babe, that is one helluva a decision to make -believe me i know how it feels been there---------------------keeping it to ya self your mum may be rill sad when she finds out------at the same time tellin her may results to some things don't know what to say the thing is entirely in your hands

p.s u could tell your dad tho and tell him how u feel---------thats if you're close to your dad

The best thing is if his mother is still alive go and report him to his mother.

What if his MOM is one of those MOMS that dsnt fROWN @ such things!

mamaput:

The best thing is if his mother is still alive go and report him to his mother.

wat if he is someone that his mothers request have no effect on him----------------- there sure are pips like that.

Hi poster, this is a really sad one.
I'ld advice u talk to someone elderly in ur family whom your dad really respects and obeys or a priest or something
I dont think telling ur mum is the best option right now since u have talked to ur dad previously and nothing has changed.
Also the nigerian society doesnt favour this kind of situation, ur mum might just be hurt and helpless.
Also pray seriously about it, and all the best



and stop spying ur dad's mails

Hun, my dad was doing the same thing. The same exact thing.
I am in the same exact situation as you. So i know. And i was a very
young girl at the time and i saw the messages. I found out my dad
was going out with women twice, once when i was a toddler, and the
second time i was a teen. I saw these messages and I went and told my
mom. If your dad did that I would not support him. Was your dad a nice
person? If he was, then its a different case, but right now (since my dad
was mean) I had to tell my mom. Sometimes you have to tell the truth
even if it hurts. I did it because I couldn't take it any longer. I couldn't see
what he was saying. You have to tell her. And who knows, maybe your dad
won't be angry. My dad was very angry. But as I was saying, you just have to bite
the bullet and do it. I hope you use this. You have to find the evidence
and do it. Bite the bullet hun, and maybe you can become a hero too.
I've gone through the same thing, and I know.

hmm, I had a similar experience as a kid and I told my mum.
You know what?
My dad convinced her I was lying and she ended up being really mad at me.
At the end of the day I could not stand up to my dad.
Needless to say i got some real harsh treatment after that.

Easy thing, when I discovered my oldman had another woman, I just blackmailed the old man for money, beer, groundnuts and boli( roasted plantain). Like all men, I hv a price

Pray fervently for God's intervention nd discuss it with your Pastor if and only if he is trust worthy

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