It has become a deafening lamentation of sorts from
the menfolk, on the rising infidelity amongst ‘married
women’. Some men even claimed that the women
have toppled their male counterparts in the game of
‘cheating’.

I have been studying the issue for some time and
what I detect as the root cause of rising infidelity
amongst the married women in this society is
‘suppressed emotions’. Our men have carried their ‘it
is a man’s world’ mentality too far. It has become an
implied ‘you had be playing with fire’ (in this
environment) not tolerate a man’s ‘marital excesses’
as a woman.

Women have been made to endure all sorts in the
name of ‘staying married’ or risk being judged by the
society and our men seem to be cashing in on this-as
evidenced by the gross infidelity, economic
irresponsibility, emotional and physical abuse (on
the part of the men), which pervade most marriages.
It’s almost like the women are tired of running from
pillar to post for ‘solutions’ ,especially when all a
woman seems to get wherever she looks for ‘solace’
is ‘You have no choice, try and manage’ The reality in
marriages of these days is not what a lot of women
bargained for and some of them (who are
determined not to end up at psychiatric homes-due
to emotional breakdown) have simply resorted to
coping with the situation whichever way they deem
fit.

It has simply occurred to a lot of women that
‘every woman can be admired’ (and it matters not
her age, marital status, shape or size)…
there will always be a man somewhere, whose
interest that a woman can ‘tick’. This is not in any
way justifying ‘infidelity’ (in any form) as I believe
(absolutely) that a woman that is under the roof of
a man has no business being entangled with
another man. If the setting you call a marriage
leaves you more miserable than happy, there is no
need to continue living a lie-if you must remain in
such a setting-only to be ‘peeping out’.

I believe in being true to myself Every man should
realize that a woman he makes to feel cherished is
the best thing that can happen to him. Such a
woman will always go the extra mile in her walk
with you. But a woman that you have scorned (via
your attitude) will also prove to you that the devil
does not live far. I believe that the rising infidelity
amongst the married female folk is a backlash of
their failed expectations from the men…the
hardest woman to seduce is one who is
emotionally fulfilled! TRUE OR FALSE? Give reasons

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~Inherent Promiscuous Character
~Sexual insatisfaction and Need for a better sex partner
~Lack of love and commitment to spouse
~For money
~Out of revenge
And a lot more.

The major reason is because the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence

......there's a reason to kick an old man down the stairs. just don't do it. ......there's a reason to slap a pregnant woman. just don't do it. ......there's always a reason to cheat. just don't do it.

that there's a reason, doesn't justify the act. if ur husband cheats on you,and you in turn cheat on him,you are both cheats.