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Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 2:39pm On May 28, 2015 |
What would you do if your teenage daughter, kid sister, cousin, niece is impregnated through no fault of hers, by a rapist? Would you advise the kid to go for an abortion or to keep the baby? This is a dilemma from an anonymous Nairalander from Port-Harcourt, found herself when her 14 year old daughter was raped and in the process, got pregnant. The single mother has been at her wit’s end on what to do, even blaming herself for her daughter’s predicament. While many of her friends want her to take her daughter to a doctor for an abortion, others, like her pastor are advising her to keep the baby as abortion is a sin in the sight of God. We are trowing the poser open to Nairalanders today with the question: Do you support abortion if the father is a rapist? Cc. lalasticlala ishilove |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by indiraserv: 2:42pm On May 28, 2015 |
Giving up for adoption maybe more humane |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 2:42pm On May 28, 2015 |
Yea. . . How will you feel when you are being called "child of a rapist?" 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Mhizkel(f): 2:44pm On May 28, 2015 |
It's not the baby's fault that his/her father happened to be a rapist..The baby deserves the normal care and attention given to all other babies... 1 Like |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Twaci(f): 2:45pm On May 28, 2015 |
The child shuld not be punished and/or judged by the actions of its father....no matter who is involved. Its a divine gift, let her keep and cherish the child for no one knows what blessings it might bring to its mother. Quick question, if Dangote's son was the rapist, would we be asking the same question? 1 Like |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 2:45pm On May 28, 2015 |
indiraserv:I like your point of view sir, but that still won't change the fact that she is the mother of a fatherless child, thereby demeaning her reputation. |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 2:48pm On May 28, 2015 |
Light my weed* Make I check who dey knock for my door |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 2:49pm On May 28, 2015 |
Twaci:Even if the child happens to be successful more than bill gates, the fact will still remain that he was fathered by a rapist. 1 Like |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 2:50pm On May 28, 2015 |
Mhizkel:It won't be an easy decision for the mum and raped girl. |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 2:51pm On May 28, 2015 |
Orijin101:Very hurtful and demeaning, whereas the mother isn't likely to love such child. |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by indiraserv: 2:52pm On May 28, 2015 |
There are ways of doing this things,hide her away from the point the pregnancy starts to show till she puts to bed ,get adoptive parents ready to receive as soon as she puts to bed Give her a few weeks to heal and she'll return like nothing happened Borrussia: |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Mhizkel(f): 2:52pm On May 28, 2015 |
Borrussia:It's better than killing the baby! |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Rosemary216(f): 2:53pm On May 28, 2015 |
Abeg keep d baby 1st; wen u deliver it u bring d child to me, i wil take full responsiblity and raise d child!!! Who even brought d idea of abortion I need to shove a carrot down dat person's throat!! U mean rapists aren't humans or wat? Abeg ppl shud grow up!!! Is it only a rapist dat has committed sin Y shud it b a rapist child dat shud b aborted Abeg we mustnt stigmatize ppl.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Mynd44: 2:54pm On May 28, 2015 |
Did the OP mention God? Why did God not protect her from being raped in the first place? Abeg Na this kin argument dey vex person 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 2:54pm On May 28, 2015 |
indiraserv:As a parent, will you be happy if someone else is taking care of your child for you? 1 Like |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Phikom(m): 2:55pm On May 28, 2015 |
hmmm...dis one is strong ooo...anyway I won't anyway be a party to d league of abortion...though d child tends to live wit d scar and derogatory stigma throughout his/her lifetime...but they are meant to be treated nurtured and taken care of... |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by tupem: 2:57pm On May 28, 2015 |
HeartRobber:you know wetin be weed?! Tata coming to form whatnot here! |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Twaci(f): 2:57pm On May 28, 2015 |
Borrussia:Is Rapist another name for Alien? As far as I am concerned, the child remains a human and should be treated as such. Fair and square. Rapist father or not! *drinks water* |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 2:57pm On May 28, 2015 |
Mynd44: Are you angry with God? |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 2:58pm On May 28, 2015 |
Mhizkel:Well I still don't think aborting a baby is a bad idea, the mum may hate the child once gives birth to him, and that's when he'll likely suffer and wish he was breed at all. |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by indiraserv: 3:00pm On May 28, 2015 |
Its not forever,just for the pregnancy period We are talking about being humane There is of course the easy way out As a rule am not judgemental! Borrussia: |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by ITbomb(m): 3:00pm On May 28, 2015 |
Abortion is permissible here. The memory of the bad experience will forever haunt the poor girl if she goes ahead to keep the pregnancy, not even giving it away for adoption will erase the hurt. *sideways* the foetus has no soul, dispose of the unwanted before it becomes human 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 3:02pm On May 28, 2015 |
tupem: Is that a question? Well I don't think so. Make I go sell my banana |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 3:02pm On May 28, 2015 |
Borrussia:I've seen a situation like that before, real life not movie. . . The mother never wants to see the boy at all, instead of showing the poor boy love, hatred is all the boy is getting from her which is now making the boy a kinda sullen and you know what that can lead to. . . 1 Like |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by TheSonOfMark(m): 3:02pm On May 28, 2015 |
Twaci: A poser about allowing the progeny of a rapist to be terminated was posted and the analogy you could come up with was about DANGOTE'S SON? Does being rich justify or dignify raping ? When you females are attacked for your vanity-chasing, overly-materialistic and exploitative tendencies you play the victims yet you give more reasons to be attacked. "...WHAT IF HE'S DANGOTE'S SON?...". Seriously? 4 Likes |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 3:02pm On May 28, 2015 |
Mynd44:Anybody can be a victim of circumstances, be it good or bad. That doesn't mean there is no God. Remember everything happens for a reason, life evolves. |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by tupem: 3:03pm On May 28, 2015 |
HeartRobber: |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 3:06pm On May 28, 2015 |
Twaci:If not in Naija, i can still agree with that fact of urs. . . In naija, events dies but the history lives! |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Twaci(f): 3:06pm On May 28, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark:Mark Junior I was asking a rhetorical question . My point is; Rapist or not, Dangote's child or not....the unborn child should be treated same. Like a human. But then, I'm not forcing u to understand and/or agree with my opinion. |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Nobody: 3:08pm On May 28, 2015 |
TheSonOfMark:As if that makes him less of a human |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Twaci(f): 3:09pm On May 28, 2015 |
Orijin101:It happens everywhere joor! |
Re: Opinions! Do You Agree It Is Better To Abort A Baby Fathered By A Rapist? by Captainswag225(m): 3:09pm On May 28, 2015 |
Borrussia:yeah i do. Eg for a married women to carry a rapist child to term can break her marriage, not forgetting the emotional stress and other issues. Abortion should be allowed but if the person can carry the child to term and then give out to lets say the foster home, thats also good. In this situation, i think the child should carry the baby to term and then give him or her out for adoption. |
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