GeneralQuamdeen:
Another jealous guy that doesnt want to admit it.. You cant her lifestyle bro..and if you try to make her stop liking it.. She wont stop liking it.. She would stop liking you..

Cutehector:
Stupidity

Cutehector:
Stupidity

stupidity:
Please pardon my moniker, I am more than serious with this post. Your advice is needed. And please don't try to point out my "gbagauns".

We knew each other in class(course mates) we started off from helping each other with class works and assignment. From there we started visiting each others house and spend time together, some of my friends even thought I was dating her. Later I started having feelings for her, and I wanted to ask her out but I noticed something about her, she welcomes too much guys into her social life, she doesn't have a female friend, only guys. Almost every guy in my faculty(not only department) wants her as a girlfriend or sex-mate. when taking a walk with her, she will excuse me like almost 9/10 of guys that passes by to greet them. When she's at my home, her phone is more than a business line. Always guys asking her where she is and inviting her over, at times she leaves my place to another guy(s) house after receiving the call. She also spends weekends at these guy(s) place, she doesn't sleep her room at night, she said she's scared of sleeping alone, rather she sleeps at her lodge mates room(a guy) its soo annoying and too much from her. Though I don't know if she's having sex with these guys, I am trying not to believe she's sleeping with them. But she spent the night at my place yesterday and we had sex. After the sex it got me thinking she might be giving these guys too. I am trying not to believe it, I think she's just being jovial and friendly type. I want to make things official with this girl, I want to make her my girlfriend but how can I change her from this her lifestyle? It kills me with jealousy. I confided in a friend and he insisted I take my "share" and let go of her or continue being a "share holder". I don't want it that way. I love her, though am yet to tell her. What if I advice her and she makes me her enemy? She might think its because we had sex that prompt me to come up with such advice. Please how do I advice her and how can I change her lifestyle?? I am in love!!!

MrCork:



....changin yor name from stupiditty to sttupid normally helps...its easier to remember! (no ofeense)

naijaboiy:
Guys often don't like girls who are very jovial with every guy they come across.

Dating that kind of girl is a very risky thing and you may end up shattering your heart. You can't change her.

Forget about asking her out and maintain the friendship. Since you are not interested in the sex,,then stop having sex with her.

Simple.

naijaboiy:
Guys often don't like girls who are very jovial with every guy they come across.

Dating that kind of girl is a very risky thing and you may end up shattering your heart. You can't change her.

Forget about asking her out and maintain the friendship. Since you are not interested in the sex,,then stop having sex with her.

Simple.

naijaboiy:
Guys often don't like girls who are very jovial with every guy they come across.

Dating that kind of girl is a very risky thing and you may end up shattering your heart. You can't change her.

Forget about asking her out and maintain the friendship. Since you are not interested in the sex,,then stop having sex with her.

Simple.

jamex93:
she is a friend material, and if d friendship is going well i advice u to keep it dat way


once had a friend like dat during my ND


just dont go beyond friendship unless everything will crash

Senjo:
seconded
D same way she let u in as a frnd wit benefit is d same way she does to other guys
Forget d part of u trying to change ha cos dat d type of person she is n she wil only change wen she realize ha jovial attitude only makes ha Doro shareful giver ;Dseconded
D same way she let u in as a frnd wit benefit is d same way she does to other guys
Forget d part of u trying to change ha cos dat d type of person she is n she wil only change wen she realize ha jovial attitude only makes ha Doro shareful giver

Hishuula:
after what the guy said ?? Must you insult ?

stupidity:
"she would stop liking me" exactly my fear. But what do you advice I do? Continue enjoying the sex? Sex is not what I want from her but her heart and attention. Advice please.

stupidity:
so the free sex should continue?

GeneralQuamdeen:
there are ways you can psychologically bend a girl to your will without he even realizing it.. Dont tell her directly that you want her to change... Use sentence like this in your discussion.. "i know a gal that doesnt keep much male friends and that why her guy love her so much".. Teach her but let her feel like the teacher.. I dont know how to explain it but i hope you know what you are talking about..

jamex93:





una don reach dat level?

stupidity:
lol. Forget free sex? Which guy does that!!! Though I got your points, I think am just being jealous.

2dice:
Some Guys they loook for these kind of bonanza .... Op get am now for free ...Bro you cant change her ... Only when is tired of flexing then she will change her self ....I will advice to quit the sex ...it is getting you more Emotional ....U sound like the possessive type tho ....*for your own good

blueandbirds:
@ op I feel ur pain, buh rely you are not apc I don't kno why you wan to change her? She's livin the life she choose and I guess she's loving it, well my advice to u as a real G, kip digging dat kitten till u wreck it buh if you don't like the idea of you wreckin the kitten for her den jus take her as ur frd its a simple thing, if you dare try to advice her eh jus forget abou the so called friendship so the best thin you can do is to play along, if you are lucky enough she might fall in love wit u along the line.. Safe! Dr. Mo..

ihustler:
Sorry friend, you've been FRIENDZONED!!!

stupidity:
please read the post again.

stupidity:
@ possessive, am speechless. You got me.