I have read about people throwing parties when they want to propose to ladies. The question I do ask, if the proposal takes the girl unaware, what if she says "no" after guy kneels, thrusts the engagement ring in the presence everybody? If the guys tells the girls before hand, and she accepts, is throwing the party necessary? I once read of a girl on this forum, whom after accepting to marry a guy, told him to throw a dinner where her family and that of the guy would be present, to make it "romantic." What is wrong in a guy proposing in a quiet place, his house or on the phone with a girl he has been in a relationship?

It isn't actually. That's the norm these days tho

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Matter of choice

For me its not, let the marriage speak not engagement.

It looks absurd for a guy to kneel before a girl, not because he offended her and is appologizing, but because he wants her to marry him. If I offend my woman, I may kneel to beg her, not to propose.

elantraceey:
For me its not, let the marriage speak not engagement.

it come down to personal choice......

some like it hot............. haalet everyon know

or

just cool .............take it slow



elantraceey
i know thats the way you like things

robosky02:


it come down to personal choice......

some like it hot............. haalet everyon know

or

just cool .............take it slow



elantraceey
i know thats the way you like things

Yea, I love simplicity, no need for all those publicity stunts, just a romantic dinner for us only will do.

Anything that is not on the phone is fine

elantraceey:


Yea, I love simplicit, just a romantic dinner for us only will do.

hmm that will be nice

I don't even think am gonna throw any dinner for wedding,not to talk of engagement ...

elantraceey:


Yea, I love simplicity, no need for all those publicity stunts, just a romantic dinner for us only will do.

To what extent would a guy have been in a relationship with a girl that would give him the confidence that his proposal won't be turned down at the dinner?