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Re: Ladies Talk To Me by bukatyne(f): 12:56pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 12:59pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Zi: It's obvious from the contributions that cheating back with relieve some hurts and the thought of it may kill the man so maybe that is an option for nickibarb that wanted to commit suicide or anyone else. If it will make you feel better,you do it 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Acidosis(m): 1:03pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Women cheat more in relationships Men are better cheats in marriages. The society should deal with that fact A woman tends to SETTLE down after scrutinizing, cheating and flirting with guys in the neighborhood A guy spends all the money, time and emotional efforts to get a girl's 100% attention & commitment, but because of the numerous but dubious attention she gets from promiscuous dudes, she ignorantly increases her shakara. Upon settling down, all the attention drops drastically a large percentage of her male attention giving friends run, especially when one or two kids are out. We cant blame them after all shakara bosoms don transform like TAN, shape don change like APC. This is the stage the man becomes toosh and poosh for dem toothpick girls. If you want to enjoy your marriage, live a decent youthful life. If you chase a guy's money while dating, the probability that some other girls will run after your Hubby's d**k and money is high. Those who claimed to live a decent youthful life, yet suffered in marriage; should please check themselves. You were a virgin until marriage, you've never tasted alcohol and cigarette, your dad is a pastor/apostle, mom evangelist, YET you married a night hawking professional & heavy drinker/smoker and you say you dislike punches/cheating/insults? Truth is the punch that will throw you out of that marriage still dey do press up. Whatever you sow with your greed, blind emotions and warp thought processes, you will surely reap - Acidosis. 4 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by jadelyn007(f): 1:06pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Stillfire:yea, at least he is sincere with what he wants, no one can blame him for that. My issue is women whose husbands cheat yet they come here for advice, what kind of advice do u want? Your heart already tells u what to do yet u keep trying to play the morality card on yourself, cheating yourself. How many men have you seen come online to complain about cheating wives, they either throw her out or forgive her. When people don't set standards for themselves they'll take any shiiiitttt thrown at them. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies Talk To Me by KissesandWine(f): 1:12pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
So done with this topic.I feel like I've said all I can. To the men who've commented so far... the world is your oyster. Yours to rule. Cheat, you hear? Hump every rump that's under a skirt...even if it's a man. Your day of reckoning is just around the corner. I had two of you in my extended family and they both died of AIDS. Full blown blood-dripping-out-of-eyes AIDS. They made it easy for their wives... wives didn't even have to cheat to get revenge. Nature sort of took care of that. To the ladies... when the bible said, "Christians watch and pray," best believe that scripture was directed at us, female folk. Before you settle down, scar those knees praying. So you don't end up with the ilk of the ones above. Men who think that simply because they are men.. It's now their birthright to play God. Ok. Kontinu. To those already in such a marriage, I commiserate with you. Take my unsolicited advise and leave before it's too late. Judging by some of the responses on this thread, it's apparent that cheats are and will always be unrepentant. Do not stoop to their level and deal them the same cards they dealt you. Just jejely leave. If they come back begging as they almost always do, don't go. He's only looking to share the numerous diseases he's contracted and couldn't care less about you. If he did he wouldn't have cheated. Leave. You'll be better for it. If for any reason you can't, you can follow my mum's advice on the first page. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 1:16pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
njokusboy: Exactly. What's the joy in this nonsense..and on top that, you lose your children's respect when they hear their mother was a who.re Leave and then enjoy whatever 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by cococandy(f): 1:17pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Lol you sound so pained Why? Don't even bother about who they get their pleasure from. Whether he's a gigolo who's doing it for money is non of your business and it is quite ok after all same applies to cheating men. The girls sleeping with married man aren't they doing it for money? Some have multiple boyfriends everywhere and use the married men for their financial needs. I don't see you laughing at the men for being used by runs girls who are enduring their smelly old pot bellied asses just for some change. Hypocriiiiii. njokusboy: 9 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Acidosis(m): 1:18pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by jadelyn007(f): 1:25pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
KissesandWine:babe, what you read on nairaland is not what goes in real life, some are blown out of proportion really, so chill ok 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by naijaboiy: 1:43pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Every woman will come here to support the cause but none will ever agree that they can actually do it in real life. I just pity the clueless people that come here to get one or two advises on here. 7 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
coogar:. Hehehehehe !!!! |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Acidosis: nice one,bro. WHy wouldnt their husbands cheat when all they can give their husbands are tokunbo pu$$eies. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 2:53pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
naijaboiy: Dont mind these noise makers. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by SAMBARRY: 3:17pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Hawa u DollyParton1: |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 5:32pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Avalon316:. Hahaha..........tear-nylon pu$$ies is the best, but some tokunbo pussies are not bad oo........lmao |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by UjSizzle(f): 5:49pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nonso23:Jesus said be wise as serpents and gentle as doves You think anyone would suspect me of murder? |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by UjSizzle(f): 6:21pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nonso23:If he loved me enough there will be no need for forgiveness na 5 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 6:23pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
njokusboy: Like that one that said she'd be a virgin till marriage in obedience of God's word, but would begin to open yansh up and down if she catches her husband cheating. I was like wtf. Why not just begin your career now? 1 Like |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 6:26pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nonso23: You of all people should realise this is rationalisation at its best. These ones are looking for a reason to cheat. When a woman says 'A', you better look at the 25 remaining alphabets and Greek lettering just to be sure. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 6:28pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
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Re: Ladies Talk To Me by UjSizzle(f): 6:30pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nonso23:The same bible that says flee from all manner of unrighteousness. You see 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 6:34pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
UjSizzle: Nobody marries for love, something your aunt neglected to mention. Everybody should know their place and role and act accordingly. |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 6:34pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by UjSizzle(f): 6:38pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Timbuktou:I think we marry out of a deep desire to feel complete. Probably the same reason some people turn to sex when they're lonely and feeling empty. |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 6:39pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nonso23:Hehehe. Do that, brother. Better safe than sorry. 2 Likes |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
UjSizzle: I have a different hypothesis. We have been conditioned, by society, to value marriage, and rightly so, I might add. I mean, what, exactly, do men gain from marriage? We toil till our last for the wives and children. In a situation where the man, the wife and the child are in danger with the reality that only two of the three could survive, who dies, and why? Try answering these posers honestly and try to raise corollaries. Sex serves a million purposes, people could turn to it for any of these. |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 6:49pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
UjSizzle: I think it depends on the age the individuals are at Younger couples are more likely to marry for love than older couples IMHO When one is older and "set in their ways " it becomes more for companionship and perhaps a need to please others ( family ,society,clock running out,prove a point etc).when the older couples are in their second marriage,it adds on a whole 'nother dimension,love may not be tops on the list,I think. This is a good topic for another thread |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by UjSizzle(f): 6:51pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
Nonso23:And it says we have grace. We are no longer slaves to sin but righteousness. Adultery has always been a sin. Why excuse it? *appropriate smiley missing* |
Re: Ladies Talk To Me by Nobody: 6:56pm On Jun 05, 2015 |
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