I have come to realize that i have never really fallen in love with any one before, and i dont think i'm going to love my future wife. Please can someone advice me on how to develop emotional attachment towards others? Please i need sensible comments. Any silly comment on this thread and i'll personally locate and deal with you decisively

there is nothing wrong with how you are feeling, you just havent met the right person for you to fall in love with.....it could be because you hang in places where the wrong women hang out, you are not ready emotionally to fall in love or simply that (no offense) a woman doesnt have what you desire/require to fall in love..... and you should look elsewhere (aka men).

bamite:
Any silly comment on this thread and i'll personally locate and deal with you decisively

lol.
Maybe you ve an emotional defence mechanism, so that you won't get hurt. But you ve to let yourself go and open your heart to love

MRBrownJ:
there is nothing wrong with how you are feeling, you just havent met the right person for you to fall in love with.....it could be because you hang in places where the wrong women hang out, you are not ready emotionally to fall in love or simply that (no offense) a woman doesnt have what you desire/require to fall in love..... and you should look elsewhere (aka men).

Look else where? That's a total no no for me, i'm not gay and never will be.

no jst wori, wen d tym coms na u go still bring up anoda topic of "HELP, AM GOING MAD FR MY GF" jst chilaxx

bamite:
Look else where? That's a total no no for me, i'm not gay and never will be.

bro, pls dont get offended once again, but if women dont bring the passion/desire that you require then it may be that you are looking at the wrong place. in 9ja being gay is socially wrong therefore it would be normal for a gay person to unknowingly block such feeling (due to how you were raise, how they are viewed in society and/or how they are possibly lynched).

so look deep within yourself as you are the only one who has the answer to your own questions... YOU are the common denominator out of the women you dated in your life, therefore the problem is YOU. the answer is within YOU, and it doesnt matter how much you keep going back in circles, YOU have to change whatever you are doing in order to have a different outcome. so whether it is because you are emotionally blocked, you dont hang in the right places OR you seek for "more", its all down to YOU and you have to change. so since we dont know you, YOU are the only one who can solve this out.

No, ain't nothing wrong in it.

I personally believe there are more important things in the world than the phrase "Love."

It's okay if you're not in love with your future wife, so long as you trust and respect her. Such feelings may even grow into love, you never can tell.

Bottom line: The inability to love wholly isn't necessarily a bad thing.

Love is dangerous: To be in love is to be in a storm, constantly. You need courage and you need awareness, and you are to be ready for anything. There is no security in love; love is insecure. Marriage is a security. After suffering two heart breaks, I don't think I'll ever advice my worst enemy to follow suits.

bamite:
I have come to realize that i have never really fallen in love with any one before, and i dont think i'm going to love my future wife. Please can someone advice me on how to develop emotional attachment towards others? Please i need sensible comments. Any silly comment on this thread and i'll personally locate and deal with you decisively

SHORO NIYEN

MzNelly:
No, ain't nothing wrong in it.

I personally believe there are more important things in the world than the phrase "Love."

It's okay if you're not in love with your future wife, so long as you trust and respect her. Such feelings may even grow into love, you never can tell.

Bottom line: The inability to love wholly isn't necessarily a bad thing.

SHORO NIYEN