There are a few clear-cut ways to detect whether a man is into you or not.

So save yourself the time, heartache, and emotions and learn to identify these dating warning signs so you can get out of a relationship before it gets ugly:

He doesn’t call you his girlfriend: Pay attention to how he introduces you to others. If he introduces you as, “This is my girlfriend (Name),” two thumbs up! He’s announcing to the world that you are his woman. If he introduces you as, “This is (Name),” that’s a bad sign. He doesn’t want people to know he’s “with” you, or he doesn’t feel serious enough about the relationship to make that claim.

He spends more time with his friends than with you: If he spends more time with his friends than with you, he may not be interested in anything serious. It’s possible he isn’t really with his friends at all. He might have another relationship going and you are the side piece.

It’s three-six months in and you haven’t met his family or friends: When a man is interested in you, he will showcase you like a trophy. If you’ve never met a close friend or member of his family, you are simply a play-toy or time filler until the right woman comes along.

He doesn’t want a committed relationship: After a month or two, you should have a clear indication of whether you two are going to see each other exclusively or not. If he doesn’t want a committed relationship with you, then he is keeping his options open for someone better.

You’ve been dating for awhile, but you’ve never seen his place: There are only two possible reasons for this. Either he is embarrassed by his living conditions, or he lives with another woman (girlfriend or wife) and possibly children.

The only times you get together are indoors, at scheduled times: You never go out in public or on dates together. The relationship is primarily sexual, not social. This is a sure sign that he has no interest in you. You are just a jump-off (a means to fulfill his sexual urges).

He doesn’t have time for you: Sometimes, guys say they are too busy with workschool. This could be the case, but if it’s always happening, then he is too busy for the relationship but doesn’t mind stringing you along if sex is involved.

He doesn’t call: If you have plans with him and he’s a no call/no show (with no legitimate follow-up explanation), it’s a complete violation of the relationship. A simple phone call, text, or email could suffice. No communication represents no respect for you or your time. If he was into you, he’d be eager to call you just to chat.

There are countless signs that a man can give to let you know he’s not into you. This short list should get you started.

A whole lot of guys below 27 years of age out there wants just a relationship,based on sex,except for a handful wanting a commitment kinda relationship that could lead to walking down the aisle.

huh

izuch:
you make small sense sha

Really ....small/ big?

The comment before mine is rubbish. Let's see what the next comment will be ?

very educating @ OP

nice one @OP

shiki:


Really ....small/ big?

SMALL

Boring

What all these fuss about when

Sex sex sex

The last time I check someone can have sex when ever he/she feels like....

there are three question I always ask a lady when she is coming over to my place

1)Are you on your period(if yes no need of question 2 and don't even bother coming either)

It only guys that lack self-respect that allow ladies see them as fools simply because they wanna have sex with her...sex is cheap

Pinocchioo:
very educating @ OP

Wow, ....thanks

LewisO:
What if the guy is busy for a while, does that mean he's only interested in sex and not in relationship?

It's time for ladies to start showing care not just sit down and always expect the guy to be the one checking on their well being.

What if the guy is busy for a while,


Thank God u said for a while

1)Are you on your period(if yes no need of question 2 and don't even bother coming either)

Hehehe ....what of if u get married and ur wife is on her period, would u send her to her parents house till after her period?

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Ok ....thanks smallsmall ]

cowleg:
Boring

I don't bliv u know the meaning of "Boring"

Black men are not serious.

thumbs up....u r absolutely right

MrsChima:
Black men are not serious.

Mrs, pls can u say ....SOME black men are not serious? Cos all are not dsame

jomile:
thumbs up....u r absolutely right

Thanks dear

Any lady that doesn't know these signs has no reason being in love in the first place.

sauceny:
A whole lot of guys below 27 years of age out there wants just a relationship,based on sex,except for a handful wanting a commitment kinda relationship that could lead to walking down the aisle.

Exactly..
Especially below 27

sauceny:
A whole lot of guys below 27 years of age out there wants just a relationship,based on sex,except for a handful wanting a commitment kinda relationship that could lead to walking down the aisle.

Very true bro