.
6. Make sure we both finish.
This seems SO obvious, except apparently it isn’t.
If you’re going to cum and then flop down beside
us before we finish, we didn’t really need to be
there because they make blow-up dolls for that.
This sex thing, it takes (at least) two people so
make sure both of those people reap the rewards
of their participation.
7. Change it up.
We're women, which means you'll never
completely understand us because we constantly
change our minds! One day we want romance and
the next, we want something else. So basically, in
order for you to give us what we want, you're
going to have to constantly change what you give
us. We love rose petals on the bed and candles
around the tub because we love romance but we
also love the thrill of being whisked away for
semi-public sex. Not only will the change-up in
sex excite us, but it'll let us know that you're
interested in keeping things fresh.
8. Bring in reinforcements.
As much as we like your man parts, sometimes
they just don’t quite hit the spot for us. In those
cases, we want you to grab a few extra batteries
and a buzzing little toy to help us get to where
we need to be. As frustrating as it might be for
you to not be able to finish us off with nothing
more than your manhood, it’s even more
frustrating for us to be left unsatisfied. Just
because we need a little more, doesn’t mean you
weren’t enough; it just means you’re man enough
to do what it takes to please your lady. Trust us,
we applaud you for your efforts.
9. Read their body language.
While we may want it rougher in some areas,
there are a few areas - namely the clitoris and
the nipples - where we'd like it gentler.
Unfortunately, a lot of you dudes get so caught
up in the moment that you fail to decipher our
"ooo's" and "ah's" from our "ah's!" and "ouch's!"
As my friends agree, we want you to be in tune
with our cues so that you know when to lighten it
up a little bit. Good sex starts with good
communication, so be a great partner and listen
to what our body is telling you, especially if our
body is flinching, fidgeting, or jumping. Ouch!

Must everything be about you (women)?
Everytime you get to see threads talking about how to 'get-them-on well and perfectly, but they hardly talk about the part where it ought to favour the guys too: does this mean the ladies are selfish?
Even if the men "die there" [I don't think] they still would [n]ever be "satisfied!"

Thrash! I hope dis will not make FP.

Tour own views right?

We need tips on how women can satisfy their men in bed. Satisfaction doesn't rest on the man's shoulder alone.

Honestly it works for me.

How abt sucking punna. I know many chics like it

Fairgodwin:
Must everything be about you (women)?
Everytime you get to see threads talking about how to 'get-them-on well and perfectly, but they hardly talk about the part where it ought to favour the guys too: does this mean the ladies are selfish?
Even if the men "die there" [I don't think] they still would [n]ever be "satisfied!"

very selfish set of pple

Fairgodwin:
Must everything be about you (women)?
Everytime you get to see threads talking about how to 'get-them-on well and perfectly, but they hardly talk about the part where it ought to favour the guys too: does this mean the ladies are selfish?
Even if the men "die there" [I don't think] they still would [n]ever be "satisfied!"

. I wonder o:::::

I believe they prefer more music less talk, if u know what I mean