My dad's sis once told me that the moment you start collecting stuffs from a guy , you are indirectly in debt to him because you will have to pay back one way or the other and guys don't usually do things for free they always expect something back.

This happened after she beat the hell out of me for collecting something from a guy (cnt remember the particular thing) .Since then.............you know the rest.

I will forever b greatful to her sha.