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Seeing Beyond The Flaws In Relationship/marriage by kaylad1(m): 11:16pm On May 10, 2015
She married him today.
At the end of the wedding
party, her mother gave her a newly opened bank
savings passbook, with $1000 deposited in it.
She told her, "My dear daughter, take this passbook.
Keep it as a record of your married life. Whenever
something happy and memorable happens in your
new life, put some money in.
Write down what it's about next to the amount. The
more memorable the event is,the more money you
can put in. I've done the first one for you today. Do
the others with your husband.
When you look back after years, you will know how
much happiness you've both shared.' She shared this
with him after getting home. Both of them thought it
was a great idea and couldn't wait to make the next
deposit!
This is what the passbook looked like after a while: - 7
Feb: $100, his first birthday celebration after
marriage
- 1 Mar: $300, she gets a salary raise
- 20 Mar: $200, vacation to dubai
- 15 Apr: $2000, She's pregnant!
- 1 Jun: $1000, He gets the big promotion and so on...
However, as the years went by, they began fighting
and arguing over trivial things. They didn't talk much.
They regretted that they had married the most nasty
person in the world...There was no more love.
One day she talked to her Mother. 'Mom, we can't
stand it anymore. We have decided to divorce. I can't
imagine how I decided to marry this guy!' Her mother
replied, 'Sure, that's no big deal. Just do whatever
you want, if you really can't stand it.
But before that, do one thing. Remember the savings
passbook I gave you on your wedding day? Take out
all money and spend it first. You shouldn't keep any
record of such a poor marriage.' She agreed with
her. So she went to the bank, and was waiting in the
queue to cancel the account.
While she was waiting, she took a look at the
passbook record. She looked, and looked, and
looked. Then the memory of all the previous joyful
moments came back to her. Her eyes were filled with
tears.
She left and went home. When she got home, she
handed the passbook to him and asked him to spend
the money before getting divorced. So the next day,
he went to the bank, and was waiting in the queue to
cancel the account. While he was waiting, he took a
look at the passbook record.
He looked, and looked, and looked. Then the memory
of all the previous joyful moments came back to him.
His eyes were filled with tears. He left and went
home. He gave the passbook back to her. She found a
new deposit of $5000. And a line next to the record:
'This is the day I realized how much I've loved you
throughout all these years.
How much happiness you've brought me.' They
hugged and cried, putting the passbook back into the
safe. If you like this story then from now on give a
print out of this story to every couple who is getting
married along with a nice notebook to record their
happy times...who know you may just be able to help
them !!
!
Re: Seeing Beyond The Flaws In Relationship/marriage by sinaj(f): 11:26pm On May 10, 2015
#tailorgang#
Re: Seeing Beyond The Flaws In Relationship/marriage by tohpahz(f): 11:35pm On May 10, 2015
smiley

Nice story
Re: Seeing Beyond The Flaws In Relationship/marriage by remsonik(f): 12:22am On May 11, 2015
Nice one
Re: Seeing Beyond The Flaws In Relationship/marriage by cyprus000: 12:40am On May 11, 2015
gringrin
Re: Seeing Beyond The Flaws In Relationship/marriage by PunkyOh(f): 5:39am On May 11, 2015
Aww, shweet

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