a 24 year-old lady who has been dating
a guy for about 4 years now.
He dis-virgined me when I was 22 years old,
which means we dated for aproximately 2
years without sex.
My pastor revealed to my mum that he is
my future husband and that we are destined
to marry each other. He was detailed, telling
her his names, state of origin and even
described his physical appearance
accurately. All this was to convince me that
his revelation had to be genuine.
About the guy, he is a caring, loving,
handsome and a God-fearing guy. He loves
me and I know it, he treats me like a queen
and has introduced me to all his family
members including extended ones home and
abroad. And they all claim that it is the first
time that he will be doing this.
But recently, he started acting funny. He
gets several calls and text messages from
several girls. Some girl sent me an invite on
WhatsApp. One time, she updated her
profile with photos of her and my
boyfriend, kissing. I acted like I was cool
with the girl, not letting her know how I
actually felt. She probably thought that I am
an ex girlfriend of his.
I saved those pictures and showed them to
my boyfriend. He begged me and promised
that he’ll let the girl go. We settled our
differences and things were fine again
between us.
Earlier this morning, he came around. He
had forgotten to clear his conversation with
the girl. I went through his chat and
discovered that they had fought but
reconciled. My boyfriend sent her some
‘missing you’ and apology messages when
she found out that I was his girlfriend. I
confronted him again but this time around,
he threatened me with a breakup.
I locked my door and hid the key because
he vowed to breakup with me if he found
his way out.
About me: I am a model, tall, slim, dark-
skinned and beautiful. I won the most
beautiful girl award for my department. I
am any guy’s choice.
The question is: should I continue to beg my
boyfriend just because it has been revealed
by my pastor that he is destined to be my
husband in future? I know God can’t lie but
I can’t continue to beg just to hold a man.
Or should I open the door and let him out
of my life? Will I have a better option? We
understand each other so well, we fight less
and play more. I love him so much but I
can’t keep begging him my entire life. What
do you think?

Go ask your pastor if you fit break up with am since he told you he's your husband.....

what I think? okay

I think you're bored and you made up this story cos you really need the attention.

since it has been revealed to you dat he is ur husband, just pray for him that God may change his heart. don't forget that what is meant for you will always come looking for you. if he is truly yours, he will come baq to be serious with you!!! Pls, don't beg him to love you or stay with you because it decreases ur self esteem as a lady. if eventually you succeeded in holding him down and you get married, he might still find his baq to those girls even in marriage, and dat makes d marriage endurable and not enjoyable.
do most important thing is to pray or go baq to ur pastor because the Lord won't lie!!!

The way people believe some fake pastors these days ehn… mtchew

The way people believe some fake pastors these days ehn… mtchew#finishes his orijin gets up and strolls outta thread#

@ op, please move on with your life and forget about the dude. He will end up breaking your heart in pieces. the earlier you move on the better for you.

And by the way, pay no heed to your pastor or any self aclaimed man of god who tickles your ears by lying to you. Dont believe him. he is a con artist.

what are u begging him for??

misspicy you are very lucky this is happening before you are entangled in a marriage with this young man be kind to yourself open the door and send him on his way, its going to hurt but you will be alright. He even vowed to leave you once he gets out sweetie open that door. After this beggi beggi he will only offer you crumbs since its is now obvious to him that you will do anything to keep him in your life even throw yourself under an oncoming bus just to maintain some sort of non existent relationship with him. Do you love him more than you love yourself?

You won't always feel the pain of a breakup, the quicker you leave this relationship the faster you get healed. Step up and take care of yourself and yes you will have better options men who will treat you well because they can recognize your value. Who won't have the audacity to cheat on you and promise to break up with you because you questioned them.

The pastor who knows which spirit was revealing what to him. God is not in the business of humans mistreating each other he did say love your neighbor as yourself does this guy love you as himself? No he loves himself. You see if he loves you as himself he will be truthful to tell you babes its not working i met someone new not keep you as a side dish and keep playing with your heart.

misspicy:
a 24 year-old lady who has been dating
a guy for about 4 years now.
He dis-virgined me when I was 22 years old,
which means we dated for aproximately 2
years without sex.
My pastor revealed to my mum that he is
my future husband and that we are destined
to marry each other. He was detailed, telling
her his names, state of origin and even
described his physical appearance
accurately. All this was to convince me that
his revelation had to be genuine.
About the guy, he is a caring, loving,
handsome and a God-fearing guy. He loves
me and I know it, he treats me like a queen
and has introduced me to all his family
members including extended ones home and
abroad. And they all claim that it is the first
time that he will be doing this.
But recently, he started acting funny. He
gets several calls and text messages from
several girls. Some girl sent me an invite on
WhatsApp. One time, she updated her
profile with photos of her and my
boyfriend, kissing. I acted like I was cool
with the girl, not letting her know how I
actually felt. She probably thought that I am
an ex girlfriend of his.
I saved those pictures and showed them to
my boyfriend. He begged me and promised
that he’ll let the girl go. We settled our
differences and things were fine again
between us.
Earlier this morning, he came around. He
had forgotten to clear his conversation with
the girl. I went through his chat and
discovered that they had fought but
reconciled. My boyfriend sent her some
‘missing you’ and apology messages when
she found out that I was his girlfriend. I
confronted him again but this time around,
he threatened me with a breakup.
I locked my door and hid the key because
he vowed to breakup with me if he found
his way out.
About me: I am a model, tall, slim, dark-
skinned and beautiful. I won the most
beautiful girl award for my department. I
am any guy’s choice.
The question is: should I continue to beg my
boyfriend just because it has been revealed
by my pastor that he is destined to be my
husband in future? I know God can’t lie but
I can’t continue to beg just to hold a man.
Or should I open the door and let him out
of my life? Will I have a better option? We
understand each other so well, we fight less
and play more. I love him so much but I
can’t keep begging him my entire life. What
do you think?

if u av begged him enough nd he still insists on breaking up with u then let go....if itz rilly tru dat u guyz will get married in the future,bliv me he will come back....God's will"will surely be done!!

[quote author=misspicy post=34620731] a 24 year-old lady who has been dating
a guy for about 4 years now.
He dis-virgined me when I was 22 years old,
which means we dated for aproximately 2
years without sex.
My pastor revealed to my mum that he is
my future husband and that we are destined
to marry each other. He was detailed, telling
her his names, state of origin and even
described his physical appearance
accurately. All this was to convince me that
his revelation had to be genuine.
About the guy, he is a caring, loving,
handsome and a God-fearing guy. He loves
me and I know it, he treats me like a queen
and has introduced me to all his family
members including extended ones home and
abroad. And they all claim that it is the first
time that he will be doing this.
But recently, he started acting funny. He
gets several calls and text messages from
several girls. Some girl sent me an invite on
WhatsApp. One time, she updated her
profile with photos of her and my
boyfriend, kissing. I acted like I was cool
with the girl, not letting her know how I
actually felt. She probably thought that I am
an ex girlfriend of his.
I saved those pictures and showed them to
my boyfriend. He begged me and promised
that he’ll let the girl go. We settled our
differences and things were fine again
between us.
Earlier this morning, he came around. He
had forgotten to clear his conversation with
the girl. I went through his chat and
discovered that they had fought but
reconciled. My boyfriend sent her some
‘missing you’ and apology messages when
she found out that I was his girlfriend. I
confronted him again but this time around,
he threatened me with a breakup.
I locked my door and hid the key because
he vowed to breakup with me if he found
his way out.
About me: I am a model, tall, slim, dark-
skinned and beautiful. I won the most
beautiful girl award for my department. I
am any guy’s choice.
The question is: should I continue to beg my
boyfriend just because it has been revealed
by my pastor that he is destined to be my
husband in future? I know God can’t lie but
I can’t continue to beg just to hold a man.
Or should I open the door and let him out
of my life? Will I have a better option? We
understand each other so well, we fight less
and play more. I love him so much but I
can’t keep begging him my entire life. What
do you think?[/quot

I hardly belive men of God wen it comes dating but marriage I fit manage believe them small. my dear u better leave that relationship before it too late.

What is religion doing to people

Sexxkillz:
This story is faker than Nicky Minaj's ass. . .

you don handle am before?

I'm so sure the spirit that spoke to the "supposed" pastor is fake or wait......why do people always meet these fake personalities for things like this all in the name of security in relationships?

#PureNonesense