My name is Banke. I am putting my name up here in the hopes that the person I am writing about reads this. If you do I want you to know I am very sorry and never saw it coming. I hope you will forgive me because you are one of the nicest people I have met in recent times. So here’s my confession. I recently passed out from NYSC February 2015, I served in Abuja and I still live here in Abuja with a very good friend who served with me in the same PPA. We recently became friends around September 2014 and since then she has been so nice to me, somewhat of an angel in disguise and she’s a very smart girl too. Recently she told me to join her to go see her boyfriend she’s been telling me about and he has proposed to marry her with their introduction in a few months. So on that faithful day we went together to his house, on getting there, seeing how nice looking the place was made my heart pump faster with joy for my friend and then suddenly lo and behold he came out of the room to join us. Guess what? The guy I saw is someone I have slept with before. We didn’t have anything serious though, it was more like a one night stand and it was months before I even became friends with her. Seeing me he acted like he didn’t remember and I played along. Since that day I have been thinking and it worries me a lot because this guy is who my friend wants to get married to. She seems so in love with him and they look good together so I do not want to spoil what they have going on for them and be branded a bad friend. Do I open up to her or die with it? I’m confused


Source: http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/76/i-slept-with-my-friends-hubby-to-be

YOU WANT TO OPEN UP? YOU BE SEVEN UP ; pls i don't fansy stuffs like first to comment, if u are fast enough kindly post before i press summit

Is better you die with it,don't destroy your friend happiness. What will you gain if you open up? Abeg, bone face jor.

Open up for what? Pls go die wit it...or ar u advertising ur biz here again?
#badmarket

Die and remain buried with it. Thank you.

d posters above me av said it all

Rubbish!why opening thread for such a dirty behaviour?Go ahead and tell her now then $5million ll be deposited into your account
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its strange cos my opinion is different from others,
I think u did nothing wrong by sleeping with the guy
cos u had slept with him before u went to camp, and
also let be sincere here its not ur fault
she wants to marry the man u av slept with before being friends.
what will likely happen is that few years into the marriage
the guy might come disturbing u for extra-marital affairs and lo and behold
ur friend might get to find out then, what will u tell her that u av bin sleeping with him
before u met her Nd u think she will believe u.
better u tell her, cos its safer that way. the guy dint cheat on her cos the act was done before u met his fiance.

Blog story I aint taking it serious

jaydee87:
its strange cos my opinion is different from others,
I think u did nothing wrong by sleeping with the guy
cos u had slept with him before u went to camp, and
also let be sincere here its not ur fault
she wants to marry the man u av slept with before being friends.
what will likely happen is that few years into the marriage
the guy might come disturbing u for extra-marital affairs and lo and behold
ur friend might get to find out then, what will u tell her that u av bin sleeping with him
before u met her Nd u think she will believe u.
better u tell her, cos its safer that way. the guy dint cheat on her cos the act was done before u met his fiance.

so wtf is ur point....

jaydee87:
its strange cos my opinion is different from others,
I think u did nothing wrong by sleeping with the guy
cos u had slept with him before u went to camp, and
also let be sincere here its not ur fault
she wants to marry the man u av slept with before being friends.
what will likely happen is that few years into the marriage
the guy might come disturbing u for extra-marital affairs and lo and behold
ur friend might get to find out then, what will u tell her that u av bin sleeping with him
before u met her Nd u think she will believe u.
better u tell her, cos its safer that way. the guy dint cheat on her cos the act was done before u met his fiance.

so wtf is ur point....

It was a one night stand. Let it remain like that. and it was even before you met your friend. If u open your mouth ehn, amadioha and sango na him go strike only your mouth

Clap for yourself...you won the medal at last....

LEAVE THEM THE FÚCK ALONE!! U want him to come back to his first love Women and deception

kini big deal?
sebi them knack bfor she met her friend of urs?why creating unnessary gist wey no mke meaning?

Same way you passed out of NYSC, pass out again please, If this is true... don't destroy another person joy

If he cheated on her with you when he was still her fiance and you're yet to meet her then you have to tell her.

Unless u want your friend to marry a cheater.

Its none of your fault because you had no idea then that he was in a relationship.

She might be angry with you at first but she'll later come to her senses.

my dear that happened in the past don't bring it back to the present. pls leave that to go and accept it to be a mirage. biko!

Ucheosefoh:
Blog story I aint taking it serious

what a stupid mentality! Shia nigerian would nt kill me.....

Jollyjoy:
what a stupid mentality! Shia nigerian would nt kill me.....

Don't quote me next time to talk rubbish, because I did not believe this fabricated story by a blogger seeking for traffic means I have stupid mentality. I will not insult you but stay away from my mention if you don't anything nice to say.

Saying u should die with it is an understatement.........

The topic should be "My friend is getting married to my one-night stand"

jerryfunky:






so wtf is ur point....





so wtf is ur point....

my point not meant for you..... but incase u need it, she should go ahead and tell her friend...

I live in Abuja too dear, forget about them

Let's start ours

Ucheosefoh:
Don't quote me next time to talk rubbish, because I did not believe this fabricated story by a blogger seeking for traffic means I have stupid mentality. I will not insult you but stay away from my mention if you don't anything nice to say.

I'm sorry but its not a blog post. ConfessionsNigeria.com is not a blog. It is a site where people can come and post any story with the option of total anonymity. Politicians, Pastors and even ordinary Nigerians are talking. This is a true confession posted anonymously...

wizzprince:
YOU WANT TO OPEN UP? YOU BE SEVEN UP YOU WANT TO OPEN UP? YOU BE SEVEN UP

Wicked!

That nah canker of worms wey if u open am, e go consume u join!

.mstchewww

ConfessionsNgr:
My name is Banke. I am putting my name up here in the hopes that the person I am writing about reads this. If you do I want you to know I am very sorry and never saw it coming. I hope you will forgive me because you are one of the nicest people I have met in recent times. So here’s my confession. I recently passed out from NYSC February 2015, I served in Abuja and I still live here in Abuja with a very good friend who served with me in the same PPA. We recently became friends around September 2014 and since then she has been so nice to me, somewhat of an angel in disguise and she’s a very smart girl too. Recently she told me to join her to go see her boyfriend she’s been telling me about and he has proposed to marry her with their introduction in a few months. So on that faithful day we went together to his house, on getting there, seeing how nice looking the place was made my heart pump faster with joy for my friend and then suddenly lo and behold he came out of the room to join us. Guess what? The guy I saw is someone I have slept with before. We didn’t have anything serious though, it was more like a one night stand and it was months before I even became friends with her. Seeing me he acted like he didn’t remember and I played along. Since that day I have been thinking and it worries me a lot because this guy is who my friend wants to get married to. She seems so in love with him and they look good together so I do not want to spoil what they have going on for them and be branded a bad friend. Do I open up to her or die with it? I’m confused


Source: http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/76/i-slept-with-my-friends-hubby-to-be

you want to open because you are not truly happy about your friend's happiness.

Banke u have other motives. until u say dem out then I can know d best advice 2give u. u gals can b soooo deceptive.

congratulation

He probably didn't recognize you for real

But I think your friend deserves the truth IF they were dating at the time of the incident. If not, no need.