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9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by MEGGATRON(m): 7:21am On Jun 02, 2015
9. She’s intelligent


When you meet a witty girl, it’s hard not to recognize
how smart she is behind her big smile. When a
woman has the ability to make you laugh
consistently, it’s not by accident, trust me – it’s
deliberate – and I’m sure she’s well aware of the
power she has, at times, over you.
She knows how to critique things without being
offensive; she understands the right and wrong times
to make light of situations, and you could never
confuse her sense of humor for impoliteness.
She forces you to think, and the ability to provoke
thought – even through humor – proves that she’s
aware of things, and not just another close-minded
product of our generation. It’s almost impossible to
grow bored of a girl who forces you to think.



8. She doesn’t need designer heels to be attractive

There are some girls who live and die by their
physical appearance. While, sure, you might throw
them eyes from across the room – often, when you
finally find the balls to approach to them – you
realize they were more desirable to look at than to
speak to.
It’s almost impossible to invest any long-term
emotion into women like that, especially when
considering the delicacy of our physical
appearances.
Regardless of what they’re wearing, or what filter
they choose to drown out their Instagram photos,
women with senses of humor always will capture
your attention – whenever they feel like it.


7. She’s real

Nowadays, so many women are obsessed with
pushing this false impression of who they are. They
do things for “the Gram,” and forget that “the Gram”
isn’t real f*cking life – it’s a social media platform –
and regardless of how many “likes” they receive on
there, they rarely translate into real-world adoration.
That sh*t is fake. Do you really think 100+ people
especially “like” the fact that someone else is lying
poolside at the Fontainebleu? The way I see it, if that’s
the only way a girl can feel appreciated, she needs to
throw her iPhone in the deep end – and do some
thinking.
Funny women are genuine and other genuine people
will always recognize that. This is why witty girls will
always have tons of friends, yes, real… human…
friends. People who show their affection, not by
double tapping their phone screen, but by choosing
to spend their time with them.


6. She’s confident

There really aren’t too many shy comedians, are
there? At least not too many successful ones, at any
rate. Anyone who’s ever tried telling a joke at a
dinner party has probably felt a glimmer of pressure,
before having a go at it. But, that’s the nature of the
business.
A good sense of humor shows courage in social
situations – and confidence in oneself. Funny women
typically know they’re funny, and their ability to use
that as a tool of attraction has always been sexy, in
my mind.
Many men are intimidated by funny women, instead
electing to date chicks who simply laugh at their own
jokes – and don’t step on their comedic toes. That’s
isn’t any fault of the woman who can make people
laugh, it just shows how unconfident a lot of dudes
are.


5. She will take control of the conversation

Sometimes, as a guy, you’ll want the woman to take
the wheel and steer your conversational vehicles, so
to speak. Girls who are funny are usually able to
dictate conversational directions, by adding sarcasm
or touches of light-heartedness to given scenarios.
When she makes a little wisecrack, you’ll recognize it,
and respond back with something of your own.
When she laughs at something, you’ll probably feel
the impulse to do the same.
Funny girls will take a lot of pressure off you
because things don’t always have to be so serious.
Maybe she’s fine without that wakeup text every
morning, at 7:45 on the dot, as long as you can
share a laugh or two by lunchtime.


4. She’ll make you work

When a woman flexes her sense of humor,
naturally, it will compel you to do the same. If she
says something witty, you’re not going to want to
be outdone, in the sincerest of fashions.
Finding a funny girl, if you consider yourself to be a
funny guy, is honestly a beautiful thing. As she
makes you laugh, you’ll catch yourself trying to
“one up” her. Yet, to accomplish this, you’re really
only trying to make her laugh – and laugh with
more vigor than you did, yourself.
It drives you to think before you speak and actually
devote some attention to detail into the words you
say (or type, over text). She will make you work
harder – and you’ll appreciate that down the road.


3. Wordplay leads to pre-intimacy

If you start out hanging out with a girl who’s funny,
free of any real expectations or plans for the next
phase of things – just give it some time. Chemistry
starts on a conversational level, first, and then
leads to the bedroom.
Women who can make you laugh will instantly
grab a leg up from a social standpoint, as you’ll
likely want to spend your time around someone
from whom you can derive some aspect of
pleasure.
I’ve always found wordplay to be sexy, which I
suppose is fitting considering I work with words for
eight hours each day. When a girl can two-step
with me from a verbal standpoint, it just leads my
mind to thoughts of other ways we would be
compatible, as well.


2. She’ll tear your guard down

Funny women will allow you to be yourself
because, well, they’re probably just being
themselves too. That’s the best part about funny
people – they find humor in even the most
mundane things, which never necessitates too
much effort in return.
Most funny women won’t feel obligated to receive
any expensive gifts – and they’ve probably already
learned that nothing material, whatsoever, is
required for happiness
You’ll never have to be someone else, other than
yourself, to elicit a smile from her – and that
provides a peace of mind that cannot be
duplicated through any other character trait. As
long as you’re present in your relationship with
her, I guarantee that she’ll be able to find
something to smile about.


1. Grudges don’t ever end up lasting too long

You could literally be fuming with your girl – but, if
she’s funny – it will never last long. It’s the best
when she knows how mad you are, too, and still
finds a way to make you smile. The ability to do this
will constantly keep you in check, from a bigger
picture standpoint.
Most of the time, arguments are about petty
bullsh*t, things that you’ll probably forget in a few
week’s time – yet can linger for months. Sometimes
you just need a girl who can make you laugh, and
shake it off (cue Taylor Swift voice) before it
evolves into something entirely avoidable.
It’s hard to stay mad at a girl, when you know deep
down that you’d rather be in bed laughing with her.
When you find a girl like this, hold on to her,
because not only will she make a great girlfriend –
but she’ll also be your best friend, too.

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Cc lalasticlala,kramfonos,missclassy1

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Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Cutehector(m): 7:25am On Jun 02, 2015
Nice. Buh respect has to come into the equation
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Niwdog(m): 7:35am On Jun 02, 2015
My girl does all these things.
So op, it means say i have find my missing rib
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by tosyne2much(m): 7:37am On Jun 02, 2015
Wonderful write-up bro
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by MEGGATRON(m): 7:45am On Jun 02, 2015
tosyne2much:
Op, I hail ur ministry oooo cool


hope you have choosen a successor?
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 7:46am On Jun 02, 2015
tosyne2much:
Op, I hail ur ministry oooo cool
this is just a branch of oga tosyne2much's ministry; like if you agree, share if you don't...op nice work

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Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by MEGGATRON(m): 7:47am On Jun 02, 2015
Niwdog:
My girl does all these things.
So op, it means say i have find my missing rib


your ribs no complete before? Guy you better go do surgery. Seat down there dey find woman to complete your ribs.

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Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 7:49am On Jun 02, 2015
you shouldn't have tagged missclasssy1 , something is wrong with her sense of humour, haven't seen her laugh, grin or even smile.
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Twaci(f): 7:53am On Jun 02, 2015
Nice one OP smiley.

If I make u laugh say "I" cheesy.

shocked shocked No one?!

angry angry
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 7:56am On Jun 02, 2015
cupid1:
this is just a branch of oga tosyne2much's ministry; like if you agree, share if you don't...op nice work
less than 75 views and you got 75 shares?..... hmm

long post dis early morning....can someone summerice it for me i'm hungry
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by IceSplash(f): 7:57am On Jun 02, 2015
Nice
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 7:59am On Jun 02, 2015
MEGGATRON:



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bros abeg teach me wetin you do my post to get all those shares nah...abeg, my knee dey for ground
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Jayjay0(m): 7:59am On Jun 02, 2015
Wetin be time abeg
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by MEGGATRON(m): 8:00am On Jun 02, 2015
NinoBrown888:
you shouldn't have tagged missclasssy1 , something is wrong with her sense of humour, haven't seen her laugh, grin or even smile.




she posses these traits.
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 8:01am On Jun 02, 2015
Nice one.......
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by faith551(m): 8:02am On Jun 02, 2015
What planet do I find that kinda girl, I sure know they are not in Nigeria for a start
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 8:02am On Jun 02, 2015
NinoBrown888:
you shouldn't have tagged missclasssy1 , something is wrong with her sense of humour, haven't seen her laugh, grin or even smile.



Have you seen me before?
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by faith551(m): 8:04am On Jun 02, 2015
missclassy1:

Have you seen me before?
Wow!!!! She's back? Welcome back girl
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by MEGGATRON(m): 8:04am On Jun 02, 2015
faith551:
What planet do I find that kinda girl, I sure know they are not in Nigeria for a start


that means you have never being to victoria island lagos.
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 8:05am On Jun 02, 2015
faith551:

Wow!!!! She's back? Welcome back girl
cool wink
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by faith551(m): 8:07am On Jun 02, 2015
MEGGATRON:


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Is that where all of them are at
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 8:07am On Jun 02, 2015
@OP ure making me want to cry, "men!!! i just remembered my ex girlfriend.
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by MEGGATRON(m): 8:08am On Jun 02, 2015
faith551:


Is that where all of them are at


that's where you can find them for now!............
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by faith551(m): 8:09am On Jun 02, 2015
missclassy1:

cool wink
A wink? Just a wink? C'mon won't I get a thank you, u're welcome or hug or something
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by MEGGATRON(m): 8:10am On Jun 02, 2015
sweetorgasm:
@OP ure making me want to cry, "men!!! i just remembered my ex girlfriend.


find her!!! Go back to her!!!

She made you a better man, your days of vaseline is over!!!
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 8:11am On Jun 02, 2015
faith551:

A wink? Just a wink? C'mon won't I get a thank you, u're welcome or hug or something
Thank you.
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by faith551(m): 8:11am On Jun 02, 2015
MEGGATRON:


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OK then, thanks for the info
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by faith551(m): 8:12am On Jun 02, 2015
missclassy1:

Thank you.
Lol, dnt mind me. Nice to have u back.
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 8:13am On Jun 02, 2015
MEGGATRON:



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lol i know where she is bt i cant reach her, "she went 4 college abroad.
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 8:24am On Jun 02, 2015
MEGGATRON:


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go ahead n lick her behind !
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by GeneralQuamdeen: 8:27am On Jun 02, 2015
Nice point, i can't date any person with no sense of humour.
Re: 9 Reasons Why You Should Date The Girl Who Makes You Laugh by Nobody: 8:27am On Jun 02, 2015
missclassy1:

Have you seen me before?

been observing you.

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