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How To Take Action If A Guy Calls You Ugly by nsiazu: 2:46pm On May 14, 2015
1. Consider who's calling you ugly.Is it one of your best guy friends? And can you tell that he's teasing? Or is it a guy that seems tohate you and insults you on a regular basis? Or is it your evil ex boyfriend?

2. Come up with a good response. If he's teasing you, a friendly poke and a joke in return will be fine. Ifhe's saying this to be mean, you can either tell him off or justignore him. And let your parents deal with your brother.[/b]

3. If you start wondering if the guy was actually kidding, take a look at yourself, especially if this isn't the first time someone has said this.If you decide that you are nothappy with your image, now might be a good time to change your wardrobe, hair, etc. But just remember: Everyone is beautiful in their own way.

4. Don't let it ruin your life.One comment should not make you completely miserable. Justwalk confidentlyand have fun.

5. If its a boyfriend, find someone who isn't a jerk.

6. Be classy.If you understand (see tips) that ugly is a weak and childishinsult, then respond in a polite, very adult way. Thank whomever called you ugly, and tell him that he is very kind. Then walk away. It drives people crazy when they can't get a response out of you.

Tips:
*.Boys only call girls ugly when they can't think of anything else to say. If youreally want to hurt somebody, you would most likely dredge up something personal about them. Ugly isn't a personalinsult at all, it's just a general expression of anger. Realize that if a guy calls you ugly, you probably aren't ugly at all, he's just desperate to hurt you in any way he can, but is too stupid to figure out how to actually insult you."Ugly" is one of the most vague and powerless insults that there is. Don't let it hurt you any more than you would be hurt if someone called you"stinky pants."

*.If the guy recently found out from someone that you have a crush on them and they start calling you ugly or getting ticked off atyou, remember they are usually immature and theyare most likely on an ego trip. Just ignore them and brush it off, don't let them hurt you! Come on, if they really get all freaked out atyou for liking them, they need to grow up and they aren't worth it. Just find another guy who will like you for who you are!

*.Do your best to let it pass. You are a unique individual. Don't believe them if they say that.

*.Don't change anything about yourself just because he wants you to, or is implying that you should. Only change for yourself.

*.Unfortunately, unpopular girls or misfits can actually be pretty but guysin the In Crowd wouldn't want to damage their rep, so they call you ugly behind your back to act cool. See if they secretly eye flirt with you or sneak cute smiles at you. They probably don't think you'reugly at all!

*.To feel beautiful each day, try looking in the mirror every morning and name off 10 things that make you beautiful physically and 10 things that make you beautiful on the inside. This will make you feel good, look good, and get confidence to brim past the person calling you ugly.

*.Remember some guys will call you ugly or say you dress weird or something like that because they already have a girlfriend. Obviously they don't want a breakup and they don't want their girlfriend to think they actually like you! This isn't always true though, so be careful! If he's not interested, don't put too much into it, just laugh it off! There's other guys out there that will likeyou.

*.If a guy is calling you ugly, it could be true that he's just being mean... but maybe helikes you!

Warnings * Sadly, tomboys will
hear this a lot. But if you, as a tomboy, like your t-shirts and cutoffs, don't let the guy's comments bother you. To let the comments bother you is just giving him undeserved power.

Re: How To Take Action If A Guy Calls You Ugly by Nobody: 2:53pm On May 14, 2015
cry
Op, what about guys? Girls call me ugly na cry
Re: How To Take Action If A Guy Calls You Ugly by Nobody: 2:54pm On May 14, 2015
nsi azu grin is it only me that knows the meaning of this
Re: How To Take Action If A Guy Calls You Ugly by nwafuluozoh: 2:55pm On May 14, 2015
Sometimes a guy calls a girl ugly to bring her back to reality.
So if a guy calls you ugly,my sister,do a reality check.
Re: How To Take Action If A Guy Calls You Ugly by Nobody: 2:56pm On May 14, 2015
undecided

Re: How To Take Action If A Guy Calls You Ugly by nsiazu: 3:00pm On May 14, 2015
Teempakguy:
cry
Op, what about guys? Girls call me ugly na cry
If she calls you ugly then it means you re cute and she likes you inside but don't wanna admit it.
Re: How To Take Action If A Guy Calls You Ugly by nsiazu: 3:00pm On May 14, 2015
vichks:
nsi azu grin is it only me that knows the meaning of this
Really!
Re: How To Take Action If A Guy Calls You Ugly by Emmyginger(m): 3:37pm On May 14, 2015
nsiazu ur name is ugly
Re: How To Take Action If A Guy Calls You Ugly by nsiazu: 3:40pm On May 14, 2015
Emmyginger:
nsiazu ur name is ugly
Hahahaha!!! How is Nsiazu ugly? wink
Re: How To Take Action If A Guy Calls You Ugly by Nobody: 3:49pm On May 14, 2015
Fish Sh|t grin
Re: How To Take Action If A Guy Calls You Ugly by Nobody: 4:41pm On May 14, 2015
Re: How To Take Action If A Guy Calls You Ugly by Emmyginger(m): 7:08pm On May 14, 2015
nsiazu:
Hahahaha!!! How is Nsiazu ugly? wink
d meaning of ur name

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