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10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by tosyne2much(m): 6:07pm On Jun 10, 2016
Whether you agree with me or not, social media is one of the places you can truly get to have a foresight of the kind of person you're dealing with. However, the attitudes displayed by most ladies online is a reflection of the kind of person they really are out there, so don't let the mentally ill pukes blindfold you that some people don't live their real lives online

Without wasting time, I shall discuss the attitudes displayed by ladies on social media that robs them of husbands in real life

1. Gold-digging Attitude

Some ladies are fond of putting up all sorts of gold digging status online just to showcase their class. To be very candid, no matter how rich a dude is, it's very discouraging to see a lady putting up status that reeks of gold-digging. This is a big turn off because such a dude will feel the lady is nothing but a money monger. This remind me when I saw a revelation that I should woo a lady on BBM, to my surprise she quickly put up the status "I'm allergic to broke dudes". The man of God just shook his head and the rest is history

2. Being too Rude/Hostile

Many ladies are not accommodating and are usually very rude, pompous and narcissistic online. They talk rudely, dish out insults at any slight provocation and also treat both guys with good intentions and bad intentions like Dangote bag of cement. Out of ignorance, many of them don't know that such an awkward attitude may deny them husbands.

3. Stereotyping Online Dudes as Players

A dude might stumble on a lady's comment and finds it very thoughtful and brilliant and the dude decides to send a mail just to know more of her. The lady sees the mail and jumps into conclusion that all he wants is sex. This myopic way of reasoning that every dude that sends friend request or mail only wants sex has been immensely contributing to their lost of potential chairmen.

4. Being Too Impatient

Impatience often makes ladies send their future husbands away just because they couldn't answer the question "where did you get my phone number or PIN?". Last year, I added a lady on BBM and guess what? She was the first to PING me with the message "tell me where you got my PIN otherwise I will delete you right away". Can you just imagine?

5. Incessantly Demanding for Recharge Card

This is a barbaric act that portrays a lady classless and shameless. A dude met a lady barely a week and she's already demanding recharge card and data subscription to enable her chat with him. In fact, the one that annoys me most is seeing status update such as ""my data bundle is about to finish, who cares to renew it?" Many ladies don't see anything bad in this act unknown to them that it depletes their chances of finding husband

6. Displaying Slut-ish Attitude

Before a dude decides to add a lady on social media, the first he will do is check her pictures to have a foresight of the kind of person he wants to add, and by the time he sees all sorts of boobs and buttocks revealing pictures, he concludes she's irresponsible and nothing but a chop and clean mouth material.

7. Changing Relationship Status like Disco Light

Another thing that discourages potential chairmen from wooing a lady is frequent changing of relationship status. If a lady often changes her relationship status from single to engaged, engaged to married and vice versa, this will put potential the chairmen into a state of confusion, therefore, some of them will lose interest in that process and they will feel she's chameleon-like in nature

8. Displaying a Degree of Dumbness

Just as my friend always say, If they want to date a lady, they will like to have her facebook ID and check the content of what she posts online and by the time they see updates that reeks of dumbness and illiteracy, they will just jejely wear their boxers and withdraw themselves.

9. Making Unrealistic Qualities in a Man

Honestly speaking, some ladies usually found on social media looking for 1,000 qualities in just a man. He must be rich, handsome, light skinned, funny, brilliant, six packed; must have elaborate joystick and should be God fearing. Haba !!! All these qualities in just a man? Even Jesus Christ does cannot have all these qualities.

10. Uploading Pictures of Various Dude as each day passes

No be say these guys dey go birthday or something. They are always putting up their pictures and start heaping praises on them for financially help. This act is a big turn off for dudes cos I will feel she's promiscuous in nature


I drop my pen at this point

Feel free to add yours

Original Writer: Tosyne2much

Source: http://tosyne2much.blogspot.com/2016/06/10-attitudes-ladies-display-online-that.html

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by TheBestChamp(m): 6:08pm On Jun 10, 2016
Make i go read am b4 i comment

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by wristbangle(m): 6:08pm On Jun 10, 2016
Excellent writeup OP.

Our ladies will still turn deaf ear to OP's article saying he wrote thrash because he just unveiled their useless attitudes online. The ones that annoys me most are the ones u will tell that "Oh you are beautiful" and their response will be like "K",! Haba. Very annoying response.

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by sinaj(f): 6:08pm On Jun 10, 2016
Nice one dude

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by Brymo: 6:09pm On Jun 10, 2016
Show class, have pride, and display character. If you do, winning takes care of itself.
Paul Bryant

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by Layooluwa(f): 6:09pm On Jun 10, 2016
*piks up stool, sits nd sips zobo* lemme wait for all dis endtime spacebookers to modify

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by vizkiz: 6:10pm On Jun 10, 2016
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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by tosyne2much(m): 6:10pm On Jun 10, 2016
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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by vicstar(m): 6:10pm On Jun 10, 2016
chai! See wicket people cry una just dey bookspace anyhow gringrin


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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by GreenWhiteGreen(m): 6:10pm On Jun 10, 2016
I will not advice my sister to strike any serious relationship with a Nigerian man she met online until they see eye to eye. Most naija men are unfaithful. lipsrsealed Save yourself the headache. sad

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by politricks: 6:14pm On Jun 10, 2016
10 this 10 that Even your profile is full of 10. Something tells me you were even there when God wrote the 10 commandments.

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by steppin: 6:15pm On Jun 10, 2016
Completely true.
Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by ritababe(f): 6:16pm On Jun 10, 2016
funny but true

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by TheBestChamp(m): 6:16pm On Jun 10, 2016
Different pics, different cars like they are mechanics

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by iceberylin(m): 6:18pm On Jun 10, 2016
IGNORING P.M
Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by RoyalBlak007: 6:19pm On Jun 10, 2016
Displaying boobies pic like say dem be celeb..

yet she'll claim she a christian undecided ....Pics her mom has never seen undecided

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by theEYe21: 6:19pm On Jun 10, 2016
Even with all those attitude, they still get husband if they want to grin it's a crazy world grin

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by MUVAH(m): 6:20pm On Jun 10, 2016
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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by Rexhenrex(m): 6:22pm On Jun 10, 2016
[b][i]about number 2 my mum was telling us a story how her sis(aunty oge) got married to her millionaire husband..

the guy who was in final year then approached oge's friend who he very much loved she was very pretty and was the talk of campus.

he loved her but this girl hated him because he didn't have a car,one day he complimented this oge's friend look,and she gave him a slap instanta and told him he was a lowlife. oge walked to the guy and begged on her behalf and walked him home funny enough after this act of oge's friend the innocent guy still apologised and this girl gave him the disgrace of his life by telling him she can feed him for the next 13years of his life without evening the impact financially. the guy cried bitterly begging this girl lai lai she no gree rather she worsen the torment.oge felt pity on him and apologised as usual and walked him home again and they gisted and she made him forget wat happened. Then they exchanged contacts and became friends he gradj and they were still in contact 2years later he got a job and was transferred to China to head the company branch and after a year he came back for oge they are now blessed with 2kids whereas oge's friend is still single and has a little provision store in lag.


No matter how beautiful u are without manners you are worthless because beauty alone can never keep a man.if beauty is only what you hold on to then u need help no man wants to marry a time bomb and also remember the most little act o kindness you show today might be wat will make u great tmao....[i/][/b]

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jun 10, 2016
Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by okuneddie(m): 6:26pm On Jun 10, 2016
Tosyne2much I'm sure they frustrate u with number 3 especially here on NL.




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wow so now I'm also guilty of what I accuse NLders of. This is a mistake though but pls NLders stop replying posts with stuffs like number 2,9 and 4. U make we that are only here to read comments scrolling back up to check what's on number 2,9 and 4. Now imagine like ten people doing it and we running back up to check what it is....abeg biko stop.

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by Cutehector(m): 6:27pm On Jun 10, 2016
Running away from cutehector.
Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by Sexytemi(f): 6:28pm On Jun 10, 2016
i couldn't have agreed more with d o.p, he's so right with the points, as a lady it irrates me when i see my fellow girl behaving in that manner....like seriously u are allergic to broke guys but living in a room face me i slap u with your whole family, that's madness....y u no tell your papa to hustle move una comot for there o...mtcheww....

I always tell my gfs, learn to be independent, never depend on a guy, even if i don't like a guy, i let him go instead of "chopping" his money.

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by Kondomatic(m): 6:31pm On Jun 10, 2016
TheBestChamp:
Make i go read am b4 i comment
OP.


Some people have dual personalities, one for online activities and the other for offline activities so I don't get you at all

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by avril9(f): 6:32pm On Jun 10, 2016
tosyne2much:
I totally agree wit ur points,d recharge card issue is somtin else,women don't understand dat somtimes u hv to hold ur own(do tinz urself n stop depending on a man 4 as little as a r.card) it brings respect from a man who knows a tru womans worth,but somtimes life is funny u avoid all dis n still get dumped\heartbroken.anyway to each his own

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by Nobody: 6:32pm On Jun 10, 2016
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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by Feranchek(m): 6:43pm On Jun 10, 2016
Hmmm
Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by Laveda(f): 6:46pm On Jun 10, 2016
last last they'll still get married.. tongue

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Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by Oluwaseun50(m): 7:10pm On Jun 10, 2016
Re: 10 Attitudes Ladies Display Online That Deny Them Husbands In Real Life by youngtroll: 7:14pm On Jun 10, 2016
angry 11. When you don't show us boobs how will u get husband angry

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