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Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Toks2008(m): 12:06am On May 12, 2015 |
laudate: Its all about the orientation guys now have that most ladies will turn down proposals from struggling guys in a room apartment so its really not the guys fault. |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by abbey621(m): 2:40am On May 12, 2015 |
MRBrownJ: O ye of little faith, I know many responsible guys who have turned liability into asset. All relationships are risky but the best ones brings out the best in one another. Back in 100 level to 200 level I couldn't get any girl because I was very shy and uncomfortable with my appearance, if I continued that way I might have found it very difficult to develop a relationship with any woman. Some of these girls are not liability but just misinformed/unlucky. Gone are the days of sitting back and waiting for the right guy to come along, nowadays you have to be proactive! |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by samtechcomm: 5:41am On May 12, 2015 |
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Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Nobody: 6:22am On May 12, 2015 |
Nori: Yes I completely agree with you, hence why I said the race isnt always to the swift. God has the final say. But just wanted to give sisters some tips that may help.. gotta expand your circle sometimes and try new things/locations to broaden your chances. I know of some very good ladies who go to a church full of other lonely ladies with no eligible bachelors in attendance at that church!! They spend all their time either in church or at home. How then do they expect to bump into Mr Right? But yea, you are right. . Ive equally witnessed extremely introverted, shy girls getting married earlier than the lively ones. 1 Like |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Babatea07(m): 7:00am On May 12, 2015 |
My advice is just live a simple and modest life, don't give too much conditions that a modest guy cannot achieve in the interim, pray in faith and your mr right will come. Always ask God to help you identify him when he appears cos so many ladies have driven away their mr right cos of appearance or higher expectations... Be wise, if you rush into marriage, you will rush out or instead of marriage bliss, it will end up becoming marriage blows. May God Almighty grant all our brothers and sisters of marriageable age the bone of their bones and flesh of their flesh in Jesus name... demmy0325: |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by enomakos(m): 8:49am On May 12, 2015 |
nsiazu:seconded |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by focusM: 9:28am On May 12, 2015 |
chrisbaba1: So u know God works so why are still an atheist? |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by adesegun121(m): 9:34am On May 12, 2015 |
bizmogul: Too much of everything is not good too much of serious i think that is the issue let me hv deir number i can hook dem up wth serious guy dat want to settle down but will like to ask dem few question... |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Evegreen: 10:15am On May 12, 2015 |
socrateez: |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Nobody: 10:20am On May 12, 2015 |
focusM: Was..... |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by focusM: 10:41am On May 12, 2015 |
braine: You are a big mugu |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Nobody: 10:47am On May 12, 2015 |
winie:I tried to send you an email at win992004@yahoo.com...that email addy is dead. I read your comment on you & your fiance and i was really touched to say the least. I could feel the friendship-gone-sour air that suddenly overwhelmed your relationship just because of sex & i understand what it feels like to see your lover walk away. Quickly, i'd like to tell you something strange about men. You see, men like submission. Every man wants his woman to totally submit to him 100%. That's just the way we are wired. We hate it when you women say a thing & expect it to stand-even when you're right. I'd use myself as an example. Often, when i demand something from my girlfriend, i never take 'no' for an answer no matter how distraught & unhappy she may be & no matter how unreasonable my request may seem. At that moment, for the most part, all i want from her is to submit to me, & then i'd lovingly grant her request & let things go her own way. The focal point is in her submission. If she wants 'a' & i want 'b', i feel better when she accepts 'b' & then i'd deliberately change my mind & allow 'a'. I never want it to be 'a' because she insisted on 'a'. I want her to bend to my will first, before i bend to hers. Men don't want to be the first to bend. I hope you get that drill. I have a strong feeling(it's awkward though & i don't know why) that your fiance may not have slept with you if you had given in to sex. I stand to be corrected anyway. I really perceive all he wanted from you was submission. Trust me, that guy didn't leave you because you witheld sex, rather he did, because you seemed to want to dictate to him & he detested that. It's good you know this about men. It's a sure potent anaesthetic to our hearts. Men value submissive women more than anything & those women usually have more power to influence their men. Next time you fall in love, accept his request with tears, make it clear you're doing that solely for love & if he loves you, he'll deliberately let things go your way. Play with this psychology of men & you'll be amazed at the ease it'd bring. I wish you all the best. Cheers! 1 Like |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by focusM: 10:52am On May 12, 2015 |
adejarebanjoko: Heya |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by braine(m): 10:54am On May 12, 2015 |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by focusM: 11:01am On May 12, 2015 |
braine: Its not everything u joke about u fool. If u had a sister or a daughter above 30 years who is not married,would u say what u just said to her face? May God forgive ur stupidity. |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by precisionindepth: 11:20am On May 12, 2015 |
saintfizzo:good luck....start with a literature review and d easiest way is to create the topic here and sample pples opinion with DT, u can move forward. |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by precisionindepth: 11:23am On May 12, 2015 |
holamiday:simply put...it means u r God, huh? 1 Like |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by lynn360: 12:24pm On May 12, 2015 |
alobam1:Good points you've made, we ladies have to watch it...our attitudes towards the opposite sex could be appalling most times...all boils down to the so called shakara we were made to believe is the best way to get a man 1 Like |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Eze2000(m): 12:42pm On May 12, 2015 |
I'm a 35 yr old man also looking for my dream woman for immediate marriage. I'm desperate but careful in my search so I have looking for 4 yes now. I've discovered 2 things. one a dream partner doesn't come ready made like we dream it, and 2 no one is perfect. But the upsetting thing is every single lady wants to marry a rich and handsome man even with so much poverty and hardship so commonplace. Funnily these rich guys and their families want to marry a lady of their own class meanwhile the guys are busy sleeping with and lying to all the other girls who want them..... consequently the 'leftover old cargos'. An intelligent hard-working man with God's blessings and a loving supportive wife can become rich tomorrow and a rich man with all d world poor overnight.....a wise girl should bear this in mind and seek a man who will love and cherish her. (Tall, big in build (tall), full figured and gentle natured and religious) if there exists any lady with these qualities, plus wisdom and a reasonable heart, ready for marriage then would I like to know her. { my BBM pin 51598DE3 / e-mail omegastar293@gmail.com} |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Qualer: 12:51pm On May 12, 2015 |
bizmogul: ok. you can send me contacts by PM. If that is okay by you, cheers. |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Nobody: 1:17pm On May 12, 2015 |
precisionindepth:number of women is more than men's. |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by lynn360: 1:31pm On May 12, 2015 |
Eze2000:Lol...And what happens to the short and portable ones#sadface#diaris God bro 1 Like |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by precisionindepth: 1:40pm On May 12, 2015 |
ferdimako:OK v heard u. |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by alobam1: 2:05pm On May 12, 2015 |
lynn360: My dear,It might not even be the shakara itself..Shakara is good. But it depends at the way you go about it..Have asked ladies out who turned me down,I mean who said NO and we are still best of friends till today..I always pray for one of them to get someone better than me cos she deserves the best.. Am friends with them cos they got a good attitude and they said No then because of a good reason. But when a lady now have a bad behaviour and attitude,Guys would run away from her. Even if Na she and Jesus Christ dey sleep on the same bed,people would just be making jest of her say she be devil.. Am 100percent okay with my current girlfriend,she gots all I need in a woman.I do ring it in her ears that if we don't get married the fault would be from her and not from me. She is not the most beautiful,neither is she a virgin,But she is the opposite of my ex... To me,The defination of a bad girl is not a girl that sleeps around alone,No,if you have a very bad attitude and behaviour,weather you are a virgin,you are nothing but a bad girl and you are in the same position as a girl that sleeps around.Shikena |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by Cavenchy(m): 2:45pm On May 12, 2015 |
You know, I just thought it would be cool to chip in a few words. Some advice for the church going ladies. it could apply to both men and women but I have used the female gender in my analogy as the topic refers to them. Work on being a true Christian Lady Being a prayer warrior who prays only for material wealth and to fight enemies you have created through your hatred not spiritual growth doesn't make you a Christian Being in every fellowship only for the sole reason of finding potential husbands doesn't make you a Christian Being a choir mistress who looks down on the poor people in your group doesn't make you a Christian Being self righteous and insulting those who God sent you to convert doesn't make you Christian. (Yes even sinners deserve pity not contempt). Wearing long skirts and a scarf in church and fantasizing consistently about things of the flesh doesn't make you Christian. Being obedient to your pastor but disrespectful to elders/parents including anyone who God has placed above or below you isn't being a Christian. My point is: Being good/Christian is a thing of the heart. When I was very little, a teacher once said to us, ''Children you have to be good, because if you are bad and you go to heaven, Jesus would have to run away from heaven. He can't live with people who are bad because you would cause trouble for Him". Now as an Adult, it makes more sense to me, God wont let you to enter heaven if you would cause trouble for the citizens there. It wont be fair for the good people in heaven to be treated badly by the bad people who bring their bad behavior to the Kingdom. God is Love and if you can't Love your neighbor you can't Love everyone in heaven and God has already promised everyone in heaven Love. Example: Lets say God lets you into heaven, then you see a man who used to be in ragged clothes on earth saying hi to you and you ignore him because you feel you were better than him on earth would you be fit to be in that Kingdom? You can see now that it is all about our hearts/character. If this is so, look at the points I raised, In Nigeria a lot of people treat God like a local diety, they only go to him to receive power to achieve their selfish interests and forget they can't live outside the Love he has given. If it is God's will that you should get married, think about the person you are, if this God you claim to love so much gives you a husband, would your character be good for him? Would it be fair for God to give you to a just man? Would that be answering the husband's request for a good wife? God would not seem fair if he gives good things to people who would abuse them. Marriage is the sacrament of Love. If you can't show love to your neighbor where would you find it to give to your husband? Ladies if you can grasp this simple principle I assure you, your husband would locate you in the fastest time possible. God isn't asleep (Remember Genesis 24:12), he just wants to be sure those who truly love Him get the best deal. If you have been trying to do what is right and you don't see the man forthcoming it doesn't mean God has abandoned you, he is trying to find the one who matches your qualification and that is why you must pray for those who have fallen, if God can't find a good man for you he would probably expect you to work on making them Good enough or he would bless your singlehood. But this is when you are free from blame, perfect your ways with the help of the Holy Spirit and what you desire would come freely. 1 Like |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by umohmfonobong: 3:41pm On May 12, 2015 |
Just like i said, about my ex leaving me for a guy two year ago because i did not have a good job, today she was at my office, after calling me, well i did my best in entertaining her, i feel for her but the truth is that i cant take her back again even if i still have feeling for her. For her to come shows that she is missing me. But i have another person whom i have done phase 2 in marriage preparation, any advice |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by onlyson16(m): 4:51pm On May 12, 2015 |
bizmogul:no am very seriose pls ,u can c my email dere |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by micktoxin(m): 6:08pm On May 12, 2015 |
bizmogul:Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle. Sorry, I couldnt ignore that quote. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by lynn360: 7:11pm On May 12, 2015 |
alobam1:we are still on the same track, some ladies think been rude is actually shakara but it's not. A girl without good attitude is as ugly as an ape no matter how beautiful your face might be. Good you appreciate your girlfriend this much, kudos to u two 1 Like |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by haul: 7:14pm On May 12, 2015 |
lynn360: So apt and concise,keep it up. |
Re: How Can These DECENT Ladies Get Their Dream Husbands? by akplatnum2005(m): 7:49pm On May 12, 2015 |
[quote author=chike4 post=33634292]NL, marriage |
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