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Re: Is Wife Beating Genetic? by snakebeat: 7:33pm On May 29, 2015 |
bamidele029:A soldier!!!! . Hmmmmmmm If engaging a soldier in a fight makes one a man, I think it's better to be a weak man. What do u think? |
Re: Is Wife Beating Genetic? by april2015: 7:37pm On May 29, 2015 |
raumdeuter:I wish I had the strength to have attacked him cause then it won't be beating but a fight and he would have been in a sorry state |
Re: Is Wife Beating Genetic? by 5minsmadness: 7:40pm On May 29, 2015 |
bukatyne: A difference of opinion always is. |
Re: Is Wife Beating Genetic? by bukatyne(f): 7:41pm On May 29, 2015 |
5minsmadness: Excuse me? |
Re: Is Wife Beating Genetic? by cococandy(f): 7:50pm On May 29, 2015 |
mizcyn: april2015: Wetin be all this one na? Pls pls you ladies need to stop this. 2 Likes |
Re: Is Wife Beating Genetic? by armyofone(m): 8:11pm On May 29, 2015 |
There should be no excuse to beat your spouse. Verbal argument should not be a reason. Argue it out or leave till tension cool off. Beating your spouse has a lasting effects on your own children. It tells them you are mean, bad and wicked. You want your child to grow in a loving environment not an environment where they see mom crying and sad from dad's big hand. No matter how much I love you, you dare your hands on me, I will be calling the cops and we go from there. I will make you aware during courtship. Stoning you with phone break that cycle. Working on making marriage work is two ways. Hitting her doesn't solve the problem. mcdokwe: 2 Likes |
Re: Is Wife Beating Genetic? by mcdokwe(m): 9:20pm On May 29, 2015 |
armyofone:ok, maybe people should go ahead deliberately creating unnecessary tension in their homes. Ok I hear. 1 Like |
Re: Is Wife Beating Genetic? by RiffRaff: 12:22am On May 30, 2015 |
U married the wrong man.. Cut your lose now and move on with your life. There is nothing wrong with being a female, There are plenty other people out there that married husbands who will never lift a finger against them no matter how angry he gets. Was he like this when you were courting? If you are used to the beating then, why not now? Hoping an abusive person will change is like hopin a leopard will change its spot. We all get angry, i am sure you do too. Do you beat up your husband when you are mad at him? I dont know how much of this beating you can take but just try hard not to end up like that woman i read about in the punch newspaper, the banker that got stabbed by her husband 88 times. It must have started with a slap every now and then, it graduated into beating then knife till she was murdered. She never thought it will happen to her but it did. She was educated, employed and could have moved on with her life. I guess she must have been thinking: he will change.. Or what will people say that i am divorced. All i am saying is Animals dont change. They will beg, promise and cajole u to stay. I wish you can talk to a wide variety of women that have had the misfortune of marrying an abusive husband. The more children you have, the harder it gets for you to breakfree. Your hubby might be counting on that. I really wish you goodluck.. Just please dont bring up a child in that kind of environment. Dont create another human with the orientation that hitting a woman is cool or marrying a violent man is okay. +Off Topic+ **Religion and substandard education is a real problem in Nigeria. Even the females who are empowered and employed enough to be independent cannot breakfree cuz of stigmatization of being a divorcee. Naija guys get advantage alot. The females will do anything to stay married. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is Wife Beating Genetic? by Nobody: 12:57am On May 30, 2015 |
So sorry for what you are going through @april2015. But I am thinking, how will you manage through 9 months of pregnancy with beatings? Please think about your baby's life too. |
Re: Is Wife Beating Genetic? by ireneidiva(f): 2:29am On May 30, 2015 |
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