Cutest001:

You know long courtship is not allowed in redeemed?
if you drag things for too long you will end up being the bad brother

That's the truth and my fear

I'm sure you don't know the meaning of childlike. It's different from childish. When a person is childlike, (s)he does things children do that are commendable. For example smiling, friendly, etc. On the other hand, childish shows an attitude common with children that is not commendable. For example, crying and being carefree.

Abejimico:
Good day to you all. Please I need a swift and matured response/advice on this issue.

I met this lady January 2015 with the intention of settling down soonest. We started marriage counselling February according to RCCG policy.

Three months later, I come to detest some of her attitude and lazy tendency. These has being given me lots of concern overtime. After series of moral corrections, she tends to change and after a while she goes back to her old self.

I don't want to marry out of pity cos she is a sister to my pastor.

We often disagree on future terms cos she the 'I too know' type.

We were to travel to her parents place this weekend but am just at cross road on what to do , whether to ho or postpone till when am very convinced on my intent.

Your advice is urgently needed.

to be honest, no lady iz 100% perfect but am sure that if you take the right step, you cud mould her to ur taste

Moana:
blackett is a native doctor

lol.....u gat me lmao

godoluwa:
to be honest, no lady iz 100% perfect but am sure that if you take the right step, you cud mould her to ur taste

Thanks. She called me today after a week begging as usual.

Thank you all for your candid advice, i have to cancel our journey to see her parent today and reschedule till I see convincing changes in her, then we I will decide.

mavany:
Op u mean, you knew her for two years before proposing, yet you just found out that she is lazy and incorrigible#hehe u funny, u didn't date her properly and you went ahead to propose#religious men causing wahala for themselves since 1600

lol ..... If he had dated her without placing marriage in front he would have noticed all these behaviours in the first 2 months...

Church matter very hard

Cutest001:

lol ..... If he had dated her without placing marriage in front he would have noticed all these behaviours in the first 2 months...

Church matter very hard

I tried doing away with the marriage counselling immediately we started, but mypastor (her brother) wouldn't take it. She might be suspended cos of her involvement in the church activities.