excanny:

Nah nah nah. I dont believe you. Be specific with proofs of such swagga and I'll give you scores of Igbo men wey such swagga dey over worry. Igbo men just have a different kind of swagga. You only need to do one thing- find out.

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Carry on my Igbo brother. Nothing do you.

just treat my Yoruba sister right. Else juju go fire ya yansh

ihu oma diri my brotha

excanny:

Nah nah nah. I dont believe you. Be specific with proofs of such swagga and I'll give you scores of Igbo men wey such swagga dey over worry. Igbo men just have a different kind of swagga. You only need to do one thing- find out.

Ok, you want me to find out Igbo swagga, but you're suggesting EzeUche? Seriously?
The only swagga he has is running his mouth and getting over cocky when it's not necessary.
And nahhhh, Yoruba men too much. . . .their only cons is polygamy.

Onlytruth:

I'm yet to see any woman from a different tribe that left an Igbo man after having a taste. In fact what I have even noticed is that once a woman has been with an Igbo man, she finds it EXTREMELY hard to look elsewhere. All her future lovers would likely be Igbo. And I mean women from ALL PARTS OF THE WORLD.

See over cockyness
Hehehe OnlyTruth
The thing about Igbo men is that they have sweet tongue, they'll sweet mouth you eh, you'll begin to doubt them. I've noticed that. But flattery gets you nowhere.

Ileke-IdI:

Ok, you want me to find out Igbo swagga, but you're suggesting EzeUche? Seriously?
The only swagga he has is running his mouth and getting over cocky when it's not necessary.
And nahhhh, Yoruba men too much. . . .their only cons is polygamy.
See over cockyness 
Hehehe OnlyTruth 
The thing about Igbo men is that they have sweet tongue, they'll sweet mouth you eh, you'll begin to doubt them. I've noticed that. But flattery gets you nowhere.

On a serious note, it is more than sweet tongue. I think the first thing is that an Igbo man would treat you like his own sister first. He will protect and defend your interests. He would see you as vulnerable and needing his care and protection. If he is rich, the better. If he is poor, he would die trying to earn a living to ensure his family is fine.

I think those attributes raises a woman's natural female instincts, and keeps her attracted to him. I don't wanna add his work rate in bed. 

Onlytruth:


On a serious note, it is more than sweet tongue. I think the first thing is that an Igbo man would treat you like his own sister first. He will protect and defend your interests. He would see you as vulnerable and needing his care and protection. If he is rich, the better. If he is poor, he would die trying to earn a living to ensure his family is fine.

I think those attributes raises a woman's natural female instincts, and keeps her attracted to him. I don't wanna add his work rate in bed. 

From YOUR fingers, I believe you lol.
Actually I've heard this a lot about Igbo men. One of my friend, aunty toyin [not me], is engaged to one.

But still I cant imagine not speaking Yoruba with my man or sharing same culture. Different culture is not as "Nice" as ppl make it sound. It's difficult lol

Igbo men are egotistical.

I will admit that. Igbo man with money. Na wa o! Even worse.

But one thing can be said about Igbo men is that we are entirely devoted to our families and we treat our women like queens.

And we are hard working.

Ileke-IdI:



But still I cant imagine not speaking Yoruba with my man or sharing same culture. Different culture is not as "Nice" as ppl make it sound. It's difficult lol

By the time you look for husband till 35, all these rules and regulations guiding your choice will be thrown out of the window.

I could care less who I marry. As long as she looks good.

My children will still be Igbo. And they will still speak Igbo and Ibibio.

I'm yet to see any woman from a different tribe that left an Igbo man after having a taste. In fact what I have even noticed is that once a woman has been with an Igbo man, she finds it EXTREMELY hard to look elsewhere. All her future lovers would likely be Igbo. And I mean women from ALL PARTS OF THE WORLD.

no biggie.

same is said of yoruba men.

it's just a thing with women.

men are the ones who would still want to be experimenting all over with different types of women even if they [the men] are geriatric.

tpiah:

no biggie.

same is said of yoruba men.

it's just a thing with women.

men are the ones who would still want to be experimenting all over with different types of women even if they [the men] are geriatric.

and this:

In that case,concentrate on Osun men only. They are more likely to be faithful than any other men from Yorubaland.

is misinformation.

who will or wont cheat is largely dependent on personal values and environment, not necessarily state of origin.

admittedly, some areas are more prone to cheating than others, but generalization still doesnt always cut it.

Actually Igbo men are not known to be experimenting with other women.

Some of my family are amazed that I do not date Igbo women. Dated Yoruba, Efik, Ghanaian and a Cameroonian but no Igbo woman.

An Igbo man always protects his woman with everything. If you find an Igbo couple with a new child, it's very common to see the man carrying the baby for his wife. How about that?

excanny:

An Igbo man always protects his woman with everything. If you find an Igbo couple with a new child, it's very common to see the man carrying the baby for his wife. How about that?

That is the point I've been trying to make but I don't think [b]tpiah [/b]understood me.

Of course men wander in relationships more than women, but my point is that I have met many non-Igbo women who never date other tribes after dating Igbo men. Even Akatas in particular who dated Igbo men before will ask your tribe before she decides to date you.

excanny:

An Igbo man always protects his woman with everything. If you find an Igbo couple with a new child, it's very common to see the man carrying the baby for his wife. How about that?

i've seen plenty of yoruba men carrying their baby. Especially overseas. The only way something like this would be a novelty is if it happened in nigeria.

Onlytruth:

That is the point I've been trying to make but I don't think [b]tpiah [/b]understood me.

Of course men wander in relationships more than women, but my point is that I have met many non-Igbo women who never date other tribes after dating Igbo men. Even Akatas in particular who dated Igbo men before will ask your tribe before she decides to date you.

it's a female thing.

they stick to what they're used to.

it's not tribe specific in the way you think.

tpiah the defender of the Yoruba race against the Igbo hordes. lol

^^no need to make this tribal.

if you interacted more outside your comfort zone you'd know everything i said yourself.

tpiah:

^^no need to make this tribal.

if you interacted more outside your comfort zone you'd know everything i said yourself.

What do you mean? I only date outside my comfort zone. I have only dated one Igbo woman. The rest have been from other groups ESPECIALLY YORUBAS.

EzeUche and his testimonies

EzeUche22:

What do you mean? I only date outside my comfort zone. I have only dated one Igbo woman. The rest have been from other groups ESPECIALLY YORUBAS.

How possible is it for someone to pluck apples from the very tree he so much despise?. You surprise me sometimes, EzeGators.

tpiah:

and this:


is misinformation.

who will or wont cheat is largely dependent on personal values and environment, not necessarily state of origin.

admittedly, some areas are more prone to cheating than others, but generalization still doesnt always cut it.

If it is true to a large extent that Yoruba men are the most randy among all ethnic groups in Nigeria, why do you doubt my assertion that Osun men are more cultured, neat and responsible among the whole Yoruba race?. It is a tribal thing and like I said before, stay away from the Yoruba tribe known as Egba because their men have 3 left balls in their scrotum.

Aloy+Emeka:

If it is true to a large extent that Yoruba men are the most randy among all ethnic groups in Nigeria, why do you doubt my assertion that[b] Osun men are more cultured, neat and responsible among the whole Yoruba race?[/b]. It is a tribal thing and like I said before, stay away from the Yoruba tribe known as Egba because their men have 3 left balls in their scrotum.

Aloy.emeka

You are on your own. No matter how old a gorrilla is, he will still be sleeping on a tree.

But on a more serious note, it's not the entire osun, it's the Ijeshas. They are a good breed of Yorubas, only i cant vouch for them when its has to do with women.

Very true post. But some men are controlled by their mother. I say, why not just marry your mother, plz.

I tell them, Grow some backbone, nitori Olorun.

But still, no matter how firm you are, some family members and relatives are relentless, very wicked.

I'm the first child also, if my brother brings home a woman I feel like is not "it", I'll chase her off. No jokes. Same with my sis.

So if your inlaws do the same to you, You would complain that the man is not man enough, he is a Mummy's boy of that the inlaws are witches, Yet what do you want the girl you chased away to think about you? Definitely she would sy you are a witch too, What goes around, comes around

Aloy+Emeka:

If it is true to a large extent that Yoruba men are the most randy among all ethnic groups in Nigeria, why do you doubt my assertion that Osun men are more cultured, neat and responsible among the whole Yoruba race?. It is a tribal thing and like I said before, stay away from the Yoruba tribe known as Egba because their men have 3 left balls in their scrotum.

1. Yoruba men are NOT the randiest in nigeria, ok? Nigerian men are randy, period.

2. Are you dating an osun man and were you disappointed by an egba man because your aggro is very suspicious.

excanny:

Aloy.emeka

You are on your own. No matter how old a gorrilla is, he will still be sleeping on a tree.

But on a more serious note, it's not the entire osun, it's the Ijeshas. They are a good breed of Yorubas, only i cant vouch for them when its has to do with women.

you've obviously never met an osogbo man. Or any other yoruba men.

as far as[b] I[/b] know, the yoruba group known for the highest monogamy rate in the southwest are the ijebus. And that assumption is based on certain premises, one of which is the couple are both ijebu.

second, you must have somehow magically impressed your partner's relatives?

ondo men [from ondo town], also have a somewhat relatively high rate of monogamy once they decide to settle down. Especially if both parties are ondo but sometimes even if not.

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tpiah:

you've obviously never met an osogbo man. Or any other yoruba men.

as far as[b] I[/b] know, the yoruba group known for the highest monogamy rate in the southwest are the ijebus. And that assumption is based on certain premises, one of which is the couple are both ijebu.

second, you must have somehow magically impressed your partner's relatives?

ondo men [from ondo town], also have a somewhat relatively high rate of monogamy once they decide to settle down.

Did you just mentioned Osogbo and Ijebu? May i never met them. I know the types of Yorubas to hang around with and i've just told you.

All I can say is that if an Igbo babe wants to marry a Yoruba man, she does so at her own risk.

She needs to prepare herself for his other wives and his family.

When you deal with an Igbo man, you know he will be faithful to you. Just worry about an Igbo man's mother.

Dayo, you,re trying to make me sound unnecessarily evil.
If he/she does not fit the bill for my sis and bro, why should I let the charade go on?  And ofcourse what goes around comes around lol haven't you watched TERRIBLE SIN? Of course if she's alright, I wnt be difficult for the fun of it.

na wah for you o. Onye okwu ki bu?
shakes head in disbelief

EzeUche22:

All I can say is that if an Igbo babe wants to marry a Yoruba man, she does so at her own risk.

She needs to prepare herself for his other wives and his family.

When you deal with an Igbo man, you know he will be faithful to you. Just worry about an Igbo man's mother.

excanny:

Did you just mentioned Osogbo and Ijebu? May i never met them. I know the types of Yorubas to hang around with and i've just told you.

are you trying to marry an Ijebu man or an osogbo man?

and I believe i mentioned one of the premises being if the couple are both ijebu?

Ileke-IdI:

Dayo, you,re trying to make me sound unnecessarily evil.
If he/she does not fit the bill for my sis and bro, why should I let the charade go on? And ofcourse what goes around comes around lol haven't you watched TERRIBLE SIN? Of course if she's alright, I wnt be difficult for the fun of it.

Maybe your inlaws might be the of the same opinion about you.

Just the same way I feel about Daughter in law - Mother in law feuds. A lot can be resolved if both parties put themselves in the other persons shoes

Men are men. They will cheat and do all sorts if they want to. These things aren't limited to tribe
or anything. Igbo men like to make noise about everything. . A good man is a good man and so is a wonderful family.
These things aren't tribe related. You all should be praying for God to give each and every one of you a man/woman
who will love, care and take care of you. . Also a family that will be nice enough to know their boundaries.
That is all. All the other talk here is rubbish and tribalistic because at the end of the day a man that will treat you like crap
will regardless of where he is from!